Hey Pandas, What's Something You Want To Get Off Your Chest? (Closed)

Hair! I hate chest hair! I have regular plucking sessions but it just keeps coming back.

All my close family. I also want to get them out of my life. I am 58 years old. I've took care of my manic-depresive sister, her son and my now 89 years old mother eversince I was 33 years old. They treated me like s**t and accused me of being alcoholic. Now, my 27 years old nephew got married and moved into my mum's house (valued at a price which could buy 4 houses) without paying rent. I am getting financial aid from my friends for taking care of my semi-bedded mum (who pees and shits on the ground) in my 1+1 rented house. They accuse me for getting angry and drunk nowadays.

Seeing that some answers have been hidden, I get very discouraged here, but in a nutshell, I keep seeing facts getting ignored in favour of feelings, and I think it is getting worse, leading to all the other disasters we face.

My parents keep ignoring me. They talk over me as if I'm not even there. But when they want me to do something they can't stop telling me to do it. I get blamed for things I didn't do, and zero praise (or even acknowledgement) for my achievements. I'm 33 but I can't live independently at the moment - possibly never - so I am stuck. No wonder I have this core belief that they don't love me, or even like me.

I really wish I was born male sometimes. I don’t want to have to deal with a period. I don’t want to have children, and even if I do later I’ll adopt. It’s just a lot of s**t I dont want, and I’m scared/nervous about it.
Also I’m moving at my moms house in three weeks, and my dad wants to move too. So both of my houses will move at the same time. I’m not looking forward to it, and I like both of my houses right now.
And I think my dad wants to get married. I honestly don’t even know if they’re dating , but something he mentioned kind of suggests it I guess. I don’t dislike her, it would just be weird and I just don’t really know how I would feel about that.
Also I need to move a fish to my new house and idk how to do that. He’s a nice fish. His name is Roomba

I don’t know if this has been said, but the vilification of conservatives. We’re not all crazy, maniacal, homophobic, racist assholes. Some of us aren’t even white. Who knew?
Most of us don’t really care what other people are doing, and aren’t standing around screaming in front of abortion clinics.
One thing a friend told me was, just because I don’t agree with something doesn’t mean I don’t think others shouldn’t have the freedom to do it.
Do what you want. Doesn’t affect me any. Just allow me the same courtesy.

I was sexually molested by my play dates father when he was drunk. My family are only concerned about their family reputation then seeking justice. Subsequently I left him a letter in his post and told him I what he did to me whilst drunk. He moved back to the city where I live and I cry myself to sleep at night reassuring myself that I’m safe and secure in my house and he can’t come back to hurt. I am sending letters to all the community telling them what he did to me so every time they see him they’ll stay far away.

I dont know if this will ever be seen, but I hate how hard it is for me to work through my trauma. I have some nasty horror stories from childhood, but I cant work through them fast enough. I'm trying to take it slow so I don't get overwhelmed and frustrated, but it's just frustrating me more because of the fact that some of my friends are pushing me to work faster. It's hard. I don't like it. I have panic attacks and breakdowns and meltdowns because of the memories of things I've gone through and so I'm trying to take it slow but it's not good enough for my friends and I hate it. I want to go at my own pace but they keep shoving it on me and I want it to stop. I want it all to stop. If I hadn't failed at sewer slide so many times, I hate to say I might consider trying again, but I can't. I just..can't. I'm trying. I just want someone to be patient with me and to encourage me, not shove my entire past in my face all at once...

I'm in love with someone (or at least, I'm fairly sure, it's stronger than I've felt with anyone else I've dated) and have been for several years. They got married a while ago, and I hate their wife. I have no reason to besides being jealous and I feel bad about it, but I can't help it. I know he cares for her a lot, and everyone else enjoys being around her, but I can't do it without feeling sick to my stomach and mad.

