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My grandfather was a random farmhand in central France, about 20 when the French government surrendered. A couple years later, he joined the Resistance, not knowing how long the war was going to last. Turns out he joined at the end of 1943, so it was only a few months later that the US army ended up wining the French territories back.
When the US forces arrived near my grandpa's countryside, his *maquis* (Resistance group) essentially offered their services as scouts/reconnaissance, since they didn't have much firepower but they were quite good at sneaking around. They ended up making their way through eastern France and into Germany, liberating various small towns on the way (although my understanding is that the Wehrmacht was essentially fleeing at this point).
Enter the small town of Annweiler in Germany. My grandpa is making a reconnaissance round, when he hears a patrol coming around and has to hide quickly. He knocked on a random door, and asked in broken German to be hidden inside ("Versteck mich"). They accepted, and in that house, my grandpa met the daughter of the family, just three years younger than him. Her name was Anna. They... Kept in touch, and he came back with his hat in his hands a couple years later, and asked for her hand.
They settled in Lorraine, a region that historically got passed around between France and Prussia/Germany, and where a French-German couple would not be judged quite as harshly.
60 years of marriage, six children, and a gaggle of grandkids and great-grandkids later, they p****d a**y a few months apart from each other. They're buried in the tiny graveyard of the church of the village where I grew up.
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My grandparents saved *all* their love-letters sent back and forth during that time.
They had just met and had fallen in love before his departure. So they carried on their romance and developed the relationship through beautifully written letters.
Those letters expressed every emotion - from the realities and horrors of war to the abiding hope they'd be reunited safe & sound. They were married not long after grandfather's return.
I don’t know about you, but some of these stories gave me goosebumps as I read. I can’t fathom how anyone can cope after witnessing so much horror firsthand. In Hollywood movies based on the World Wars, we see the heroes live a happy life once the battles are over. Well, we all know their stories are glamorized just to give the audience a joyful ending.
Meanwhile, research highlights that reality is starkly different and way harsher. Only about 1 in 16 WWII service members faced sustained combat. However, this small group bore the brunt of the war’s trauma, leading to over half a million psychiatric casualties. Returning home wasn’t a simple transition, either. Some veterans chased the adrenaline of the battlefield by starting car and motorcycle clubs.
Others quietly struggled with combat fatigue that strained their lives and relationships. Over time, this unresolved trauma often transformed into PTSD. Many veterans spent decades keeping their pain completely bottled up. It wasn’t until they retired in the 1990s that these painful memories resurfaced, leading to a massive, late-life wave of veterans finally seeking help.
#4

He was stationed on a Pacific island where he basically became a Radar O'Reilly.
His family were Mennonites, so he was a conscientious objector.
He was a medic, clerical worker, cook, ditch digger, driver, and anything else that he was asked.
Most of his time was spent cleaning up after everyone else and watching for air raids by the Japanese Air Force.
EDIT: My mom said that he watched the Japanese planes surrender on the USS Missouri.
#5

This happens in the middle of the war, in Brussels, occupied by N**i forces.
The uncle of my grandmother, Arthur, had a dog, which he always took with him when he would go outside. For a walk, to the shop, to visit family, etc. Everywhere. And everybody knew it.
One day, Arthur meets the local butcher in the street and he doesn't have his dog with him. The butcher is surprised so he asks him how comes. Arthur tells him the dog just d**d the day before. The butcher says sorry, condolences, blahblah then asks him what he did with the corpse. Arthur tells him he buried it in his garden.
The morning after, there's a hole in the garden and the corpse has disappeared.
The very next day, the butcher who's shop was pretty much empty for months now due to the obvious food shortages of the war, suddenly has kilos of sausage for sale. Not really difficult to understand what happened but of course Arthur also had no evidence so he couldn't do/tell anything.
Now what's even more surprising is what happened later:
- A few years after the war, the son of the butcher committed s*****e, hanging himself
- The butcher himself d**d shortly after. He was ice-skating on frozen lake and the ice broke
- A new butcher took over the shop. His son was k****d during a robbery by an infamous gang, [the Brabant K*****s]
- After this it became a laundry shop, whose owners k****d himself at 17 with a gun
- New owners came in and two years ago a fire completely destroyed the shop.
It's been rebuild now but I can tell you this: the place is f*****g cursed.
#6

