Hey Pandas, If You Could Go Back In Time And Relive One Moment Of Your Life, What Would You Do? (Closed)

Stand up for myself to avoid all the trauma my foster parents caused me.

(hoping to keep the knowledge I have now) I would go back to when my granny was still actively alive. I would have her teach me how to crochet, make canned vegetables, fruits, moonshine, and her secret (special) jelly, with her ancient pressure cooker in the kitchen, and how to develop my green thumb like hers. I would ask her loads of questions about family history. And I would still always say I love you first!

Easy! I would go back to 1994 and not listen to my then boyfriend. I'd leave him for every single reason I listed when I told him it wouldn't work out. He begged and pleaded, and I was a naive idiot. 13 years is a long time to regret a decision. Finally left him for every single reason plus a few new ones after 13 years. Listen to your gut. It will never steer you wrong. I blindly followed it after walking out and found my soul mate. I sometimes get very angry that I missed out on so many wonderful years with him. We lived less than a mile away from each other and our paths kept crossing. We would have found each other if I hadn't been dumb. I'm just sooo happy to have found him now. the last 11 years have been just amazing!

Wish I could go back in time just to hear my daddy's voice again and give him a final good-bye hug...

I would go back in time and quietly sit in my papaw's house so the people who killed him wouldn't come in. They knew he was home alone and broke in. But he fought hard. He deserved better than that.

I would ignore that guy in the back of that little rockin' blues club.

Wednesday February 26th, 2020. That was the one full day I spent dating my first girlfriend. Yes, it was middle school, so not anything super serious, but that was after I had realized I liked girls (later would realize I liked exclusively non-men). The next day I never went to school as my parents found out, and that on top of me deciding to skip one period of school the week before (just doing it for the fun of it, was/am generally a good kid otherwise) Anyways, first sapphic relationship. We spent the whole day at school getting called slurs by her ex boyfriend, but it was so worth it to be with her, and I would go back and do it again if I could. She ended up moving to a different state after that, so i haven’t seen her since.

I'm thankful for my life so, but I don't think I'd try to revisit any day... after moving house it was difficult to accept where I live now. I don't want to mess my head up. Besides, I get to look forward to heaven, my true home

Not marry the guy my family wanted to and elope with the guy who had a crush on me and who became a good friend.

I'd go back to when I was 14 and tell my mom not to ignore the lump in her breast until it was too late.

I'm torn between (a) my week with a great family friend in Arizona (repeatable in the future), and (b) the last year-ish being a big sister to a stray mama cat's kittens (never gonna happen again).

I would go to the time my husband proposed and say no. After three years of dating and then living together, we've been married six years. During all of that time he has disappeared overnight or longer four times. And everytime, his friend Luther is involved in some way. His friend that told me outright, that he didn't want me around. He is toxic for my husband, but he doesn't see it. This last time, I told my husband that he would need to take a polygraph and he refused. I am saving up money and getting out of this so-called marriage as soon as I can. I'm done.

Not fall in love for the first time at 16. A lot happened in a short amount of time, and I was in no way prepared for something that would literally affect the rest of my life.

I wouldn't have sold my Magic: The Gathering collection.

If I had the collection today and was able to sell it, I could buy myself a really nice house, pay off all my debts, and partially retire.

Tell my guy best friend I liked him. We're still friends but I've blatantly told him we are just friends so I'll never have a chance. Also he's not apart of our church so my parents wouldn't want me to date him. He's amazing and I wish I could relive our great moments and redo the not so great ones. I wish I could tell him I dream about him in the most non-weird way possible. Anyways thats basically it.

My senior year in high school, 1997. I saw her, and told my friend that she was the one I was going to marry. If I could relive that day again I would have completely ignored her. She was heaven to look at but hell to live with.

I would go back to Feb 1990 and take another route home, then I wouldn't have met and proceeded to date Matt.

I would go back to my eighth grade graduation. I sang and did good. But I didn’t project my voice as much as I had wanted to. I still think about it to this day

Swim _away_ from the egg...

Stop by my sisters house after work on Oct 9, 2003 so her husband would not shot and kill her. I miss her every, single day.