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30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
Social IssuesAPR 24, 2025

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream

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I saw a joke on the internet the other day saying that Man-Flu is more painful than childbirth. While some may find that funny, or sarcastic, women's pain is no laughing matter. Research reveals that there are actually major discrepancies when it comes to how doctors treat women versus their male counterparts.
One study found that female patients are consistently LESS likely to be prescribed pain medication than men. Experts blame this blatant bias on the myth that women have a higher pain threshold, and beliefs that they exaggerate their pain. But either way, they're being made to suffer... quite unnecessarily.
A recent TikTok video highlighting the sex bias in pain management clocked up thousands of reactions. It was mainly women who commented about how they find it, quite literally, painfully relatable. Many shared their own personal experiences of being overlooked by healthcare professionals. From receiving paracetamol after a C-section, to getting Tylenol for a shattered elbow. Some of these stories might be hard to stomach. But we have put together a list of the most startling ones, to draw attention to what one person has called a public health crisis.

#1

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
Watching the treatment my husband received for his vasectomy versus the way my pain was treated before, during, and after being pregnant/birth haunts me.
87points

#2

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
Just remembering my friend who died from a brain aneurism after being turned away from the ER three times. Rip Lauren Buxton. You deserved better.
77points

#3

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
Raise ur hand if u ever went to get something checked out and they simply blamed it on ur period!!
70points

When researchers set out to investigate whether there is sex bias in pain management, they didn’t just look at a couple of hundred, or a few thousand case studies. They dissected data from the hospital discharge notes of more than 21,000 people with pain complaints in the US and Israeli healthcare systems.

The extensive study was carried out by experts from several Israeli universities, and an international team of researchers. The findings point to blatant bias against female patients, and show that they "are consistently less likely to receive pain medication prescriptions compared to male patients with similar complaints."

#4

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
Husbands vasectomy got him twice as much oxy prescribed as my cesarean. He was told bedrest then low activity.. I was given a newborn and told to get up. 👍 this is our reality
70points

#5

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
COLPOSCOPY: where they hole punch your cervix for biopsies. You bleed for days after. GETTING AN IUD: where they insert a device into your uterus. BOTH OF WHICH ARE DONE W/O SEDATION OR MEDS AFTERWARD
61points

#6

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
a man in the comments said “ur period isn’t that bad” Mofo how would you know?
59points

"The study revealed that female patients are prescribed fewer pain relief medications than male patients, even after considering the levels of pain reported and other variables such as age, medical history, and the type of complaint," reads a press release from the Hebrew University of Jerusalem. "This suggests a systemic issue where women's pain may not be taken as seriously or treated as aggressively as men's pain."

It further calls for "urgent policy interventions and training for healthcare professionals to address and counteract these biases, ensuring equal pain treatment for all patients."

#7

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
The only way my older sister was able to get a certain medicine was by sending her husband in instead, so he claimed he had bronchitis and he got the medication she had been asking ages for
57points

#8

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
I audit over 2100 randomly selected surgeries every year, I follow pre, intra and post. The study is correct. For the same procedure a male will get up to 3 pain scripts. Women 0-1. Data.
55points

#9

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
I had internal bleeding, ruptured organ, I was actively dying, vomiting blood.. and they refused to give me anything more than a few endone. it lasted two days, worse than child birth. my bf had his tooth removed and he was given months supply of endone and valium.. even he noticed how bad drs treat women.
53points

The researchers believe misconceptions about women's pain are to blame. “Previous work has shown that individuals tend to perceive females’ pain as less intense than that of males. This perception bias has in turn been explained by a gender–pain exaggeration bias: People view females as more emotional and assume that they overreport their experienced pain compared to males," they said.

“The literature has suggested additional stereotypes that may also explain why female patients receive less pain treatment, such as the perception of females as more capable of physically tolerating pain than males."

#10

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
brought my mom to the er for INTENSE pain, they said stomach bug. week later went to diff ER, she apparently had an acute kidney infection that almost turned septic. didn’t take her seriously at all
51points

#11

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
I’m having a kidney removed this year because 4 male doctors told me my pain and symptoms were all in my head. It took a massive kidney infection that almost k****d me for them to believe me.
51points

#12

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
I have endometriosis, I had to fight for decent pain meds. Husband hurt his shoulder and had pills thrown at him. Wtf was that about.
47points

A British survey of more than 110 000 women found that 50% of them felt that their pain was disregarded or overlooked. And many said their suffering (particularly related to menstrual health) was dismissed as "a natural aspect of being a woman" and therefore didn't warrant medical attention.

"In the same survey women have reported being left unattended to bleed for hours after miscarriage and sent home with the advice of taking paracetamol, whereas others reported severe pain sustained for years due to endometriosis or fibroids but were told 'it was all in their head'," notes a research paper, which cited the survey.

#13

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
I had an ovarian cyst that burst, Dr told me it was probably just constipation.
47points

#14

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
A couple weeks ago I went to the er for kidney pain as I have a small kidney that often gets stones. A man infront of me also had kidney stone symptoms. He was sent straight to the dr to be put on IV fluids to help flush his kidneys. Me however with pre existing kidney issues was sat in a waiting room for 5 hours, told to keep hydrated and come back if it gets worse. Had to ask to have my cannula removed as they forgot. He walks out, fully hydrated , given pain meds and never had to sit in the waiting room.
45points

#15

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
I went to the doctor for excruciating pain in my side and trouble breathing. the doctor told me "toughen up princess, have some panadol and you'll be okay". I had to call an ambulance that same night
43points

Another study, published in the Journal of the American Heart Association, revealed that "young female patients (aged 18–55 years) who presented to emergency departments with chest pain had a 29% longer wait time for potential heart attack evaluation compared with their male counterparts."

Women of color were forced to wait even longer! And were less likely to be prescribed the medication they needed.

#16

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
The way they literally do a c section that goes through skin, muscle, fat and what ever else they go through and only give you paracetamol after
42points

#17

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
and yet it’s women who have lower pain tolerances, huh??
41points

#18

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
My gallbladder was so scarred and inflamed it was literally fusing to my other organs and for three years I was told “it’s probably just stress!”
40points

The lead researcher of the Israeli study has warned that sex bias in medicine can have major consequences for female patients.

"Our research reveals a troubling bias in how women's pain is perceived and treated in emergency care settings," said Professor Choshen-Hillel. "This under-treatment of female patients' pain could have serious implications for women's health outcomes, potentially leading to longer recovery times, complications, or chronic pain conditions."

#19

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
My cousin puked all day everyday for 6+ months. She threw up so much she lost 100 pounds. Anytime she went to the ER they accused her of drug seeking. She looked emaciated, they still didn’t listen.
40points

#20

30 Times Ridiculously Unfair Treatment From Doctors Made Women Want To Scream
A hospital dismissed my mom’s pain as her fibromyalgia after she said it wasnt that repeatedly, they just sent her home. She ended up having a brain aneurysm!!!
39points
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