As the Allies advanced into Europe they took a number of prisoners, who all spoke German, obviously.
My Lieutenant grandfather was put into a private's uniform and stationed outside the POW camp.
Why?
Because my six foot six redheaded Irishman from New York Grandfather was the son of a German immigrant and spoke fluent German. He got a lot of intel from the prisoners who spoke German freely in front of the American.
Following the Vietnam War, the US government officially recognized PTSD in 1980. This prompted researchers to start looking into how a soldier’s trauma impacts their entire family. Early studies on the children of Holocaust survivors had already shown that a parent’s deep emotional scars could be passed down.
In fact, sometimes, it seemed as though the children themselves had actually lived through the horror. While there hasn’t been much research on the families of World War II veterans, a 1986 study is quite noteworthy.
By studying the relatives of a few men undergoing treatment for severe PTSD, experts found that these households often felt like emotional pressure cookers. For many of these children, daily life revolved entirely around anticipating and managing their father’s unpredictable moods, impulses, and obsessions.
#7

Recently my dad and I went to the Netherlands and got the chance to visit the American Cemetery there to see where he was buried. It was touching and sad, my dad had never met his grandpa and his dad could never make it over there at this point. We rubbed sand into his name on the gravestone and planted flags, talked about him. He d**d in 1945.
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He never talked about combat. I did walk into his house once and the history channel was on showing a USMC graveyard on Okinawa and he was crying.
Growing up in such a stressful environment led the kids to adapt in several ways. Some children ended up completely mirroring their fathers, becoming focused on fighting and survival, while one even absorbed his dad’s combat nightmares.
On the other hand, some kids handled the stress by completely disconnecting, emotionally distancing themselves from their family to protect themselves. For the children who stayed deeply entangled in the family dynamic, the study identified two main roles.
The most heavily affected kids over-identified with their fathers, essentially taking on the trauma as if it were their own. Another group stepped into the role of rescuers, carrying an intense, exhausting sense of responsibility to keep their dads calm, safe, and happy.
#10

I went back to Pointe du Hoc with him for a Rangers reunion with my family several years ago. Now that was powerful. Standing in the same area with your grandpa, and family, where he stormed the beaches.
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Needless to say, it was a stressfull period for the rest of the family.
While people often talk about the soldiers who fought the battles, being a civilian was equally frightening during the war. In fact, they bear an immense, invisible burden that history books often overlook. They endured terrifying nightly attacks, the constant threat of invasion, survived severe starvation, and lost their homes. Millions of people lived in a state of terror.
For a long time, their psychological suffering was pushed to the background because the immediate focus was on rebuilding shattered cities and treating returning troops. We now know that this neglect left permanent scars. Studies show that civilians exposed to the chaos of World War II faced a higher risk of battling mental health disorders, like severe anxiety, depression, and PTSD, for the rest of their lives.
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He talked about being on the Houston, and being in Manilla, and his service after the war, but said almost nothing about his time as a POW. He did write a fairly sanitized account of his experience but didn't like to actually talk about it.
As a cattle rancher, he once had to call my uncles to put down a calf that wasn't going to live. He had to take a drive while my uncles shot the calf because in his words "I've seen enough k*****g and don't want to be around for any more of it."
He at once point told my mom that he didn't hold any ill will against the Japanese people, but if he ever saw one specific guard on the streets he would k**l him without hesitation.
At one point in the war he was moved to Japan to be used as s***e labor in the coal mines. His civilian mine foreman was kinder than most people and saved his life after a near-fatal accident. In the days immediately after the war ended the POWs were issued red cross boxes and allowed to roam the city as they pleased. My grandpa ran into his former foreman whose family was now starving due to the severe food shortages. My grandpa spent the next few weeks bringing the Japanese family food from this red cross packages and continued to mail them care packages after he was returned home. Having sold everything else of value the foreman gave him their only remaining possession in thanks, a traditional wedding kimono that had been in the family for generations.
The two men remained lifelong friends and in the early 2000s after both men had passed my family flew to japan to return the Kimono to his widow and sons. It was an extremely emotional visit for both sides.
My grandpa had a hard life growing up and saw the Navy as a source of stability, enlisting before the start of the war. He loved the sense of order and comradery being in the service gave him and stayed until retirement shortly before Vietnam got going in earnest. His time as a POW was too horrific to talk about though so for most of my life there was a hole in his stories between 1942 and 1945.
The things I've found out about the camps he was in are truly horrific. The t******s the men endured and the fact that any of them survived at all is amazing.
One of the stories he did write about concerned his transport to the Japanese mainland. The Japanese needed more manpower and promised better conditions and better food to anyone who volunteered to go back to the home islands. The POWs were packed into the transport ship's hold so tightly that they couldn't lay down. They had to sit with their legs in a V a*s to c****h to fit everyone without standing. There was only one small door open to the deck and the men cycled out who was closest to it based on who passed out from the heat and stale air.
The transport ship was part of a convoy but had no markings indicating that it was carrying POWs. During the night American submarines ambushed the convoy. The Japanese quickly shut and latched the only door after telling the POW's that if the Americans sunk the ship, they were going down with it. For the rest of the night and several nights after the men sat in the dark stifling heat and listened to ships exploding around them, never knowing if they were next.
When the guards would open the door in the morning the air was so foul it looked like smoke. There were no bathrooms so the men were sitting in their own filth with the corpses of the men who'd d**d during the night leaning against them.
That story was tame enough that he thought he could share it. He never talked about the really bad stuff that happened.
Edit:
I just remembered another more light-hearted story he told. When he was still in a camp in the Philippines a couple of the guards decided that they wanted to try to learn a little English.
The POWs mimed big and strong, patting their biceps and flexing while saying "Son of a b***h" and pointing to the guards. For the next day, two of the guards were walking camp around proudly telling all the POWs they saw "I son of b***h!" The prisoners caught a beating for it when the guards found out what they had been saying but from the way he told the story it was worth it.
#15

