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One of the experiments that researchers did was giving 96 university students $5 every day for 5 days to spend on the exact same thing every time. They were randomly selected to spend the money on themselves or on someone else and at the end of each day, they reflected on their experience and overall happiness. And it showed a clear pattern: "Those who spent money on themselves reported a steady decline in happiness over the 5-day period. But the happiness did not seem to fade for those who gave their money to someone else."
One reason behind this seems to be that people who focus on the outcome, like getting paid or receiving a gift, tend to become less affected by the experience itself. However, when people focus on the action, they are not thinking about or comparing the outcomes but rather focus on the experience which brings them happiness.
Looking through the list makes you think that these boyfriends and husbands should feel just as happy and excited as the sweethearts who were pleasantly surprised by such thoughtful and wholesome gifts. But remember, the most precious thing you can give your significant other is actually pretty simple: your attention and your love.
#28 My Husband Had Rotator Cuff Surgery Yesterday. I Found This On Our Whiteboard This Morning And He Must Have Wrote It With His Non-Dominant Hand

#31 Something I Made For My Girlfriend. Been Practicing A Lot Since September And Here’s The Result

#33 He Has The Biggest Smile Right As He's About To Give His Girlfriend Her Valentine's Gift For The First Time

#34 My Long-Distance Girlfriend Loves The Outdoors, So For Her Birthday, I Made Her An Automata

#35 On Our First Date, I Jokingly Told My Boyfriend I Loved Jeff Goldblum’s Half-Shirtless Scene In Jurassic Park So Much, I Wished I Had A Giant Painting Of It

#36 My Wife Wrote A Book, So For Her Birthday I Bound It

#38 A Genius Idea

#39 My Boyfriend Made Me A Pretty Paperlamp With My Travellers In It

You can change the color of the lamp with a remote too.
#40 It's My Birthday. My Husband Made Me A Blanket Fort In The Living Room, Bought Me A Season Of Bob's Burgers And A Bottle Of Wine. He's A Great Man















