Hey Pandas, What's The Worst Thing A Parent Has Ever Said To You? (Closed)

Mother: then go and kill yourself, I'll be here waiting for the call, so go do it. (and I tried lol, but failed :'v)
Father: you're not going to do anything worth in your life, and just end up cleaning houses, if you want I'll get some clients for you.
This after I got an scholarship and said I wanted to study graphic design in other city and not really in my hometown, so he got angry cuz that meaned he needed to speend more money. I went, he has not paid a single dollar. Btw, cleaning houses was not the problem, that's a respectuful job.

Good for nothing! You will finish under a bridge as homeless. Today I have a loving wife , a good job paying well, two houses… The bastard has no friends, live alone and get an argument with everybody…

My grandmother said I looked like a relief kid because I wanted to wear dresses. She said my hair was awful... said I was fat.. My aunt told me I was a lesbian(which would be ok but I wasn't). My mother told me that I'm a Baldwin (my father's last name meant to insult me) and that I act act just like my dead father- book smart and stupid. My grandfather pointed out that I had a "big f***y" to my cheerleading coaches so I needed the extra large briefs. My aunt and my grandmother told the doctor at the ER to disregard my attempted suicide/overdose on Tylenol because it was just for attention. I thought my father's real name was Jerko as a child because that is what my family referred to him as. My aunt, mother, and grandmother told me I'd better not cry at my father's wake. I was six. They told me it would be embarrassing if I cried.

my dad continuously making fun of my comfort characters even though he knows it triggers me because i've told him multiple times

When I told her to stop touching my bra -
"It really upsets me when you say 'stop' and 'no' to me."

When my brother came out as trans -
"It would be nice if you took MY side in this! She'll forever be my precious daughter and nothing will change that!"

The day after I told her I liked the same gender (for the 3rd time) -
"You can't have a sleep over with Jaime if that's the case because I don't want you having sex!"

Heads up - I'm 14.
- My brother's 18.

My 18th birthday, my "dad" called to tell Mom this was the last check. No happy birthday.

No one will ever want to marry you! You can’t do anything right. You are so lazy, why do you wear your hair like that, you look like Olive Oyl (Pop Eye’s girl friend)

“I wish I had a son.”

¨dont talk to her she is just gonna continue being passive aggressive¨

My dad is really mean when he's mad. When I forget to do something small, he yells at me and tells me how terrible I am at life and that I will amount to nothing. "Oh, now you're gonna cry? Yeah. Cry. that doesn't do sh!t for you" Guess what, dad? You aren't doing anything for me in this situation either. I still love my dad, though. This only happens when he's mad, so I try my best not to make him mad. He's also a cheater and manwhore :/.

Not my dad but a relative I lived with. “Everyone’s life would have been better if you’d never been born. You’re nothing but a burden.” I was born with birth defects that required several surgeries and many medical visits.

My mother always made it very clear how close we were to losing the house all the time, how much debt we were always in. I grew up in fear of having no money and lived overly anxious of what it is to be an adult.
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So I worked hard, started my own business and created several income streams so now I’m financially stable and safe from reliving my child hood fears and allowing my children to grow up without that same burden.
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My mother now tells me that all I care about is money and I’m obsessed with it. Ouch.

My mom : "I wish you died when i gave birth to you at the hospital". Well that f****d me up.

18 years old, sat in my bedroom with boyfriend at the time. We were just chilling and watching movies. I pass my mother in the hallway on the bathroom and my mother says “send him to my room il show him a real woman” spent years wondering why I wasn’t a proper woman before realising she was a narcissist. Sadly tip if the iceberg of horrible things she has said to me.

Once my mom said that i ruined her holiday... ouch

My presence always seem to bother my parents. They tried their best to keep me away from them.

When I was 12 I was 5'2'and weighed 110 pounds. My mother said I was fat and put me on a diet.

You are hard to love.

My dad said trust me meant f**k you so all my adult life was messed up!!!

My mum constantly told me that my dad was sick because of me and that "I was killing him".