There are times when no matter how much you'd like to hit it off with someone, it's just not happening. Even if the two of you make sense as a couple on paper, the chemistry simply isn't there, and not even Marie Curie could fix it.
And then there are moments when attraction seems to sparkle, until they themselves snap you right out of it. To some, those sudden turn-offs—better known as "icks"—can be surprisingly powerful. So TikToker Jess (@jls_1003) asked women on the platform to describe the worst ones guys have ever given them. From the way they talked to how they kept their house, here are the ways in which men instantly ruined their chances.
#21
Meowed on the regular for no reason out of nowhere I told him some bad news I was going through and he meowed and I got up and left
27points
#23
He asked me "how long do those last?" referring to my 9yo German shepherd. Bonus points for him saying "oh so not that much longer" when I told him the average lifespan.
26points
#24
He got a parking ticket on the first date and expected me to pay half of it
25points
#25
Went on a first date with a guy who I’d known for more than 7 years. Apparently he’d always had a crush on me and after a 4 years relationship I gave him a shot since he asked for “fair chance”. Anyway, date was very awkward since he mostly didn’t talk just looked at me. But that wasn’t the ick. He asked the waiter if he could pick the table. At first I thought cute, he wants privacy. I asked out of curiosity and he goes “I gotta have full vision of who enters and leaves the place. I’m carrying, since I always gotta protect who’s with me”. Strapped. At a bar….
25points
#26
wrote me a song after dating for a week. the first line was "I still remember when we first met".... a week ago?? I should hope so my guy
24points
#27
He brought me flowers, from a CEMETERY
23points
#28
Told me he was “soooo popular in highschool” he’s 26…
22points
#29
one time during an argument, i turned around and caught him flexing in the mirror
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21points
#30
I made him some spaghetti sauce before I left for work, all he had to do was cook the pasta. he called me five times asking how to boil the noodles and then he still had to call his mom and have her walk him through it
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21points
#31
met my family for the first time and asked "so, how old is everybody?" why the hell would you ask that? the cherry on top is after they left he made a joke about how now he cant choose between me or my mom
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21points
#32
He said “Ouuuuh Charlette, got me all up in your web right now” mid bang and I just couldn’t ever look at him the same way again
20points
#33
He picked me up and his car smelled good so I asked what scent his freshener was and he points to the back seat and it's a LIT CANDLE
20points
#34
We went bowling and he wore no socks. Put his feet in the rented bowling shoes
20points
#35
I went to pull out my chair on a first date and he went to go sit down in my chair.
19points
#36
pushed me down the stairs for laughing that he made his hot chocolate with water, instead of milk.
19points
#37
Tried to play hide and go seek ON FT WITH ME and then started talking in a baby voice saying “you scwared mwe”
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19points
#38
He still lived with his mom and had custom made bunk beds that he shared with his older brother. after the tour he pulled out his guitar and sang to me in front of his entire family.
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19points
#39
went to his place for the first time. he had chewed waffle on his floor
17points
#40
He left [bodily fluids] streak on my fresh white sheets. And tried to say it wasn’t him. Sure the heck wasn’t me! Immediately blocked!
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17points