I hear so many people say “ if I go somewhere else I don’t even need to learn any of their language because everyone in the world already speaks English.” Let me just say that even though English is one of the most spoken language, only about 13% of the world can speak it, and a lot of those people to a small extent. Americans are so confident that they don’t need to learn any language, but most people from other places would try their best to learn English for us! The places that speak English really well are Scandinavian countries, Netherlands, Ireland, UK, India, and Philippines. I think many Americans assume everyone speaks English because when they travel internationally, they don’t leave the tourist area where everyone has to speak English. But in reality, we should be supporting and giving respect to the the languages of people all over.

I really just want people to have the will to understand each other and be in harmony...maybe this world could be a better place,because this place is a mess and problems just spring up more problems...it needs to stop,im really tired,people just hurt each other and it just goes on and on and on,sometimes i wonder why its hard for people to simply just say the truth...i really want this to stop...i dont very much know if i still like people anymore,...they hurt you like its okay and still make you feel bad for it...im scared for the world my children will come into💔

I'm fed up with explaining my fatique to people. My manager asked if it could be measured....

I wish people would cut the homeless some slack. Most homeless people aren't mentally-ill or drug addicts, they are just people whose lives got upturned, mostly due to a job loss.

And more importantly, people have no idea how ridiculously difficult it is to get out of being homeless. Even with the help of shelters and homeless programs, it can take years to get into housing.

Also, homeless people are PEOPLE, just like you and me. Stop de-humanizing them.

I’m biromantic asexual
I want to emancipate and travel the world and be free, and not be stuck in an office all day and even though i tell people i want to be an animator i feel that is not true, i just want to he a kid again, and live my life full of fun and happy memories but that can't happen as long as i am here, i need to be free i just need to breathe

I feel broken inside

Hi parents:

1. I’m queer and you can’t just tell me to ‘forget about it’. It’s a part of me. Just like how I know medicine and caring for people is my calling. Why is one celebrated and the other shamed? I find it hilarious how I’m not allowed to even think about that pride and lgbtq s**t anymore. Mind control anybody?

2. No, I’m not ok. Just because you told me to ‘be more happy’ and ‘don’t think about it’ doesn’t and didn’t miraculously cure my mental illnesses. Why is that you tell me to talk to you when I need to about mental health, and turn and say ‘no, you’re making it up. We are having none of this crap. Don’t try to trick us. You are so privileged, you can’t possibly be mentally ill.’ when I try to ask them for help. They canceled my therapy sessions by the way - because I was talking too much about gender diversity. Also, please don’t invalidate my pain. Just because you washed your family’s laundry from age 5 or that you broke a mirror and you dad slapped you doesn’t make it okay to tell me ‘we had it way worse and we turned out fine’.

3. On a more positive note: I have been completely self harm free for 3 days! It’s been a daily thing since probably when I was 5 or 6 but I finally got 3 days. It’s been hard, but I am proud of myself. If you have a similar achievement, congratulations to you. I’m really proud.

Asking for help in a store and being greeted with, "what's up?"

I hate all the online ads nowadays. Any game developer can take two seconds to make some dumb rip-off of a game (ex: fallguys) and make a crappy ad for it. There are so many examples of other dumb ads, but the one I hate most is those stupid youtube ads claiming they have a 6-second trick that can save someone with diabetes. It always starts with "award-winning doctor" and proceeds to not even give a name. Just sounds like a 4th-grade writing assignment.

Crop tops. I don't mean people wearing them- that's totally okay, you do you! Personally, I'd just like to be able to find more regular length shirts in stores ;u;. I don't wear crop tops myself so it's a little disheartening to find a really cute top only to discover that it's cropped. Of course, there are simple solutions such as thrift stores, online shopping, generally looking harder in a store, etc, but I'd love it if they had also had uncropped versions of things.

How inconsistent people are with "acceptance". My opinions and beliefs are not less valuable than yours. If I'm Christian and don't support your decisions, it's okay! Support does not equate with my view of you as a human being. If I decide to have a different opinion than you, I'm not automatically a bigot. If I don't want to affiliate myself with something, I'm not racist, -phobic, etc. "Safe space" means anything, right? So please, for the love of pizza rolls and anything holy, don't shut others down for their thoughts. Before you say anything, ask yourself, 'who is being stupid?' It could be you. "Acceptance" isn't just for the majority, "progressive" ideas. Acceptance is for everyone.