I hope this brings good and useful advice to help people.
#41
Be on time!
5points
#42
Never mistake a neutral response from someone as a negative response. They may not have given you the positive response you wanted but if it can be excused by hunger, depression, sadness, frustration, lack of sleep, whatever, assume that they just couldn't manage any better at the moment.
5points
#43
1. Acceptance is not agreement.
2. I can teach it to you, but YOU have to buy into it.
3. Never let fear stop you from speaking up and/or asking questions.
4. Always choose the high road. Always.
2. I can teach it to you, but YOU have to buy into it.
3. Never let fear stop you from speaking up and/or asking questions.
4. Always choose the high road. Always.
4points
#44
If you can do something about it, stop complaining and do something about it.
If you can't do something about it, stop complaining, since you cant do anything about it.
If you can't do something about it, stop complaining, since you cant do anything about it.
4points
#45
I just remembered this from my dad. "Caro, if your spouse hits you leave him because he will surely hit you again".
4points
#46
Learn to be stingy with your criticisms and generous with your compliments. Most of us think really nice things about others that we never bother sharing. Yet, we often amply let loose with complaints and critiques. If you think something nice about someone, (as long as it's appropriate), SAY IT OUTLOUD. "That tie looks really good on you." "I really like the way you handled that issue with the client." "Your new haircut looks great on you." "You must be exhausted, dealing with angry people all day. You handle them so well!"
For many people, one genuine expression of kindness can often neutralize/negate the impact of several criticisms and bad interactions. Bad moods are often highly infectious--but so are really GOOD moods.
4points
#47
My father: "If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is."
4points
#48
The only person you can truly change is yourself. Don't stress about the behaviour in others that you don't like, don't let it eat you up and make you miserable. Put yourself out of situations where you encounter those people, or resign yourself to the fact that, simply put, some people are on this earth to be a pain in the ass to others, just don't be one of 'em!
3points
#49
For significant decisions that seem to be roughly equal (both good or bad), you can easily convince yourself that either option is better, both before and after making the decision. Choose what will make you happiest. You'll have the same doubts regardless; Acknowledge that and remember you chose happiness.
3points
#50
Just because I feel bad doesn't mean somebody else did something wrong.
Just because I feel good doesn't mean I'm doing the right thing. - Franklyn Veaux
Just because I feel good doesn't mean I'm doing the right thing. - Franklyn Veaux
3points
#51
ACT - Acceptance and commitment therapy. Changed my live in the best way. I do not have to tackle and control all problems before I can become happy. I can accept my fears, let them be and move on. They may stay but I won’t put all my energy into combating them anymore. There always will be some problems, that’s life. I focus on my goals, I enjoy what‘s good, I started to rely on my strength again. Now I’m getting places, I’m growing, evolving, thriving - finally. I have so much capacities and power that used to be tied to overthinking and fighting against pain or anxiety.
3points
#52
"If you see something you think somebody should do something about then go ahead and DO something about it."
3points
#53
As my husband said :
"NEVER GIVE YOURSELF ALL TO ONE PERSON"
"I'm not talking about all of you that you are willing to give up, but those parts of you that never need to change and keep you you 💯"
3points
#54
Just keep breathing ; you are wanted!
3points
#55
When you are feeling happy write down as many things as you can that make you happy. When you are feeling sad read what you wrote.
3points
#56
Your skin isn't paper, don't cut it
Your face isn't a mask, don't cover it
Your body isn't a book, don't judge it
Your life isn't a movie, don't end it
Your heart isn't a door, don't lock it
Your face isn't a mask, don't cover it
Your body isn't a book, don't judge it
Your life isn't a movie, don't end it
Your heart isn't a door, don't lock it
You're beautiful
3points
#57
My mom always said, "if you don't ask the answers always no" She was a smart woman and the best mom.
3points
#58
1) Know your car. When you first get your car go to a big open parking lot that's empty and figure out what your car can do. How fast does it accelerate? How fast does it slow down? What's it link in reverse? How does it swerve? Test it over the next 3 weeks to see exactly what it can do. Despite your response times know your cars. The guy who gave me that advice was an awesome guy and could beat most of the street racers in town without breaking a sweat. I've never raced anyone but that practical knowledge of my car has saved me a lot over the years.
2) Actions speak louder than words. A lot of people have taught me that over the years.
2points
#59
It ain't a race....... take your time and enjoy it. Saviour every f*****g moment because the older you get the more and more you realise your clock ain't ticking 'up'. You like someone? be honest, yourself, and don''t try to use pick up lines...... they're in no way original and originality stands out. Keep your originality, but also be willing to be part of a close team..... cause when you are, it's great.
2points
#60
A solution that requires you to be someone else or the situation being different than it is, isn’t a solution, that’s a mere wish. A true solution always starts from what actually is. May it be good, bad, ugly or inconvenient. So be true, make up your mind, accept what cannot be changed, put your focus on what you can change and then go for it.
2points
