It would probably be impossible to go through life without keeping a single secret. We hide certain information about ourselves from others to protect our privacy, avoid unnecessary judgment, and navigate complicated social circles. But if we commit to someone, we sacrifice a bit of that independence. Or at least we should—on the matters that concern the other person.
However, when TikTok user Gessica (@gessicaplessofficial) asked everyone on the platform to share the worst things they discovered on their partner's phone, the replies made it clear that some people aren't ready to do that. Instead, they choose to conceal a side of themselves that could greatly affect the relationship. To show you that you can't truly know what is going on in another person's head until you see what's on their device, we put together a list of the most memorable stories from that thread.
#1
I was married for almost 40 years. He went to heaven 14 years ago. I am now thrilled the only texts I didn’t like on his phone were when he’d forget to say thanks after asking me to bring home beer. All of y’all’s heartbreaking experiences are why I’m never ever ever trying again.
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31points
#2
Hours after giving birth my husband sent a couple photos of our son to his side chick and said “I wish I could have had my son with you instead”
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26points
#3
A girl's [bare] picture, so I made it his screensaver when he woke up
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24points
#4
Selling pics of himself in my lingerie to MEN off Craigslist 🙃 (this was 2015)
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24points
#5
Trying to find movie theatres on his phone, I see Stepfather and Stepdaughter [adult videos]. I had two daughters when we got married
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23points
#6
My ex had a video of him touching and grabbing his mom's tattas while she was sleeping and she didnt know about it until I showed her. The moment I saw, I broke up with him. there was so much more too
23points
#7
chatgpt with every single conversation we had being typed in so he could get a response to send to me. every single text he sent came from chat, even good morning messages. i was dating a robot
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21points
#8
A picture of him and a girl celebrating their 2 year anniversary… even though we had been together for 8 years
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20points
#10
A photo of me in my sleep, we don’t live together and she doesn’t have a key…
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19points
#11
He was messaging his ex telling her to come over. Worst part was I was in the hospital all alone getting prepped to have a kidney transplant the next morning.
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19points
#13
I was 5 months pregnant and found a message that said ‘congrats to you and Gemma on having a baby’ …..my name isn’t Gemma….but Gemma was 6 months pregnant with him 🫠
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18points
#15
I was pregnant with our second baby. Recently discussed baby names. He suggested the name of the girl he was DMing
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15points
#16
We were together for four years. We lived together. I found that he was married and had four children. 🤯 I had met her before. She introduced herself to me as his sister. Apparently they had an open marriage, but we didn’t have an open relationship.
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15points
#17
He had a hidden folder in a hidden app and it had MILLIONS no joke MILLIONS of women’s pics (nakey) Including mine while I was asleep… I deleted them all, deleted the app, left before he woke up and never spoke again
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14points
#18
he sent an [intimate] pic to his MOM for "approval" before sending the same pic to me. 😒
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13points
#19
That he voted for [the current president]… twice.
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13points
#20
Not on his phone, but he had a dresser i was absolutely NOT ALLOWED TO GO IN, it was full of his exes stuff from trinkets to underwear
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13points