You know how the holiday season is supposed to be all about decking the halls, singing carols, and stuffing your face with an embarrassing amount of cookies? Between decorating, cooking, and finding space for everyone’s presents, hosting Christmas dinner at your place is a real stress test. Add a couple of overexcited pups crashing the party, and suddenly the holiday cheer comes with a side of shedding fur and chewed-up ornaments.
For one netizen, this year’s Christmas is shaping up to be less “Silent Night” and more “Who Let the Dogs Out.” Turns out, the family is split over a hot-button issue: should the dogs come to Christmas dinner?
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When you mix holiday cheer with overexcited pups, the Christmas spirit can either be the life of the party or a fur-covered nightmare
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One woman was planning to host Christmas dinner at her house when 3 family members announced they would be bringing their dogs along
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The woman doesn’t have any pets and doesn’t want dogs in her house because of germs and lack of space, and she is worried about her small kids
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The woman tells her family she wants a dog-free Christmas and their furry friends are not invited to the festivities
Dogs are part of the family, of course, but not every home is built to handle their zoomies, slobber, or those mischievous bathroom breaks that somehow always happen in front of the tree.
And our OP (original poster), who admits she never owned a pet, found herself blindsided when 3 family members just assumed their furry friends were automatically invited to the Christmas Day festivities. Two excitable puppies and a rescue dog were apparently gearing up for their big holiday debut, without even an RSVP!
So, what does a gracious host do when suddenly faced with the prospect of a four-legged invasion? Well, our OP sent a polite message clarifying that this year’s gathering would be dog-free, citing personal preferences, limited space, and the presence of small kids.
Sounds reasonable, right? Well, not according to the dog owners, who fired back with messages questioning if this was all due to a "germ OCD" issue. To make things even more awkward, they dragged the OP’s husband into the fray, implying he should have a say since it’s “not just her house.” A serving of Christmas drama, anyone?
Here’s the million-dollar question: when did bringing dogs to everything become the norm? I get it, I’m a pet owner too, but that doesn’t mean I expect everyone to automatically like my furry friend. While pets are part of the family and it’s great to include them in celebrations, it’s also important to consider the comfort of everyone involved, including the pets themselves.
Because this is not just about space or personal preference—there are plenty of legitimate reasons to leave the pooches at home for a few hours. Dogs, especially puppies in their zoomie phase, can create chaos in an environment that isn’t dog-proofed. Add small children into the mix, and it’s a recipe for disaster.
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We wanted to learn more about how to manage dogs in various social situations, so we reached out to Kelly Lee, professional dog trainer, for more information on this topic. She told us that the best way to introduce dogs to family members, especially shy or fearful dogs, is by assessing the dog’s comfort level. For dogs that are fearful or aggressive, avoiding introductions altogether might be the best approach.
Instead, ensure they are set up in a calm, secure space. For more social dogs, introductions should be gradual and take place in spacious environments, allowing the dog to approach family members on their own terms.
When asked about the risks of bringing dogs to crowded holiday events, Lee explained that crowded spaces can be overwhelming even for confident dogs, increasing the likelihood of stress-related behaviors, including biting. Additionally, holiday food can pose health risks, as dogs might ingest something harmful or overly rich.
On the topic of leaving dogs alone during the holidays, Lee advised practicing short separations ahead of time to see how dogs react. Monitoring them via camera and starting with brief absences can help ensure they feel comfortable and safe.
“Some dogs are comfortable being left home alone for most of the day as long as they have access to water and space to stretch out and get comfortable. But if you're not sure whether your dog will be ok left alone for hours, the holidays aren't a good time to test it out,” Lee advised.
When discussing homes with young children, Lee emphasized that supervision is key to preventing accidents, as kids are at higher risk of being bitten. Using barriers like baby gates to separate dogs and children can help ensure a safe environment for everyone.
Finally, we wanted to know about potential issues when introducing multiple dogs, such as puppies, in chaotic settings. Lee recommended avoiding such scenarios during busy events, as the stress of a chaotic environment can increase the chances of fights and create long-term behavioral issues for puppies, highlighting the importance of supervision and gradual introductions.
For someone who isn’t a pet owner, like the OP, the idea of shedding, slobber, and accidental bathroom breaks near the Christmas tree isn’t exactly festive, now is it? Plus, she’s not really friendly with germs either.
So, is our poster being unreasonable? Should dogs get an automatic invite to holiday gatherings, or is it fair to ask them to sit this one out? Let us know in the comments!
Netizens sided with the woman, saying it’s her house, her rules, and her family shouldn’t have assumed they could bring their dogs without asking
