It would probably be impossible to go through life without keeping a single secret. We hide certain information about ourselves from others to protect our privacy, avoid unnecessary judgment, and navigate complicated social circles. But if we commit to someone, we sacrifice a bit of that independence. Or at least we should—on the matters that concern the other person.
However, when TikTok user Gessica (@gessicaplessofficial) asked everyone on the platform to share the worst things they discovered on their partner's phone, the replies made it clear that some people aren't ready to do that. Instead, they choose to conceal a side of themselves that could greatly affect the relationship. To show you that you can't truly know what is going on in another person's head until you see what's on their device, we put together a list of the most memorable stories from that thread.
#21
Was going to say learning he ordered food without me but I’ll keep my mouth shut and sit down.
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13points
#22
I found him messaging him someone saying he regretted proposing to me. I bought a flight home to my mom the next day
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13points
#23
a groupchat with my two best friends talking about how much they hated me 🫶🏻
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12points
#24
A second family. With a ring. A dog. And a kid on the way. He was living with me and we were having a baby.
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12points
#25
Texting another woman while I was asleep (a couple months after having a C-section) telling her “I wish she wasn’t the one next to me”
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12points
#26
I found that he uploaded our entire text history into ChatGPT using an extraction app and then asked it to analyze how I communicate and would then paste screen shots of our current messages and ask it “How should I respond to my wife? Make it sound like something I would say.” I found so many messages that I had received that were directly copy/pasted from ChatGPT. I’m basically in a relationship with A.I.
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12points
#27
Him and his ex were texting and trying to come up with a plan for her to come stay at our house and they were going to tell me they were cousins that just got back in touch
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11points
#28
he texted his coworker “what do you want for valentine’s day” while i was pregnant w our child & he hadn’t even asked me what i wanted for valentine’s day & spoiler i didn’t get anything either 🥹 (not my current man)
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11points
#29
He texted a girl asking to chill in his apartment, meanwhile it was MY apartment, I was working extra hours at the time
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11points
#30
A recording of himself twerking , his very hairy [behind] pics, him finding gay hook ups with old men on reddit and tik tok , convos of the 3 other relationships he was in (1 male, 2 female) and messages between him and his sister gettin nasty
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10points
#31
lol not the worst but using ChatGPT as a therapist to vent about how much he missed his ex. 6 years into our relationship.
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10points
#33
“I’ll find my way back to you” to another girl, one week before our wedding. However, I only found this 3 years later as we were divorcing and he was off spending time ~catching up~ with her. ✨ so, yes! he did in fact find his way back to her!
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10points
#34
a video of some other chick with a cucumber ON THE HOOD OF MY CAR in the parking lot of the pizza place he worked at.
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9points
#35
A highly detailed Excel spreadsheet of every argument we ever had, color-coded by 'who was right'. I was never right.
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9points
#36
he wrote our vows with chatgpt and told the literal AI to make it less emotional
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9points
#37
He had a notes list about all the things he hated about me 😭 it was three pages long
9points
#38
He would respond to bot automated texts or dms thinking they were real
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9points
#39
Cheating on me through call of duty mobile… CALL OF DUTY MOBILE
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8points
#40
He was secretly watching The Walking Dead while I was at work. Then would rewatch with me and “predict” what was going to happen. SMH that’s when I lost all trust in humanity. He even won a “bet” when Negan outed Glen.
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8points