Hey Pandas, If You Could Go Back In Time And Relive One Moment Of Your Life, What Would You Do? (Closed)

Never believe the sales pitch for what it be like to incarnate on this planet.

I would go back to the the time I got offered a one in a life opportunity to travel overseas to be a nanny in Italy I chickened out at the last minute and regret it ever since.

A close and long-time friend of mine could tell the best stories because his life was one adventure after another. Not big adventures, but ones you could relate to. I'd have him tell those stories and record them so I could transcribe them before he passed.

I would have stay the virgin until I was old enough to really know what sex with a man was.

i would spend one last moment with my baby boy that passes away in 2001………….
and…………..
i would tell my mum how much i loved her ((gne 23months and i still haven’t/accept she is really gone))

I have 3
I would like to spend more time with my older cousin. Nothing really happened to her, but she moved a long way away and it has been months and months since I saw her. It doesnt seem like much, but we used to be such good friends and now it takes a few days for us to warm up every time we see them. I have been crying myself to sleep a few times lately because I realised this is probably how it will be for the rest of my life.
Second, I would like to spend one more day at primary school with my friends. I havent seen them since we are going to different high schools. I have so many memories of the good times with them and I just miss them.
Lastly, I would like to go back a few years to when I first met my best friend, and start hanging out together then, not wasting time like we did. I was at a party in 2017 and my parents made my sister and I play with these 2 random girls. It wasn't very fun, because I was 10 or 11 at the time so I didnt like being made to play with a 7 year old. Fast forward 6 months, and this new family turns up around us and it was them, then it took a year or so before we actually bacame friends

I would go back to when I was 5 years old and tell my parents what my sister had started doing to me, not wait until I was 33 and I broke down completely from all of it.

the time where i was 7, and at recess, while playing soccer, I missed one goal only, and the other players were angry, and bullied me for a week. Id do anything just to tell 7 yr me to not play the game

I'd go back to make sure I took detailed notes on how to make all of Grandma's recipes. I'd do a lot for her pickles.

I'd love to go back to when I first read the Harry Potter Books and enjoy them all over again without knowing what would happen next.

Not move to this state

One good one and one bad one for me.
1. I would go back to the night my high school sweetheart got into the argument that ended our relationship and taken some time to cool off instead of breaking up with him in that heightened emotional state (we did get back together later, but dealing with that one night differently would have avoided so much hurt). It still wasn't meant to be, but I know we could have ended it better than we did.

2. Go back to the day I first locked eyes on a city bus with the stranger who is now my husband of 8 years, just to relive that feeling of how we both looked at each other and smiled. It's impossible to describe how I felt drawn to this random stranger and I had no idea why then, but I guess love is like that.

I’d go back to the day my dad died. He was in intensive care and my son who was 4 at the time couldn’t go in. So my mom and I took turns watching my son so we could both visit. I went in first. Dad was really agitated so I got him comfortable and he went to sleep. Turns out he went into a coma. I was the last one to talk to my dad. If I had it to do again I would have had my mom go in first so she could have had one last conversation with him.

Go back to that day in May 1985 and wake up early to at least delay my dad from leaving the house. Maybe then he wouldn't have been hit and killed by that lady running that red light. I would like to know how my life would be different had he lived.

while there are moments linked with regret that i could refer to - and thankfully those are very few - my moment is one of pure joy.

i have a progressive degenerative disease that causes chronic pain. over the years, i have found that it has become my norm to be able to do something one day and then the next that ability is gone and usually doesn't come back. prior to having this take over, i used to be very active and even now i try to stay that way because i know that i can't take it for granted.

i went on a cruise and had thought that i would do pretty mundane things when on shore. but i decided last minute to take a scuba course. i admit i almost didn't go through with it because i did need extra help with the equipment as well as being literally escorted on each side into the water so i felt very conspicuous.

omg! once i got down to about 40 ft i realized that i had almost zero pain. and, athough i could not kick "normally" was figured out how to propel myself well. for the first time in so many years i felt like i had control over what i wanted to do when it came to moving my body. it was liberating!! and then there was the exploration of the underwater world of tropical fish. it was like being transported to a different world.

i have gone scuba more than that one time. but, nothing will ever compare with the first moment of that experience.

I would go back to confront my friend that he was ditching me for a new kid and call him names. (may land me in trouble, but gonna be worth it)

I would go to the time my husband proposed and say no. After three years of dating and then living together, we've been married six years. During all of that time he has disappeared overnight or longer four times. And everytime, his friend Luther is involved in some way. His friend that told me outright, that he didn't want me around. He is toxic for my husband, but he doesn't see it. This last time, I told my husband that he would need to take a polygraph and he refused. I am saving up money and getting out of this so-called marriage as soon as I can. I'm done.

I would have gone on to nursing school instead I tried to please my ex. I delayed school by 10 yrs. SUCCESS has been my reward!!

There was one day in the city where I bought an expensive ( by my standards, it was €10 or something) crystal (don’t believe in crystal healing, but It was shiny). Later, I saw a way cooler crystal shop and was pissed of because I spent all of my money. I would change that.

I would love to relive any time I had with my grandparents- he died 31.5 years ago and she died almost 9 years ago- but I miss them everyday and will love them for the rest of my life.