Infidelity can be one of the weirdest things that people are involved in. They could end things with someone, but they choose to cheat instead. Alas, some humans want the best of both worlds. But it’s really shocking how much effort they are willing to put into their affairs. In fact, some even lead double lives.
Well, they don’t always get away with it, but things can get utterly messy when they are caught. One netizen asked people to spill the tea on wild incidents involving their partners’ double lives, and they didn’t hold back. From heartbreaking to unhinged, here are the wildest tales that folks shared!
#81
When I was questioning my own sanity/intuition even though all the facts and clues were right in my face. Ex: daily calls/texts from his "ex" for which he excused as "I'm all she has" and "i feel bad not responding because shes all alone." I didn't want to be the crazy controlling girlfriend so I swallowed my concern and held my tongue. Then I went through his phone and found very affectionate language being used. THAT should have been the big give away but nope! He gave me some other lie that I somehow chocked down bc I didn't want to believe someone could do that to me. Absolute giveaway was when she answered the phone one morning when I was on my way to pick him up. Apparently he had been with this girl for 3+ years and with me 1+ year. I found out that I was the other woman.
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#82
He told me I was being jealous and paranoid and I just trusted him that we were monogamous and he turned out to be a lying loser.
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#83
I’ve dated several. My biggest lesson is that when you’re gut is telling you it feels wrong, it’s always wrong. Trust yourself!
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#84
My ex husband is bipolar, and doesnt take medication. Im retrospect, his depressive episodes should have tipped me off. He refuses to take anything, and i didnt find out til a week before i found out he was creating.
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#85
Randomly disappearing for the night and texting in the morning saying he fell asleep. Not talking for days at a time to come back and say some emergency came up. Not adding me to any social media accounts because he claims he doesn't use them. And I was surprised when I found out I was one of at least three women. And a wife. I fully take responsibility for that stupidity.
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#86
Not me but a former friend.
I stayed with them for a few weeks when I moved to their city. Her boyfriend was cheating on her.
For me the sign was he claimed he was out late at the gym but I saw no gains.
I stayed with them for a few weeks when I moved to their city. Her boyfriend was cheating on her.
For me the sign was he claimed he was out late at the gym but I saw no gains.
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#87
I saw all the signs of my husband being in another relationship but chose to not believe them because I didn't want to seem like a crazy person.
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#88
My now-ex-husband forgot to tell me he had a daughter until we had been married for about six months. He never saw or mentioned her.
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#89
An old coworker had a husband who worked out of town. They had children together. He went on to have not one but TWO other children with two different women out of town. Women he had entire fake lives with — fake name, lied about having a wife and kids, everything. She ended up staying with him and went on to have another kid with him. SMH
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#90
My first husband and I got married pretty quickly because I got pregnant. After we were married, I learned he had a wife in another state and that we were only in our state for work
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#91
About a week after we got married, I learned he'd been cheating on me for our entire relationship up until the point when I found out. So that was fun
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