Imagine it’s 2015. The “Don’t Judge Challenge” is trending, Snapchat filters are still great, and you are scrolling on whatever social media was popping back then and stumble across the slang phrases popular at the time: “on fleek,” “bae” (guilty of using it still), or “goals.” Speaking of which, ever since #GOALS started trending, the term 'relationship goals’ has become something of a mockery and utterly unattainable to normal, aka non-influencer, couples. However, while the idea of a couple setting relationship goals today may seem cringe, it's really not; in fact, it's very encouraged.
Let's not mix up the expectations set by the media and actually achievable, healthy relationship goals. First, the relationship goals checklist should be very individual per couple. While similar, every couple faces different problems. No couple is perfect (except for Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds); everyone needs a little polishing done there and there. Whether having trust issues, opposing opinions, or carrying hurts from the past, every pair has at least a single relationship goal they could work on to improve their affinity. And luckily, if you are in it for the long term, there's plenty of time to achieve every single one of them.
Below, we've compiled the relationship goals ideas that will hopefully inspire you to sweeten your relationship with your soulmate. From joint recreation time to saying "I love you" more, below, you will find the many cute relationship goals and objectives you may want to apply to your love life. What's your opinion regarding setting goals in a relationship? Voice your thoughts in the comments! P.S. Don't forget to give the cutest relationship goals an upvote!
#41
Set expectations for PDA.
Some couples enjoy exchanging kisses and being all touchy in front of others, while others don't. And that's perfectly fine. Just be aware of your partner's preferences and respect the boundaries you have talked about.
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#42
Enjoy the great outdoors together.
Any amount of vitamin D is beneficial. A delightful way to spend time together is to find outside activities that both you and your S/O will enjoy. You can't go wrong with some outdoor time, whether you want to read a book in the shade of a tree or go on a long weekend hike.
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#43
Make your home feel like home.
If you share a home with your S/O, create an atmosphere that gives you both a sense of security, comfort, and love. Creating an environment that supports you both when life gets busy will serve you a long way.
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#44
Say "I love you" often.
Likely, your lover won't get tired of hearing you say, "I love you," no matter how many times you say it. Just three short words might be exactly what they needed at that moment. Apply this frequently!
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#45
Start small.
Oftentimes, the goals portrayed by these contemporary couples you see on TikTok or Instagram "living their best life" might appear so lofty that realizing them can seem unattainable. So, why bother? Well, for many reasons. As the old saying goes, the grass is always greener on the other side. Hence, work on taking baby steps to put YOU and YOUR partner on the right track rather than allowing yourself to become overwhelmed.
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#46
In sickness and in health.
There are times when things are better and others when they are worse. Your relationship may be healthy at times or may face difficulties. Accepting both the good and the bad in a relationship is a great indicator of a strong relationship. Work on it.
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#47
Romance never goes out of fashion.
Clichés can be super helpful at times. Do the simplest things that will make you both feel cherished without spending any money. Enjoy the stars, take a bubble bath at home, or get up early to watch the sunrise together. Romance is not dead. We repeat: ROMANCE IS NOT DEAD!
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#48
The phone trust test.
Would you snoop into your partner's phone if they had left it within easy reach? Would you check their messages, gallery, or Instagram DMs? Or do you fully trust your partner? Having a solid foundation of trust is one of the fundamental objectives of any relationship. If trust is something you need to work on, be sure to make time for it.
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#49
Document your relationship.
Documenting your love is a beautiful relationship goal to set. Messages of reinforcement, movie ticket receipts, photos from memorable occasions, and other sentimental items may be saved and stored in a box as a constant reminder of your relationship's bliss. When having problems, whether concerning your relationship or not, you can open the memory box and remind yourself that you always have someone to rely on or that you have shared many more happy moments than sad ones.
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#50
Make a 5-year plan.
For a happy, long-lasting relationship, partners must have a vision for their future both as a couple and as individuals. And most importantly, their future plans shouldn’t contradict each other. Thus, if you haven’t done so already, talk to your partner about your plans for the future. Outline your expectations and aspirations regarding housing, careers, income, and other important areas of life.
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#51
Make a budget — and stick to it.
In any relationship, money-related issues become the subject of many heated arguments. Unfortunately, heated not in the sense that two get turned on and take things to the bedroom. It should come as no surprise that disagreements over finances are one of the main reasons for breakups and divorce. Hence, having the “money talk” with your partner is very important, whether it requires setting up a budget and tracking finances or not.
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#52
Read together.
If both of you enjoy reading, engage in it together. Whether you are reading separately or prefer for one to read while the other is listening, it’s a perfect way to spend a rainy Saturday afternoon. However, the partner who’s reading gets their coffee or hot cocoa served!
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#53
Make time to touch base every day.
Making time to talk about your days with each other can become neglected in the jumble of daily life. Still, always make time to talk about what's new in your life and spend at least a few minutes together whenever you get the chance, whether it's at the dinner table or while getting ready in the morning. Heck, even if one is taking, excuse us, a dookie while the other is in the shower!
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#54
Keep in touch with each other's loved ones.
Building ties with the people your S/O cares about is necessary for you and your significant other to live harmoniously. Thus, participate in your partner's family events and celebrations. Whenever you get the occasion, try to involve them, reach out to them, and get to know them. Even if you don't form a solid friendship, respect is the bare minimum.
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#55
Sign up for an exercise or art class together.
Leaving the house to engage in an enjoyable activity as a pair will help you grow closer. Whether you choose spin classes at the gym or painting or ceramics classes at a neighboring studio, taking up a new pastime with your partner will strengthen your relationship and provide you both with a memory you'll treasure for years to come.
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#56
Make time to chill together.
You can organize one evening weekly for relaxing spa treatments, such as massages or bubble baths. Even evenings spent on the couch eating chocolate-covered strawberries and watching Netflix with face masks on count towards the experience. After a long day or workweek, treating your significant other to a relaxing evening can help both of you decompress.
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#57
Make a list of things you love about each other and exchange them.
A physical reminder of why you love each other can be helpful on days when nothing seems to go right. Write down all the attributes of your partner you love and exchange the lists. When you feel a little low, and your partner isn't around to reassure you, look at the list and be reminded of all the lovely reasons your partner fell in love with you.
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#58
Communicate about intimacy.
If you haven't already, now might be the perfect moment to have an open conversation about intimacy and the bedroom stuff. Because each individual is unique, sexual compatibility depends just as much on communication as it does on chemistry. Communicate your needs clearly, and it's very likely that all your wishes be granted *wink wink.*
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#59
Forget "me vs. you"; it's "us vs. the problem."
It might be all too easy to feel that you and your partner are at odds when life's tensions arise. However, adopting an "us vs. the problem" mentality means that you and your partner are fighting the challenges you are experiencing together as a team. This keeps you strong as a duo and often makes the problem go away faster.
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#60
Learn something new about each other.
You could assume you know everything about your partner if you've been together for a while. But because people are so multifaceted and complex, new discoveries can be made constantly. Find a way to learn something new about them every week.
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