Hey Pandas, What Are Some Red Flags That People Ignore?

Gaslighting.. I had an ex-friend do this several times to me

Commenting on someone’s body
Unless the person is your doctor(or maybe a parent if you’re a minor and dangerous under/over weight,anyone who says anything rude or creepy is usually not the best person.

There was this young woman in our circle of friends. She was friendly and we shared many interests. I even found her to my liking for a week or two, but lost any romantic interest as it became evident she didn't share it.

Months later, she secretly fell in love with some guy. In this case, "secretly" meant everyone knew but the guy himself. Every time we met, spoke, texted, she would go on and on about how that guy was the most marvelous, talented, sexy, intelligent, etc.

After five months, she finally found enough courage to tell him how she feels. He just gave her the old "Sorry, I just don't feel like going into a relationship right now. Let's stay friends, and see where this goes."

From that point on, she was ranting about him twice as much. But this time, she was just tearing him apart, as he now was the worst pile of pre-manure-matter ever.

So, yeah, red flag: The way people react to rejection says a lot about their personnality. I sure dodged a bullet there.

Stop signs. Are signs considered flags?

There's a song called "Cult of Personality" by Living Colour that basically tells you how people get suckered. I can't believe a metal song from the 80s has more wisdom than so many people today. Google the lyrics and tell me I'm wrong.

The flag of China

"Can-you-please-take-my-shift-or-doing-my-work-you-are-so-good!" Without being paid extra for it.

When your friends don't like them. I'm not saying it's a red flag for the individual people per se, but it's a red flag for the Relationship. Think about it, when has anybody ever married someone their friends hated?

Someone who doesn't respect your time or belongings, they don't respect you either.

Knowing he was actually involuntarily committed for "Medicine adjustment"

Jaywalking.

They run off 2hen they start to loose in an argument

When you first meet a woman if one of the first questions she asks is "So, what do you do for a living" or some variation on that.

When someone tells you that you are a negative person and makes you feel like you dont have the right to change or be positive.

Some of the things they say are the reddest flag you can get:

"I always tell it like it is."
"I can be your best friend or your worst nightmare."
"I can't stand people who can't take criticism."
"I am sarcastic. It's just my nature."
"I'm just telling the truth / I'm just being honest."

Yet, people mostly ignore these flags. Instead, they think their honesty is "refreshing." Until they realize they just became one more target for that person's non-stop "honest and constructive criticism."

Eating pizza crust to tip.

If he is disrespectful to his parents, chances are he will be disrespectful to you.

When problems seem to follow you everywhere… actually, you’re the problem.

The signs that tell people to wear a f****** mask

Met a guy, he was in a relationship for 9 years, had two beautiful girls with his ex. He said they broke up bc she cheated. I’m a woman. If there are kids involved, women will do everything to keep the family together. He also said it was bc of his mental health issues. Made me wonder the real reason for the breakup. Suffice to say I didn’t pursue any type of relationship with him. If you’re willing to not see your kids for extended periods of time, then you’re a POS parent.