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I was ten, and bending down to get something off a lower shelf at the grocery store. I was wearing a new lower cut shirt but forgot to wear my training bra that day.
The guy was mid 40s probably. His wife was with him, she looked like she was about to cry. I never wore that shirt again.
I did tell my dad after we left the store. He told me what they guy did was sick and wrong, and that next time something like that happened, tell him immediately.
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Women continue to face harassment in various environments, including public spaces. In developing countries like India, there has been a noticeable increase in sexual harassment cases occurring in public spaces. This rise correlates with greater female participation in activities outside the home, such as education and employment. As women claim their space in society, they are unfortunately met with resistance in the form of harassment.
In many parts of South Asia, this public harassment is referred to as "eve teasing." It often occurs in crowded settings, such as buses, marketplaces, or busy streets, where women become easy targets for inappropriate comments, gestures, or physical contact. Despite being disturbingly common, it remains a normalized part of everyday life for many women.
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Glad I had someone there with me.
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I was 17 and cleaning a window at work(on one knee). Guy, in front of his ~8 yo son- “you like being on your knees?”
It happens a lot more the younger women are, creepy guys know that the older we are the less likely we are to stand for that s**t. So if you’re young- who gives a s**t about being polite? Give them a curled lip, raised eyebrow and a well placed “ew” and watch their faces fall.
#6

When I, shocked, said, "Excuse me?"
Him: "You're not going to continue?"
Me, incredulous at this point: "No."
Him, smiling: "That's too bad."
After watching him exchange smiles with my mentor, I politely told him that he was very inappropriate and I'd appreciate him not saying things like that again. He said he wouldn't, but that small smile was still on his face like he didn't take it seriously...
The creepiest thing about it was how unfazed both him and my mentor seemed by the whole interaction.
Legal action against eve-teasing exists, but it is often weak, inconsistent, or poorly enforced. Victims may be discouraged from reporting due to fear of retaliation, societal shame, or lack of trust in the system. As a result, perpetrators go unpunished, and the cycle of public harassment continues unchecked.
And it's not just an issue limited to developing countries. Across the world, women continue to face lewd comments, unsolicited remarks, and uncomfortable advances, even in well-known, tourist-friendly areas. Public spaces that should feel safe and welcoming often become zones of unease. Whether it's a busy street in a major city or a crowded beach abroad, many women report feeling constantly on guard. The global nature of this issue reflects a deep-rooted problem that goes beyond borders, cultures, or economic status.
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ETA: there were three of us and while we really have no idea if he had actually been following us for awhile, we assume he had been around long enough to know we spoke English, since he didn't approach me speaking French.
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According to ResearchGate, incidents of verbal and physical harassment in public areas have not received the level of attention they warrant, especially when it comes to women. This oversight highlights the urgent need for more awareness and intervention on street-level harassment.
But it’s not just strangers women have to be wary of, data reveals that harassment often comes from people they know. Whether it’s colleagues, acquaintances, family members, or intimate partners, many women report experiencing inappropriate behavior or abuse within familiar circles. This makes the situation even more complex and painful, as trust is breached in environments that are supposed to feel safe.
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According to the World Health Organization (WHO), an estimated 736 million women, nearly one in three, have experienced physical and/or sexual violence by an intimate partner, non-partner, or both at least once in their lifetime. This staggering figure, which represents 30% of women aged 15 and older, does not include instances of sexual harassment.
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I was very, very, VERY uncomfortable.
ETA: I just want to say I’m so sorry for all of you who commented experiencing something similar or worse (from a family member and at a young age). It’s disgusting the things some grown men say/do to children and women. I’m glad all of you have the courage to open up about these experiences. ❤️.
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The majority of violence against women is perpetrated by someone they know, most often a current or former husband or intimate partner. More than 640 million women aged 15 and older, or 26%, have suffered abuse at the hands of a partner.
Adolescent girls are particularly vulnerable. By the age of 19, nearly one in four (24%) girls who have been in a relationship report experiencing physical, sexual, or psychological abuse by a partner, highlighting the early and lasting impact of intimate partner violence.
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Women with disabilities face even greater risk. They report higher rates of all forms of intimate partner violence compared to women without disabilities. A recent review confirmed a strong connection between disability and increased exposure to abuse. In the European Union, studies show that women with disabilities, especially those with limited income, are at significantly higher risk of experiencing violence.
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He'd found out I was disabled and decided this was an excellent and appropriate conversation piece.


