One of the earliest adult realizations you might make going into adulthood is that making new friends as an adult is hard. You’re no longer going to summer camps; you have no student clubs and societies to attend and no school group projects to work on. You might wonder, “How do I make friends as an adult, then?” If it helps, you are not the only one confused here; we’re all in the same boat.
Quite a handful of threads on AskReddit have appeared in the past, with people asking precisely how adults make friends. And although some queries were more specific and inquired how adults make friends while staying abstinent from alcohol, the issue remained the same: making friends as an adult outside of work and school.
Considering how many upvotes these Reddit threads (#1, #2, #3) have received, it became apparent that making and keeping friends as an adult is a struggle faced by many. Thankfully, to the rescue came individuals who somehow uncovered the secret to making and keeping friends as an adult.
Some answers provided solid advice, and others raised doubts about whether they should be taken seriously. Either way, the answers did not disappoint.
Below, we’ve compiled some of the most upvoted (not all necessarily practical) answers from the threads, revealing how to make friends as an adult.
Did you find any of these answers helpful? Give those an upvote. Also, do you agree that making friends as an adult is hard? Can you approve or disapprove of some of the answers based on your own experience? Let us know in the comments!
#41
igorsmith said:
"I'm pretty tight with a couple of neighbors. Play pickup hockey and watch stupid movies in the basement."
"I'm pretty tight with a couple of neighbors. Play pickup hockey and watch stupid movies in the basement."
Read_Before_U_Post replied:
"My best friend used to just be my neighbor years ago. We just started chatting and hanging out when we saw each other. Now we talk almost every day on the phone, meet up on the weekends and try to play music, and I've made a couple of really great friends through him.
"My best friend used to just be my neighbor years ago. We just started chatting and hanging out when we saw each other. Now we talk almost every day on the phone, meet up on the weekends and try to play music, and I've made a couple of really great friends through him.
It's worth saying hi to the people round you. You never know how good some people could be."
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#44
"Despite all the stigma I can say I have made some very close friends over the internet. Visit a community that has a topic you're passionate about. Since you already have an interest in common you'll never run out of discussion topics and you can talk to them whenever you feel like it."
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#46

swe3nytodd said:
"Brazilian jiu jitsu."
"Brazilian jiu jitsu."
groggs replied:
"This is a good one. I’ve been grappling for about 10 years now and I’ve formed some of the strongest friendships in that time. It’s almost odd how quickly people bond while trying to strangle each other lol"
"This is a good one. I’ve been grappling for about 10 years now and I’ve formed some of the strongest friendships in that time. It’s almost odd how quickly people bond while trying to strangle each other lol"
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#47
RudegarWithFunnyHat said:
"Tabletop war and fantasy game groups?"
"Tabletop war and fantasy game groups?"
Smij0 replied:
"This. You can start with Roll20 and If you enjoy your group and don't live too far away from each other you may play some games in person."
"This. You can start with Roll20 and If you enjoy your group and don't live too far away from each other you may play some games in person."
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#49

"The best thing you can do is find friends through work but don't intermingle with bosses. If anything go to a bar."
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#51

samsquanch said:
"Related: I drink a lot and I don't have many friends."
"Related: I drink a lot and I don't have many friends."
Captairplane replied:
"Me too! I can't believe I finally found you, friend!"
"Me too! I can't believe I finally found you, friend!"
GL replied:
"Yes theres 3 of us! What can we do to make this official?"
"Yes theres 3 of us! What can we do to make this official?"
MajKatastrophe replied:
"Room for one more?"
"Room for one more?"
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