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u/lilsparrow18 tells us that their thread was inspired by a bad purchase they made. "For me, it wasn't so much of a terrible purchase as it was bad timing. I bought a car when I didn't have my license yet, and due to different circumstances, I didn't have much opportunity to drive it for a while, and then, the petrol that was left in it went bad, and it created a bunch of problems."
The Redditor then put the whole ordeal somewhere in the back of their mind. "I believe everyone has what I'd like to refer to as a mental 'vault,' where all the things you really don't want to think about or pretend don't exist go. That whole car situation is in my vault because I may as well have burned the money, and for some reason, that day, the vault started to come ajar."
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The netizen tells Bored Panda that they experienced a lot of distress and cringe due to that unlucky car purchase. "I felt I needed to make a post, even though I didn't share my own story," they explained. "I thought it may be a topic most people would be able to relate to at one point or another, and seeing other people's mishaps, while not pleasant for them, can be somewhat cathartic when you have an experience of your own."
"But bad spends are just one thing that can go in the vault – anything can go in the vault if it's something you need to deny the existence of to feel better," the Redditor explains their theory.
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We chatted with u/lilsparrow18 about how buying an excessive amount of stuff is becoming more and more normalized. They say they don't really feel affected by it, perhaps only when socializing. "Consumer culture maybe only impacts me in the sense that when I'm out with other people, I do tend to enjoy buying things more, and it is strangely part of the social experience."
"But I'm also autistic," the Redditor opens up. "So there are social challenges involved in that – like how many people rely on alcohol to socialize, I find it's easier to socialize when in a stimulating environment, such as a shopping center where there are many things to look at and purchase, to fill the silence and act as a crutch of sorts. That being said, I still don't tend to do this too much, even though I do enjoy it."
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I opened the bag walking through the parking lot and ate a chip.
I did a complete about face and walked right back into the store to the returns dept.
I explained the situation and convinced the girl to try one of the chips. She spit it out.
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u/lilsparrow18 is an Aussie, and they say that consumer culture is perhaps more of a problem in the United States. "While it's definitely prevalent [everywhere], I think it's known to be more culturally relevant to the US than here in Australia."
"People from the US have a strong presence in media, including places like TikTok, and I think a lot of people would associate consumer culture with the US primarily. For me, other than maybe going out with some friends to go out shopping once in a blue moon, I don't think it's very relevant to me."
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The Redditor tells us they're not easily influenced by what they see on social or any other media. "What people put online or what may be popular at the time doesn't really have an impact on my purchasing habits, and I tend to only buy what I want to or I feel is actually necessary, regardless of anyone else."
"I know as far as advertisements go, they don't seem to influence Gen Z as much as some other generations, and the autism, as I mentioned earlier, may make me especially disconnected from this sort of culture."
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For those who want to become more savvy consumers, u/lilsparrow18 advises people to do research. "I know anything regarding money is easier said than done because it takes time to change habits, but I think the most important thing is research. Whether it's researching whether you can get the same product on special, or if it's a larger purchase, researching the quality of the product or getting second opinions."
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"Also keeping any receipts on larger items and being aware of any possible warranties can save people a lot of money," the Redditor adds. "And if someone is particularly prone to impulse buying, it may be worth reflecting on why that is and if it's worth investigating by seeing a mental health professional as well."
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