People Expose 39 Things That Pretend To Be Wholesome Yet Are Actually Toxic

Not sure if it’s on here already, but I get super uncomfortable when a video of a classroom of kids giving the kid who “can’t afford new shoes” a brand new pair as a surprise. The entire culture of filming while doing kind things for people is so exploitive and gross and sad.

The expectation to keep your family members in your life no matter what they do. Some people have families that treat them like absolute [trash], and being related to them isn't a good reason to keep them around. It's ok to cut off toxic family members.

Body positivity like Dove's "Real Beauty" campaign. The idea that all women are beautiful sounds nice on the surface, but it's a gross message to send because beauty is still at the core of it. I don't want to be told that my body is beautiful too, I want to be told that I don't have to be beautiful, that my value is not tied to how much other people enjoy looking at me.

Beauty Pagents

“Look at this adorable 4-year-old using a walker! So inspirational!” “Awww, this guy asked a deaf girl to prom!” “Watch this group of guys playing tackle football with a guy with Down syndrome!!” “Check out this amazing blind kid walking down a street! Next level, yo!”

Proposing in front of a crowd. Puts a lot of pressure on the person being proposed to.

Corporations who spend $50 million on ads to tell you about the amazing $1 million they spent on a charity program.

Toxic positivity. Like when someone's having a really hard time and you tell them to stay positive or try to look at the bright side. [Screw] you Jenny, my grandma died.

Instagram "influencers" promoting their "amazing" healthy lifestyles but in reality mostly staged/photoshopped and exacerbating mental illness, body issues, anxiety in young people.

Touching women’s bellies when they’re pregnant. You don’t go around patting a [private part] to congratulate it on its successful [finishing]. [darn].

The pure existence of most modern dog breeds. Pugs, for example. We all think they’re super cute, but the truth is - they are extremely deformed and constantly suffering as a result of a century of inbreeding. A lot of people don’t know this, and it’s really sad. I’m not saying these dogs should be put down right now, just saying it would’ve been a better idea not to inbreed dogs for centuries.

Asking your child "Who's your boy/girlfriend?" any time they interact with someone of the opposite [intimacy].

Badgering people to have kids. No, I’m not going to magically change my mind when I meet the right girl.

Dads trying to be weirdly aggressive/threatening to their daughter's bfs.

Family vlogging

Punking people with practical jokes that are fake traumatic incidents. There is absolutely nothing funny about witnessing a fake passing or mortal injury and then discovering it was all an elaborate joke. It’s traumatizing.

As a former homeless person, I can't put into words how annoying the people who film themselves handing out food for a viral video with some emotional pop song overlaid on it are. It's 100% "look at me, look how cool and HELPFUL I am" while honestly not giving a real [darn] about the homeless. It'd be one thing if you're putting your fame and money back into funding a shelter, or true change and volunteering and charity efforts but not just dropping $20 on some McDonalds meals to drive around LA filming strangers sleeping on the street for a bit.

Using your child for likes on social media, that's creepy I never understood why would any parent do that

Abstinence and purity promise culture. Really [screws] people up for a long time when you teach them that: A.) [intimacy] is dirty, bad and evil B.) their worth as a person is tied to that purity

Asking babies to hug and kiss people