Ladies Reveal 31 Things No One Actually Told Them About Men Until They Got A Boyfriend Themselves

First things are always interesting, whether it be dating someone or knowing their weird secrets. Especially when the opposite gender is a complete mystery to you, and you slowly uncover facts about them that you would have never guessed. As you scroll through the list, you might even be amused by some of the things that women have shared.

On the other hand, some of these are actually quite sad, if you think about it. For instance, one lady shared how much men can struggle mentally, yet never tell anyone about it. In fact, research has also proved that men are more likely than women to prefer to deal with mental illness on their own when it comes to treatment.

Speaking about men's mental health, it has also been observed that men are less likely to access psychological therapies than women, as only 36% of referrals to NHS talking therapies are for men. A Pew Research Center survey also suggests that, as opposed to women, men are less likely to turn to their network for emotional support.

As we dig deeper into the issue, it's actually quite mournful to think that even in the 21st century, men are still made to brush their mental health under the carpet and adhere to the social norms of "masculinity." In fact, research suggests that it's this exact toxic masculinity that stops young men from seeking the mental health support that they need.

Someone also spoke about how men's readiness to be in a relationship is based on their financial status, and how she has never faced this as a woman. The bitter truth is that it may even stem from deeply ingrained beliefs that men are still expected to be the sole "breadwinners" for their families.

A survey has revealed that 72% of men believe it’s important for the man in a relationship to be able to financially support his family in order to be a good partner. Women had similar expectations of the men in their lives, with 71% of women surveyed expecting their male partners to bring home the bacon to qualify as a good partner.

However, the American Sociological Association states that being the primary breadwinner is bad for men's psychological well-being and health.

One Reddit user also mentioned how men receive way fewer compliments as opposed to women, and even research backs up this fact. However, we all love compliments, don't we? Psychology Today also states that compliments often make the receiver feel better than most people anticipate, and they also improve the mood of the compliment giver.

When we already live in a world where something as harmful as toxic masculinity exists, a simple compliment sounds like a small, graceful fighter against it. After all, men also deserve to be appreciated just as much as women.

Other women also mentioned some warm things about men, which was honestly quite endearing to read, especially little things about how men can be quite caring. Don't you think so, too? Let us know your thoughts in the comments. Also, dear women readers, if we have missed any such facts, do share them with us, and don't forget to upvote your favorite one on the list!