You been through your share of good and bad relationships and while most may have been bad they all taught you a lesson. They taught you what you will and will not deal with from this point forward. You've given him the best parts of you. Parts that you've never given anyone else before, and you know what? ...it's enough. You've done more than enough, and if he can't see that then too bad for him at this point. It's gonna be his loss, and someone else's gain; and that someone else is gonna appreciate everything about you that your last took for granted. You need the same type of love you are willing to give nothing less.
You been existing for far too long without life in you. You have been exhausted from dealing with a relationship that drains and tears you down rather than build you up. Being a good woman doesn't mean you have to deal with someone who is not willing to put in the effort needed to make a relationship work. You shouldn't have to feel the weight of the world on your shoulders when you have a man laying next to you. You get tired of being strong all the time without a shoulder to lean on. Tired of putting your all into someone and receiving nothing in return. Being a good woman will never be good enough for the wrong man. The wrong man will always shatter your self-confidence and outlook on life. You shouldn't have to go above and beyond for a man who is not willing to do the same for you. He will never appreciate you as a good woman because he can't see past his own selfish ways and being patient won't allow him the time to see past his wrong doings because in his eyes he is right.
Stop wasting your time and energy on a man who has not given you any reasons to believe he will change his ways in order not to lose you. The more you give the more advantage he will take because he feels powerful enough to think you will never walk away. It's never easy to walk away specially when you have invested so much of yourself in trying to make it work. You've given him countless chances to change and yet treats you as if you are not worth his effort. You are exhausted, frustrated, and heartbroken to have to walk away from a man who deep down inside you still love and willing to fight for, but you just don't want to have to do it alone. You deserve someone who is willing to make you a priority and doesn't make you feel like you are asking for too much.
Love shouldn't hurt. At the end of the day you are a good woman, you are far from perfect but your intentions are good. Your heart is pure and you love hard with everything you got. Any man would feel lucky to have a woman like you to hold him down. Stop giving the best of yourself to someone who is not worth another second of your presence. If they can't appreciate you and love you right dismiss them from your life and give yourself a chance at finding meaningful love. A love willing to compromise and sacrifice for you, and until that love comes along enjoy your life and the beauty in it. Life is too short to have to fight for something that should be freely given. You are too good of a woman to be dealing with an iffy man who has yet to grow up and appreciate a good woman like you. If he can't appreciate your presence, help him appreciate your abse
