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41 Moms Who Never Thought They’d Lose Their Spark Share Comparison Pics To Show If They Did

41 Moms Who Never Thought They’d Lose Their Spark Share Comparison Pics To Show If They Did

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Becoming a parent is one of the most wonderful things that can happen to you. But it would be a lie to say that it’s not immensely challenging. Your entire life changes. And giving birth can lead to an incredibly difficult postpartum period, physically, mentally, and emotionally.
Many authentic and honest moms are going online to share photos before and after giving birth, and are opening up about how they’ve lost their spark since having kids. They revealed how they’ve lost their sense of self, feel overwhelmed, and how they miss being supported by a community that cares. Today, we’re sharing some of their most heartfelt photos with you.

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Woman smiling outdoors promising not to lose her spark after birth, child lying in bed with a playful expression.
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The second phase, the subacute phase, begins around 24 hours after giving birth and lasts for 2 to 6 weeks. During this time, your body is still changing, but you are less likely to experience an actual medical emergency.

However, during this time, you may suffer from postpartum depression, urinary incontinence, and cardiomyopathy.

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Two women showing confidence and fashion, illustrating women who promised not to lose their spark after giving birth.
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Young woman and mother with baby illustrating women who promised to keep their spark after giving birth.
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Side-by-side images of a woman showing confidence and then tiredness, representing spark after giving birth.
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The last phase, the delayed phase, lasts from around 6 weeks to 6 months after giving birth.

“Changes during this phase are gradual and mainly consist of your muscles and tissues returning to their pre-pregnancy state.” During this phase, you may experience pelvic floor dysfunction and pain during intimacy with your partner.

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Woman sharing her experience of maintaining her spark after giving birth, showing confidence in casual outfits indoors.
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Two women standing indoors sharing their experiences about keeping their spark after giving birth.
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Woman confidently posing outdoors and indoors, sharing her experience about maintaining her spark after giving birth.
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If you feel like sharing, we’d like to hear your thoughts in the comments, dear Pandas. What have been the biggest parenting challenges for you personally? How do you balance raising kids and the rest of your life?

What do you do to support your significant other? And what advice would you give new parents who feel extremely overwhelmed, scared, and exhausted? Let us know.

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Two women sharing their experiences on maintaining their spark after giving birth in different indoor and outdoor settings.
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#29

Woman wearing a hijab standing confidently with a purse and boots, reflecting on postpartum spark after giving birth.
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Two women sharing their experiences about not losing their spark after giving birth in a before and after split image.
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Woman wearing a crown and tie on left and close-up of woman with baby on right, sharing experiences of keeping their spark after birth.
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Two women reflecting on postpartum experiences, focusing on maintaining their spark and identity after giving birth.
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Two women sharing their experiences about keeping their spark after giving birth in casual settings.
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Two women sharing their experiences about not losing their spark after giving birth in casual indoor settings.
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Woman with long black hair before and after giving birth, sharing experience of not losing her spark post-pregnancy.
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Two women sharing their experiences about not losing their spark and motherhood after giving birth.
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Woman vowing not to lose her spark after birth paired with mom and baby showing postpartum reality.
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Two women showing postpartum bodies with text overlays about not losing their spark after giving birth.
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Two women share their experiences about maintaining their spark after giving birth, one dressed up and one casual.
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Two women sharing their experiences about keeping their spark after giving birth in home settings.
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