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56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women

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If you’ve ever caught yourself blaming the other gender for being a certain way, you’re definitely not alone. It happens more often than we like to admit. While some assumptions may feel logical on the surface, many of them are rooted in outdated ideas and pure misconceptions.
Recently, women online were asked to share the misconceptions men have about them that they wish would disappear for good. Their answers were honest, eye-opening, and sometimes frustratingly relatable. Keep scrolling to read what they had to say.

#1

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
That pregnant women don't have a right to their own bodies.
41points

#2

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
Anything that involves assuming women all want the same thing. Because we aren't a hive mind.
35points

#3

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
We aren't playing hard to get, we want to be left alone.
34points

Women make up nearly half of the world’s population, around 49.7%, and are present in every industry, role, and workplace you can think of. Yet somehow, their place still feels up for debate. Even in professional spaces, women still have to prove they belong. Their competence is questioned more quickly. Their mistakes are remembered longer. The bar somehow feels higher. It’s strange how visibility doesn’t always equal acceptance. Progress exists, but so do old assumptions. And those assumptions show up daily.

#4

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
Just because I'm on my period doesn't mean my opinions aren't valid.
29points

#5

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
That women don't like "nice" guys. If you think that way you're not a nice guy, you pretend to be one to get laid, so if you don't you feel resentment. Sincerity doesn't expect results like an orchestrated plan. And we understand that.
28points

#6

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
That all women are waiting for a “real man” to rescue us. We can rescue ourselves, we just want partners, not projects.
27points

One common misconception is that women in leadership roles should also act as emotional caretakers. They’re expected to check in on everyone, manage feelings, and smooth over conflicts. This often comes from traditional roles at home, where women are seen as caregivers. That expectation quietly follows them into offices and boardrooms. Male leaders are praised for being decisive. Female leaders are praised for being nurturing. Leadership, however, isn’t parenting. Managing people doesn’t mean managing emotions at all times.

#7

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
That women are entirely driven by emotions (which are silly and unimportant and not worth considering) and can't be logical, practical, or capable.
27points

#8

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
That we're incapable or less capable of anything.

That we need or want a man and/or children.
27points

#9

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
That our lives revolve around them and their preferences. Everything from our clothing choices to our weight is met with "men don't like when-" as if we all care.
26points

Another frustrating belief is that women can’t fully commit to work because of “conflicting loyalties.” The assumption is that family responsibilities will always come first. This ignores the fact that many women balance both incredibly well. Men with families are rarely questioned the same way. The idea stems from outdated beliefs about household roles. Women are seen as default caregivers, regardless of reality. This mindset limits opportunities before they’re even offered. Capability gets judged based on assumptions, not performance.

#10

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
That women are getting rich off child support. It’s usually not even enough to cover daycare so she can go to work to buy everything the kid needs. The men are getting the easy part. She probably spends more of her money on the child than he does, and she does 90% of the work too.
24points

#11

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
That women mature earlier than men.

No dude, we mature at the same pace as you do. The difference is that we’re pressured from an early age to behave a certain way, to be responsible, to handle household tasks, to take care of our families, and on top of that, we deal with the premature sexualization imposed on us. So don’t use that lame excuse.
23points

#12

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
That women hate men who show emotional vulnerability and would leave you at the first sign of it.

Women want to make you feel seen too and it would make you two closer when you show emotional vulnerability.
22points

Women are often labeled as less assertive simply because they communicate differently. When women speak firmly, they’re called aggressive. When they’re calm, they’re called passive. Emotional expression is mistaken for weakness. In reality, assertiveness comes in many forms. You don’t need to raise your voice to lead effectively. Many women lead through clarity, collaboration, and confidence. These styles are just as powerful. The problem isn’t assertiveness. It’s how people interpret it.

#13

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
That women just randomly turn “crazy” and accuse a man of [mistreatment] for no reason at all.
22points

#14

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
That we secretly love being objectified.
22points

#15

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
Honesty, i can't point out one. I just want men to lose their hate. I want men to lose the notion that women are resources to get. That women "reward" something in them or "punish" something. We're living our lives, we're attracted to who we attracted to, we just humans, imperfect humans. As smart as men are. As emotional too. We were just socialized differently. So can you stop with your hate?
21points

There’s also the belief that women can’t take on work travel. Concerns about safety, family, or flexibility are often assumed without asking. Meanwhile, women travel solo all the time, for work and otherwise. They manage schedules, logistics, and pressure just fine. This misconception often results in missed opportunities. Projects, promotions, and exposure quietly go elsewhere. Decisions are made “on their behalf.” And that limits growth more than any actual barrier ever could.

#16

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
That we're less rational than men.
19points

#17

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
That the cervix doesn’t have nerves -.- it does.

Also I’m tired of hearing guys say that we can pass kidney stones easier because of our wider hips. Hip anatomy does not affect ureter and urethra anatomy.

Oh … and the urethra is not the same location as where the baby comes out of. How are we this confused?
19points

#18

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
That we care more about money and materials than safety, stability, loyalty and respect.
18points

Negotiation is another area where women are unfairly underestimated. There’s a belief that they’re too soft or hesitant to close deals. In reality, many women are excellent negotiators. They focus on long-term value, relationships, and strategy. The issue is perception. When women negotiate firmly, they’re sometimes seen as difficult. When men do the same, they’re seen as confident. The skill isn’t missing. The bias is.

#19

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
Just because a woman files for divorce, that doesn't mean she initiated it, or caused it. It means she was the one that did the paperwork, among all the other administrative duties that always got dumped on her.
17points

#20

56 Things Men Still Get Totally Wrong About Women
Women are mysterious, emotional, and scary. Nah we are humans. Some humans are good, others are bad- it doesn't matter the gender.
17points
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