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50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
Social IssuesJUN 9, 2025

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It

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Even the Western world, which is the beacon of human rights, continues to have problems with sexism. For example, according to some surveys, European women are 3.6 times more likely to suffer from unwanted sexual attention than men. Interested in how this looks in everyday life, TikTok user @tanyapidgor asked all the ladies on the platform to share the most unhinged comments they received in public from random guys, and of the tens of thousands of replies that she got, many were so awkward and offensive that they felt like poor skits, not real-life encounters—though, surprisingly, a few were oddly sweet or unintentionally wholesome.

#1

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
When I was a cashier, a customer told me I was selfish for having such long hair and that I should cut it to donate to those in need. He wouldn’t leave me alone about it so I told him I’d donate mine if he donated his. He was bald 🤷🏻‍♀️
72points

#2

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
I smiled at an older gentleman at a local coffee shop. He stopped in his tracks & asked me if my mother was (insert her maiden name) I said yes…he told me he was a teacher of hers and I have her smile
64points

The exact numbers can vary from study to study depending on their definitions, but one survey suggests that roughly 4 in 5 women (81 percent) have experienced some form of sexual harassment.

That includes verbal forms (77%) of sexual harassment, like being catcalled or whistled at, or receiving unwanted comments of a sexual nature.

#3

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
A man chased me. Actually chased me a mile. To tell me he liked my smile (while extremely out of breath). A MILE. CHASED ME.
61points

#4

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
older man asked if he could walk me across the crosswalk. he seemed nice so I said yes. "you look just like my Melody, the day we met. She's gone now. Thanks for letting an old man relive the day he met the love of his life. You're going to be one heck of a wife one day" idk why I stopped, why i let him escort me, but it was worth it for that kind man
57points

#5

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
A positive one. A British man was walking past and we bumped. I apologized. And he said “not to worry you beautiful little evening primrose”. Made my whole life.
54points

Such behavior is so widespread that you can find it in places you'd least expect it. For instance, another survey of 1,049 female LinkedIn users between the ages of 27 and 42 discovered that a whopping 91% of them say they received romantic advances or sexually inappropriate messages on the platform at least once. Almost a quarter (24%) said the messages showed up in their account daily or every other day.

#6

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
I’m admittedly overweight. I forgot something in the grocery store, so I had to go back in. A man walked up next to me said, “Going back in for seconds?”
53points

#7

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
One time I was walking my dog with my friend and a guy standing outside smoking said “You’re beautiful mama”, looked at my friend said “Damn you’re beautiful too” then looked at my dog and said “DAMN even the dogs beautiful” 😭
53points

#8

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
I have an aquiline nose, I was shopping and this man came up to me and told me I had the most beautiful side profile. I spent years hating my side profile and this actually empowered me.
49points

However, if you know how to give a compliment, the fact that you don't know someone doesn't have to stop you from doing so. It's even in your best interest.

Raj Raghunathan, PhD, author of If You’re So Smart, Why Aren’t You Happy?, believes that one of the reasons complimenting others makes you feel better is that it helps you perceive yourself as a generous, bighearted person, which, in turn, increases your self-esteem.

It's easy to forget how good a little praise can make another person feel, but many of us have moments where we notice and appreciate something about others. Let's try to tell them, only nicely.

#9

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
I’m in a wheelchair, and men often come up to me and say, “You’re too pretty to be in a wheelchair.” Thanks, I guess🥴
48points

#10

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
Not about my appearance, but I had my daughter with Down syndrome with me and he came up and asked me if I considered abortion.
42points

#11

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
I had an old white man tell me he’d buy me if that was still legal, bcuz I’m so pretty he’d have to have me to himself…..🙃 I’ve never in my life been more speechless and angrier than I was that day
41points

#12

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
I was 8 months pregnant and my BOSS at Walmart said “You can dye your hair all you want but it ain’t gonna make you look no better.” I called HR. They just changed his schedule 🙄 But I got the last laugh because he died a year later. So.
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41points

#13

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
A homeless man sitting outside the gym yelled at me and said “you’re still fat”! As I was walking out the gym 😂
37points

#14

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
My 7th grade teacher told me I was developing nicely.
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36points

#15

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
A patient at my job told me that I look like all of my friends are over educated communists. Slay 😎
34points

#16

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
One time I walked past a group of teenage boys and one UNPROVOKED says “4/10”
33points

#17

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
When I cut my front bangs too short, and a guy told me I looked like lord farquad
33points

#18

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
A homeless drag queen told me I wore too much makeup.
32points

#19

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
Man came up to me at a bar and told me I had a nice tummy and kept laughing and pointing at it. He then got kicked out
31points

#20

50 Times Men Said Something So Weird Women Still Can’t Forget It
When I was a waitress a customer said "you are so smiley, I want to punch that smile off your face because you just seem so sweet and happy." I said "sorry" and had my manager take that table.
28points
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