Imagine it’s 2015. The “Don’t Judge Challenge” is trending, Snapchat filters are still great, and you are scrolling on whatever social media was popping back then and stumble across the slang phrases popular at the time: “on fleek,” “bae” (guilty of using it still), or “goals.” Speaking of which, ever since #GOALS started trending, the term 'relationship goals’ has become something of a mockery and utterly unattainable to normal, aka non-influencer, couples. However, while the idea of a couple setting relationship goals today may seem cringe, it's really not; in fact, it's very encouraged.
Let's not mix up the expectations set by the media and actually achievable, healthy relationship goals. First, the relationship goals checklist should be very individual per couple. While similar, every couple faces different problems. No couple is perfect (except for Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds); everyone needs a little polishing done there and there. Whether having trust issues, opposing opinions, or carrying hurts from the past, every pair has at least a single relationship goal they could work on to improve their affinity. And luckily, if you are in it for the long term, there's plenty of time to achieve every single one of them.
Below, we've compiled the relationship goals ideas that will hopefully inspire you to sweeten your relationship with your soulmate. From joint recreation time to saying "I love you" more, below, you will find the many cute relationship goals and objectives you may want to apply to your love life. What's your opinion regarding setting goals in a relationship? Voice your thoughts in the comments! P.S. Don't forget to give the cutest relationship goals an upvote!
#21
Create a savings goal for an indulgence item or trip.
There is no better time to start saving than now if you and your partner share any goals you want to achieve. Together, set a savings target for the vehicle, luxury getaway, new house, or whatever the two of you have dreamed of.
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#22
Help each other achieve individual goals.
Contrary to popular belief, a relationship is also a partnership. As a result, it’s about working as a team and supporting one another individually. You may want to start a new exercise regimen, learn a foreign language, or work on your inner self. Talk about your personal objectives and hold each other accountable.
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#23
Become best friends.
This relationship goal is simple and straightforward: become best friends. Ultimately, your partner is someone who understands you and (likely) spends most of their time with you. As the adage goes, "love is friendship set on fire."
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#24
Watch each other's favorite film or read each other's favorite book.
Although it is said that the eyes are the window to the soul, in today's media-driven world, your partner's preferred book, movie, or television program may reveal much more about them than the color of their eyes could. Engaging in something that has touched your S/O's heart is an excellent way to get to know them better.
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#25
Create a morning and evening routine.
Nothing helps you start and end each day on the right foot more than having a morning and evening routine that establishes expectations and time for you to spend with each other. For example, if you wake up at different times or one of you doesn't eat breakfast, make it a habit to eat dinner together. Your evening routine may involve taking off your makeup while your S/O blasts songs in the shower. Whatever suits your schedule!
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#26
Never stop flirting with each other.
When you've been in a relationship for a long time, you don't feel the need to impress or win over your partner. Stop now and alter that perception! Making eye contact, teasing, using cute nicknames, and pretending to pick up your S/O at a bar are all considered flirting. Just because you've established a relationship with someone doesn't mean you should stop being flirty with them. Remind your partner (and yourself) why they captured your heart in the first place.
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#27
Hold hands more often.
Whether your or your S/O’s love language is physical touch, never cease holding hands. It is romantic, pulls you closer together, and reestablishes your connection all at once. Make it a habit. Whether you've been together for a short or a long time, young or old. Always keep hands together (or on each other). On the street, in the park, in bed, on the kitchen counter...
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#28
Discuss THOSE topics.
If you haven’t already, address issues like parenthood, religion, work-life balance, politics, and finances with your partner. If you and your partner don’t share the same opinion on everything, discussing it early on in a relationship will help you spot potential incompatibility areas so that you can prepare for them and work on them together.
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#29
Make a scrapbook of your favorite memories together.
How are you meant to remember every wonderful moment you've shared as a couple? Taking photos is key. Even if the two of you aren't in the frame, a photo of the beach you visited on the first date or the funny sign you saw on your car ride also count as excellent materials for a scrapbook. By making one, you can relive your favorite moments as often as you'd like.
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#30
Consider couple's therapy.
It's okay to seek counseling when things become difficult and you can't solve the issues between the two of you on your own. Despite the stigma surrounding therapy, whether individual or couple, these people are professionals who do this for a living. When your teeth hurt and painkillers cease to help, you don't just wait it out. You go to the dentist. Don't create a stigma around things that save millions of relationships.
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#31
Create an intimacy bucket list
Apply the concept of a bucket list — which we all know and understand — to your naughty life. Set aside time for each of you to list all the things you'd like to try. Whether it's toys, poses, or sites... you get the drill. Together, look over both lists and decide which list items you would be willing to try, hesitant to attempt, or absolutely not into. You'll gain clarity and perhaps find it easier to have this talk as a result, and you can then add the positives to your shared smexy bucket list!
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#32
Plan out a weekly date night where no phones are allowed.
Today, when every other interaction is done through a phone click, it might be difficult to go “offline,” even if it’s just for a few hours. However, not using your phone while with someone shows that you genuinely enjoy the time with that person. And believe us, they will undoubtedly notice and appreciate it. The interaction is much better when your eyes are locked on one another, not an LED screen.
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#33
Take a trip.
Think of going on a vacation with your partner if your current surroundings start to feel a little suffocating. From a weekend break to a cottage in the woods to an overseas voyage, there are many possibilities for a trip that will take you out of your element and help you and your partner reconnect.
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#34
Be honest with yourselves and each other.
For a relationship to be successful, honesty is key, yet often the hardest person to be honest with is yourself. Being honest with yourself and your S/O about what you need, want, and what isn't working for you can make you a stronger person and ensure your relationship lasts.
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#35
Keep your word.
When you promise to do anything for your significant other, follow through on your word! Keeping one's word can assist you and your S/O in developing trust. It will also demonstrate your genuine love and respect for them.
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#36
Learn to understand and celebrate your differences.
Openly discussing your similarities and differences with your partner will help you better understand (and predict) one another's emotions, reactions, and intentions.
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#37
Try something new together.
Learning something new together can help to spice things up when the days begin to blend into one another and become a little tedious. Whether it's baking from YouTube tutorials or skiing, learning new things can make hobbies you can enjoy together.
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#38
Celebrate your anniversaries.
Don't let exciting days as such pass without a celebration. No matter how long you've been dating (or married), marking the time you've spent together shows how important your relationship is to both of you. Guys, that's exactly why we need to decide on the date!
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#39
Make a chore chart.
Need help ironing out the finer points of household work? A chore chart can be very beneficial. It can make things go more smoothly and prevent conflicts over the dirty dishes in the sink by setting expectations for who will do which tasks and when.
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#40
Do something spur-of-the-moment.
Doing something impromptu with your significant other can add color to your life and relieve some of the tension of your rigid schedules in a society where we are expected to plan every aspect of our daily lives.
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