Two Cat Studio
Community MemberI'm 32" long from the tip of my nose to the end of my tail. My skin & fur coat are black & white. I have huge yellow eyes with long thick lashes. My nose & tongue are blood red. I'm extremely vocal & a primal hunter. I love raw, bloody meat & sour cream...& the loving, warm lap of MY human.
Two Cat Studio · commented on 3 posts
2 months ago
No, you are not the a**hole. He is ... but let him truly believe he could do what ALL you do ... & laugh at him ... that will shut him up fast. The fact that you told him that "...you can do any cleaning that you feel I am not doing!" was brilliant!
You are not being an A**h*le to your "boyfriend" ... you are being his doormat & an A**h*le to yourself. Allowing someone to treat you the way he does? If he really cared about you, & you deserve someone who would, he wouldn't act in such a childish, irresponsible way. Do you really want to continue being the only adult in a serious relationship? Also, by being his doormat, you are allowing his immaturity & dependency on you. Like Cee Cee said, "Ditch this scrounger."
Two Cat Studio · upvoted 37 items
2 months ago
Ran into this with my husband early on. His mom was a sahm. Told him to pound sand. I’m doing the best I can with what I’ve got and if it’s not up to his standards, he can do it
Surprised she has to ask. Ditch this scrounger.