After the stroke, he seemed to loosen up. He laughed about sighting rifles in by shooting at chickens. He showed us pictures of him in front of the Eiffel Tower. Turns out he was occupation force. Ended up occupying an area near Berlin that became involved in the Battle of the Bulge.
Apparently, while he was fighting, some sort of explosive blew off his buddy's leg, so grandpa "did what anyone else would do" and threw his buddy over his shoulder to get him to the med tent. This included running across a field in the line of sight of a German machine gun nest. He was shot in the leg and some more shrapnel ended up in his chest. Somehow, Grandpa and his buddy survived.
We thought he was embellishing it, but the Bronze Star paperwork included a report that we found after he p****d a**y. Two higher ups signed that the story was true, so I guess I have to believe it. He told us it wasn't that big of a deal and that he didn't deserve all those medals for what he did. What a b****s. RIP, Gramps.
Edit: words
Edit 2: people are pointing out the this battle didn't happen in Berlin. He never said Berlin, just Germany. I said Berlin because I'm not good at history. Sorry.
The really sad part about this is that it’s still going on because wars are still waging in some parts of the world. Right at this moment, there are people living in fear, kids who can only dream of getting older, and soldiers sacrificing themselves for their country. It’s really heartbreaking what we humans do to our own kind, isn’t it?
Anyway, dear readers, that’s it from our end. If you have stories about World War II that your grandparents shared with you, don’t hesitate to share them in the comments. You know how much we love hearing from you!
#16

My Great Aunt told me she and her friends used to play in the b****d ruins of buildings near their home in West London. In retrospect she realised how dangerous it was to be three stories up a crumbling building but at the time, they didn't care at all.
#17

On his d****bed he admitted that he stole two small bars of silver from the body of a German soldier somewhere in France. He wasn't proud of it and in fact he was quite ashamed of his actions even 60+ years later. When he returned home he sold the silver and in a small way it helped him purchase a small trailer in which he and my mom lived while he finished college.
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#19

Spent the entirety of WWII behind a desk in Oklahoma processing logistics and supply chain management requests.
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Edit: this was in Philippines, not japan. But it was a battle against the Japanese
Another edit: The intention was to give them a sea burial since the Japanese left their d**d upon retreat. It wasn't meant to desecrate the deceased further.


