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80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back

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Pranks in a relationship can be tricky. They can be playful and silly like hiding your partner’s favorite snack to get a laugh or switching the salt and sugar in the kitchen.
Other times, they’re more pointed like gaslighting or manipulating your partner to get out of a bad situation or prove a point.
On TikTok, women are sharing confessions that run the full spectrum — from teasing a partner about a celebrity crush to convincing an ex to eat a whole jar of pepperoncini.
Basically, all the little things that may or may not have traumatized the men in their lives.
Scroll to see some of the most unhinged examples, and decide for yourself who crossed a line and who should take home the crown for chaotic comedy gold.

#1

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
I told my ex once that he [soiled] himself and I had to wipe his [behind] when he drank too much and he didn’t drink the rest of our relationship lmao
40points

#2

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
My ex was annoyed at how I was folding socks while he was doing nothing so he comes up to me to teach me how to fold socks. I kept telling him I didn’t understand his way until he almost finished folding the socks. I understood just fine
39points

#3

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
he embarrassed me in public so I called his mom✨️imagine Ron Weasleys letter in the middle of a crowded bar
37points

Some of these stories are lighthearted — a perfume trick here, a celebrity comparison there.

But some are next-level psychotic. Like lying to a color-blind partner or letting someone eat dog treats.

A survey in the UK found about one in nine couples say they love to prank each other on social media and share the reactions.

About 48% of participants said the pranks were most often intended to scare the partner, while 23% said they were done to make them look silly.

But even when couples treat pranks like fun online content, many still report friction as a result.

About 68% of partners said those pranks had led to arguments.

#4

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
I wish I had a meaner story but my ex husband used to always walk way in front of me so one time he was looking on his phone while walking way in front of me and I didn’t tell him he was going to walk through a bunch of sprinklers and he got so mad and I said I didn’t see them either
36points

#5

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
The time I left my new phone case on the bedside table because I hadn’t swapped it over yet and asked him if he knew who’s phone case it was? It was then I finally confirmed and discovered he had cheated on me
33points

#6

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
I’d wear a specific perfume anytime we’d have “us time” so he associated that smell with it. Once he became obsessed with it, I’d wear it when he made me mad and not do anything and just watch him squirm.
27points

Many women also shared stories of teasing, trolling, and humorous revenge tactics, which reminds me of the new breed of prank: clout-lighting.

It’s a mix of clout chasing and gaslighting, where extreme practical jokes are pulled on partners to get views, likes, or followers.

Some of them are harmless jokes, but a lot of them are aggressive, humiliating, and often calculated. Millions of people watch, because the more shocking they are, the more viral they will be.

The original video posted on TikTok by a woman claiming she gaslit her ex-boyfriend for two years has over 1.2 million likes. It also has nearly 4,000 comments, mostly from other women sharing their own stories of how they traumatized their partners.

#7

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
He went in for a kiss and I yelled “dude, mom told you to stop trying to kiss me!” EVERYONE LOOKED.
27points

#8

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
When I first dated my husband he grabbed a bra and smelled it and was like oh yeaaaa I was like its my mom's... and yes it was my mom's! he threw it so fast 😂 I remind him of it here and there and its been 14 years
25points

#9

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
He has a crush on Millie Bobby Brown. I asked him, “do you have a crush on her because she looks like your sister or is there another reason?”
21points

In this list, there are also stories of women taking extreme measures to escape toxic or harmful relationships.

Someone gaslit a partner into admitting infidelity, while another woman manipulated her ex to secure child support.

In such cases, the tactics are less about cruelty and more about survival.

Research shows that when a relationship is controlling or unsafe, women often use whatever tools they have to reclaim power and protect themselves. Sometimes they might also get creative to get out of dangerous situations.

#10

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
my ex was so insistent we would eventually get back together after I left finally for cheating, drinking, etc and wanted to protect my kids. he kept backing out of child support - court and military mandated btw, so I made him think I missed him and just needed to learn to trust again. four years of manipulating this man to pay for stuff for the kids and one of our vacations before I finally told him it was never gonna happen. he helped me save for a new car and college and had no idea. it's been another 13 years and the dude still isn't over me.
21points

#11

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
he was really grossed out by the eyes that grow on potatoes, so whenever he was being rude, I would just stare at him like this 😳 and I'd just say "potato eyes". would freak him the heck out and he'd apologize.
20points

#12

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
I walked in on my man sniffing my unerwear that just came out the drier and I said “why tf you smelling my sisters underwear” he looked so disgusting and throw the underwear across the room. Had me rolling
17points

But why exactly do we like to watch, read or share such stories?

It’s like peeking through a window you shouldn’t be looking through.

Part of you wants to scroll away and pretend you didn’t see a thing. Another part of you is hooked, waiting for the next chaotic moment.

It’s like reality TV but unfiltered and personal. There are no producers or scripts, it’s just humans being absurd and dramatic while the internet eats it up.

Experts say it can be empathy that keeps us hooked to such stories.

Commenters are usually split — some say fair dues are being given while others say it’s toxic behavior — but almost everyone keeps reading and watching.

#13

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
The girl he cheated on me with was losing interest in him after we broke up so I offered to write her a letter letting her know I was moving on and hoped they had a happy life together. She dumped him as soon as she read it.
14points

#14

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
One time my ex told me how much money his dad makes (a lot) and I said “damn is he single”
13points

#15

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
my ex asked me how my new bf and i were doing and i made sure to throw in "yeah, we are waiting a while before moving in together. i don't want to make that mistake again". he was the only person i had ever moved in with
12points

In some cases, clout-lighting could be seen as a form of emotional cruelty.

“Whether it's for a million subscribers on YouTube or a few hundred friends on Facebook, these videos have one aim - to incite laughter at the expense of the victim, who in some cases can be in some real distress,” says Paola Diana, a feminist campaigner and author.

“The reactions to these pranks are always going to be extreme, so why would anyone want this shared with their family and friends, let alone the whole world? It's a way of making the victim of the prank look unstable.”

#16

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
I went through his phone and everything I found I told him “came to me in a dream” and he got real paranoid thinking I was some kind of psychic 😭
10points

#17

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
our friend group convinced my ex that blinker fluid was real by deliberately mentioning it when talking about cars, when it was time for him to buy a car we were waiting to sign the papers and whatnot, told him “omg make sure it comes with blinker fluid” bro went to ask the salesman, laughs out loud and tells everyone to come around so he could tell them what he just asked
10points

#18

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
i told my ex he was saying a girls name in his sleep as an excuse to wake him up in the middle of the night to confront him about him cheating on me. i had just gone through his phone
10points

A prank is basically any planned surprise meant to scare, embarrass, or upset someone.

Sometimes, the person on the receiving end wonders if they’re overreacting, especially if the person doing the prank brushes it off as a joke.

Pranks might seem harmless, but they can dig up old trauma and make you feel constantly on edge. They can also affect the trust in a relationship.

It can be even worse when videos of the prank are shared online for laughs.

#19

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
My boyfriend is significantly taller than me (I’m 4’11 and he’s 6’5) we went to a basketball game and I told him, when does this end, I have a curfew. the look on his face is priceless
10points

#20

80 Times Women Did Not Hold Back And Traumatized Men Right Back
i gaslit a guy who liked me into thinking i was his cousin so he would stop
9points
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