Just for a moment, imagine coming back home from deployment to realize that someone else is living in your home. The moment you find out that your soulmate has cheated on you can make you feel like your heart is literally breaking. If your partner has any integrity left, they will tell you about the affair. However, in most cases, they will try to hide their infidelity, and you will stumble upon the unsavory truth by accident.
As a warning to all couples, cheating victims spilled the tea online about the ways that they found out about their significant others’ double lives, and it is wild. We’re bringing their raw and real stories to you, and they’re a reminder of all the overt and subtle relationship red flags to look out for.
#41
In my dreams. Wish I was kidding ! but I think I was subconsciously picking up on things I wasn’t really accepting or seeing in real life. Anyways yeah that relationship gave me literal ptsd because you can get so comfortable with someone and the whole time they’re doing vile things behind your back.
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8points
#42
It’s weird. I can sense changes in a persons energy towards me. I’ve been told it’s because i was traumatized and hurt as a child.
I’m also never wrong.
I’m also never wrong.
7points
#43
Short-ish version of the story is I had a dream that I confronted her and asked her if she’d been sleeping with someone and then the dream ended. I’d been sleeping in the basement between night shifts and when I woke up i went upstairs and I confronted her in the same way in the same spot in the house as in the dream. It was crazy. Things had been bad between us for a while but I had no specific reason to believe anything was happening other than a feeling, and then that dream. Things got worse from there.
7points
#44
My laptop was getting buggy, so he let me use his old one while we researched a new one. When we had made a decision, he bought it for me as a gift. When it arrived, he decided to keep it since "You're used to my old laptop now."
We broke up shortly after.
About a month after the breakup, I decided to purge everything with his name, all old files, documents etc. And that's when I saw his old email conversations with other women and all the receipts for dating sites. Honestly there was so much I had to break it down into category and subcategory.
Turns out he had been cheating the entire 8 years we had been together.
We broke up shortly after.
About a month after the breakup, I decided to purge everything with his name, all old files, documents etc. And that's when I saw his old email conversations with other women and all the receipts for dating sites. Honestly there was so much I had to break it down into category and subcategory.
Turns out he had been cheating the entire 8 years we had been together.
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7points
#45
It started from the many “hints” he dropped almost from the beginning really. It really was sick- almost like he had pleasure from dangling what he was doing behind my back and then when I would question it, he would call me paranoid. He was basically a psychopath.
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7points
#46
My husband did it while I was in the house and the hospital. Just behind a closed and locked door 😔😔😔.
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7points
#47
One of her best friends that was way hotter told me.
All of my friends that were hanging out with my gf and her side piece never told me then justified it.
In the end, I won. Her friend told me for a very specific reason.
College was fun.
All of my friends that were hanging out with my gf and her side piece never told me then justified it.
In the end, I won. Her friend told me for a very specific reason.
College was fun.
5points
#48
Things changed she started getting distant and secretive and really catty turning everything she could into a fight. So I knew she was cheating then a coworker found her dating profile.
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5points
#49
He started sharing Snapchat stories when he was in town. I thought he was trying to surprise me but forgot to post them on his private story. It showed he was on a speedboat with friends, but his friends were the type to bring random girls on. Needless to say, he accidentally shared a girl on his lap with the world. My roommate intercepted them when they got to the docks. She fought all three girls single-handedly.
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5points
