There's no more blissful thing than becoming a parent – however, it is a 24/7 job.
First of all, there’s pregnancy, a process that spares some and stresses the life out of others. For the majority, it isn't a goddess-like experience: hormonal fluctuations, constant sickness, sleepless nights, and excruciating backaches – most likely it will suck, and although it is a magical thing, it can take a toll on your physical and mental health.
Creating a new life is not an easy procedure, and it's crucial to have the necessary support around you to ensure both your own and your future child's well-being.
Despite the fact that complaining about being with child is widely considered taboo, it's important to remember that if you're not in a "jumping for joy" kind of mood because of what pregnancy is doing to you – it doesn't mean that you aren't thrilled about becoming a mother, nor does it mean that you won't be a terrific one.
Raising a little human is one of the most turbulent, surprising, rewarding and hilarious adventures of our lives – so take it easy on yourself.
Now, the raising part. It's easy to get lost in what's good and what's bad, especially nowadays when all our lives are so easily curated on social media, confusing impressionable folks and first-time parents.
It's a tough thing that you're just going to have to wing. There's no podcast, no "how to raise a kid" book that'll be able to carefully guide you while also guaranteeing a successful outcome – because, in reality, everyone's different.
However, honesty is really the best policy. And although telling your little one that Santa Claus knows if they've been naughty or nice is not going to translate into their adulthood and turn them into liars per se, it's in your best interest to minimize the usage of fibs and remember that these seemingly innocent untruths are depriving your child of the opportunity to handle conflict.
Whether it's the uncomfortable subjects you're not yet prepared to discuss, you're lying for your own convenience, or you're complimenting them on that quick dance move they learned – it's totally up to you to decide if being a little dishonest with your offspring is the best move. However, if you're ever in doubt, maybe consider telling them a simplified version of the truth.
Remember, as long as you're keeping your little one's interests in mind, you're making the right decision! Bored Panda hopes that you've enjoyed this hilarious ensemble of what seem like universally renowned white lies told by parents. Let us know which one stuck with you till adulthood.
