Hey, Pandas! Tell Us Your Problems, Please (Closed)

Trying to pursue a friend for a date.She's not answering my calls. And I am a girl.

It’s just... let’s say I’m obviously a equestrian. I am very traumatized by something that happened to me though. Me and a friend were driving a pony and the back wheel scraped across a fence post and the horse went galloping away with us... I was not super badly hurt and my friend was fine. The horse slammed me into a fence and galloped into the stables. I was fine but my back hurt a bit... they called the ambulance... I was fine though with some cuts and bruises... I got off lucky however my friend did not even have a scratch! I’m fine I’m just scared. I keep having anxiety attacks and I think about it at night and can’t sleep. Help!

1. 3 and a half years ago daughter shattered her knee when she was 7, took a leave from my job to take care of her

2. 3 years ago my fathers tumors stared winning the battle, had to quit another job to take care of him as he was not mobile (feeding, washing, diapers etc).

3. 1 year ago (in 2 weeks) my father died. even though it really hurt at least i could spend more time with my wife and kid and get a job so we can get out of the hole we were in due to last 3,5 years of me not working (some odd jobs along the way but these dont really count.)

4. worked for 3 months before Covid took it away.

5. an earthquake severely damaged our apartment, somehow managed to fix it enough to live in it.

6. wife developed ptsd from the shock, still has a breakdown 5 times a week

7. flood finished the earthquakes job. literally left us with 6 nylon bags of belongings.

there is more but i think this will suffice

I feel like when ever I stick out from the rest ill be made fun of so i stick with the crowd. I never say my real opinion i also have trouble telling people what i'm actually feeling.
Is there any way anybody can help?

I am fairly depressed, and am lonely. I also have social anxiety, which makes all of my problems worse. I am also super unmotivated, which is more just annoying.

I'm 45 and debt has crippled me. Every month the people i owe money to get paid directly out of my wages leaving me barely enough to pay my rent. Most mnths I have to get my mum to buy my food or electric. I work more than 80 hours a week and it seems like I havent made any progress getting them paid off. I suffer from anxiety, depression, copd and severe panic attacks on top and I just feel like why do i fucking bother trying. I see the people I went to school with living full lives and raising families while I am on my own getting nowhere. I dont trust many people after being bullied the entire way through school, and then about 10 years ago i attacked in my own house by 2 thugs with knives over a case of mistaken identity but I'm the one that suffered for it. One of them has now been moved 3 houses away from me and when I complained to the landlord they said tough luck so now I see the guy that held me at knife point for over an hour every fucking day and its all I can do to not attack him and let him know just how terrifying it is. I cant afford to move because of my debts and going to the police will just make things worse. I just feel like trying to spend my life helping people has been a waste of time but helping people is all I have to make me feel good about myself.

-I CAN'T SLEEP!!! TVT-

My mom´s parents died and my dad´s dad died. :( Been bullied since kindergarden. I got used to getting bullien but not the deaths :(

Well, I’m stuck. Haven’t been able to find a place to live since this whole mess started, trying to find work but there’s nothing really available for someone my age (I’m 46), and the 3D printing business I started 6 months ago has gone belly up because of lockdown here in Australia. I don’t know what to do with myself right now :(

I’m failing two of my 7th grade classes I try my best I feel like I could do better even though I can’t my parents are always proud of me but I just hate my grades

I'm actually really glad someone asked this because I have a lot on my plate right now. I'm suffering from a lot of things including (but not limited to) Depression, insomnia and stress. I don't know what to do but I'm really weighed down with everything going on in my life.

No one can help, but there is a reason my username is Call Me Mars. Its because I am non binary, and want people to CALL. ME. MARS!! I have tried telling my parents, but have gotten shut down multiple times. Only my friends are supportive. It hurts like h**l, but my givien name seemes to be wired into their heads. Which I understand, but they don't make a effort to try and change.

Food is my comfort a little too much after my parents separated.. I’m off my birth control in attempt to stop further weight gain and on progesterone instead.

Uh... Life? ¯_(ツ)_/¯

find the intelligent aliens quicker god damnit

i’m anxious all the time, and sometimes i will feel happy for a bit but immediately feel sad for no reason

i can't seem to make people happy

My problem is I always, am lonely at my dance studio. ANd I always wish people talked to me. But everyone says "hi" and try to make conversation. But I get so awkward and weird. So maybe it's my fault I'm lonely.

sooo...
I´m not sure that I should even share this, but i mean I've never really talked about it before, why not tell a bunch of strangers I've known from the internet the past 2-ish years now (jk)

um so not to brag, but I'm a pretty good student. I have almost all a's (one b and I'm THIS close to getting it back up to an a) but like, even though my father has SEEN my grades, sees how hard I work, he still thinks that I'm a slacker or some kind of failure. I take school extremely seriously, but there's still the constant "well maybe if you cared as much about school work as you did (insert random shit I took a slight interest in) maybe you wouldn't be such a (insert random insult). It's not just the lack of recognition, which, yeah, I admit, is attention seeking and selfish, but like, when my father found out my little brother had all a's, he almost literally threw a party. like, he let my brother have a sleepover and he got him a new expensive lego set and all that stupid crap, but when I told my father I had all a's he was just like "ok cool." didn't even give a shit.

And I know it just seems like "oh, another stupid privileged girl who thinks she has problems" and yeah, I honestly don have it as bad as you guys, but still, there's more I just want to get off my chest.

My dad has been working at nike since I was four, he's coming up on ten years now, and they're creating a new system and people are losing their jobs. my dad might lose his, and he's been really stressed about it, and he's been taking it out on me. I mean, don get me wrong, we're gonna be fine, he has a high level job there and makes good money, so we have a lot in savings, and he's built up a fantastic resume, but we're still understandably nervous, most of all dad. He channels his stress into anger, which he then takes out on me. he took my phone and yelled at me for a while because I woke up ten minutes late. or he told me to make sure that I was having enough for lunch and I told him "don worry, I have plenty" and then proceeded to yell at me about how I constantly argued.
and he's constantly nit-picking, like he's practically put me under a microscope. when I take care of a new problem he finds another thing to be dissapointed in.
like, he thinks I should work out more, because apparently " I'm not in the best shape" I'm 5'4, and 105 pounds. this isn't insane for a fourteen year old, in fact, I'm still technically underweight. I work out everyday as well, yet he still wants me to work harder, do more, be unhappy with myself because who I am right now isn't good enough. that was just one example of many.

welp anyway that was enough complaining for one day, and no one wants to hear about it so everyone have a great day and I hope you all feel better.

After losing my Job and being unemployed for a couple of years mostly due to depression I began having Dental issues which I ignored. Now I have SEVERE Dental issues. I don't smile, try not to speak unless I can hide my mouth somehow, dont sing anymore, ignore my family ( ashamed to be seen)and dont go out with my friends. I am a shell of my former outgoing self, the life of the party. I am in so deep I have NO CLUE where to be begin with fixing my Dental issues and am sooooo scared. I just want to smile and laugh again.