Imagine it’s 2015. The “Don’t Judge Challenge” is trending, Snapchat filters are still great, and you are scrolling on whatever social media was popping back then and stumble across the slang phrases popular at the time: “on fleek,” “bae” (guilty of using it still), or “goals.” Speaking of which, ever since #GOALS started trending, the term 'relationship goals’ has become something of a mockery and utterly unattainable to normal, aka non-influencer, couples. However, while the idea of a couple setting relationship goals today may seem cringe, it's really not; in fact, it's very encouraged.
Let's not mix up the expectations set by the media and actually achievable, healthy relationship goals. First, the relationship goals checklist should be very individual per couple. While similar, every couple faces different problems. No couple is perfect (except for Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds); everyone needs a little polishing done there and there. Whether having trust issues, opposing opinions, or carrying hurts from the past, every pair has at least a single relationship goal they could work on to improve their affinity. And luckily, if you are in it for the long term, there's plenty of time to achieve every single one of them.
Below, we've compiled the relationship goals ideas that will hopefully inspire you to sweeten your relationship with your soulmate. From joint recreation time to saying "I love you" more, below, you will find the many cute relationship goals and objectives you may want to apply to your love life. What's your opinion regarding setting goals in a relationship? Voice your thoughts in the comments! P.S. Don't forget to give the cutest relationship goals an upvote!
#61
Make love a certain number of times each week.
Humans are animals, and animals have instincts. In the animal world, it's (not-so-appealingly) called "mating." Everyone's needs are different, and for some people, it's necessary to have consistent, routine lovemaking. Hence, discuss the "perfect dose" of coupling you would like (or can handle) per week. Or day. Some couples do it once a week, while others need it daily. Whatever the number is, as long as the two of you are satisfied, it's enough.
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#62
Cuddle each other daily.
To achieve your relationship goals, you must master the skill of affection. Physical touch is crucial in conveying our love to our partner, even more so if it's their primary love language. This can take many different forms: a kiss on the forehead, a back rub as they play video games, a hand on your leg while they drive, holding hands, or a 10-minute morning cuddle.
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#63
Work out together.
Making the time to focus on your physical well-being will help your relationship (and you!) become stronger. Increased fertility, attractiveness, and good hormone levels are all benefits of maintaining a healthy weight.
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#64
Set expectations for gifts.
One of the most trying aspects of a relationship might be giving gifts. Choosing gifts might be stressful (when it shouldn't be) when you don't know how big or expensive they should be. The easiest way to avoid leaving things up to interpretation is to discuss your expectations for gifts in advance.
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#65
Discuss social media.
Every couple is unique, so it's essential to understand how your partner approaches social media. Decide on your privacy preferences, the suitable content to post, and the level of public exposure you and your partner are okay with. Last but not least, follow the guidelines you've agreed on!
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#66
Talk about your "next steps."
You and your partner must agree on the direction of your relationship. Knowing where your partner's mind is will help maintain a solid foundation of your relationship, whether you're dating and talking about getting engaged, married and talking about having kids, or entirely in another stage of life.
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#67
Start planning to become parents.
Suppose you've decided that you both want to become parents. First of all, congrats! Second, starting to mentally and financially prepare for kids is essential. There are many things to consider. When will you start trying to conceive? Should you go off a particular medication before you do? What are your plans in case you experience fertility problems? How will you manage work and raising a child? Will either of you go on maternity or paternity leave, etc.? Have a plan, and you'll be alright. You will be alright anyways, but having a plan sure helps!
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#68
Start preparing for retirement.
It's never too early to start preparing for the inevitable. If you two are in this relationship for the long term, retirement is a topic you should definitely discuss. Do you have a target retirement age in mind? What kind of lifestyle do you imagine having at this point in your lives? Spend some time discussing these questions to ensure that you have a shared understanding of your future. Then, monitor the situation and periodically assess if you're on track to achieve those goals.
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#69
Make time (and money) to have fun.
Making time and putting money aside for pleasant activities with one another is necessary for fulfilling relationships. Consider the money you should set aside from your paycheck for fun things to do together, especially after starting a family. Also, decide what is more important. For example, would you rather go on a weekly date or take a short trip every three months? Make a mutual decision and stick to it.
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#70
Prioritize your relationship.
Put your relationship first. Put your partner first. According to research, prioritizing your relationship gives children the protection, comfort, and stability they need to grow. Also, couples that prioritize their relationship create an ideal space where everyone feels cared for, supported, and secure.
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