"You live and you learn" is arguably the most common expression to justify mistakes. Yet, mistakes, regret, and life lessons are co-dependent. Consider it one of the life lessons learned the hard way, but the most genuine route to wisdom is making mistakes, also known as the trial and error method. Thus, feeling regret for things done wrong or not done at all is often the outcome. Yet, sometimes it's possible to forestall a few things we'd regret later by simply listening and hearing one another.
It's said that when people are offering you good life advice, it's really just them talking to their past self. Any good advice often comes from personal experiences and hard lessons learned from it. A recent thread on AskReddit revealed the many important life lessons individuals often learn the hard way. User Professional_Lab7394 asked, "What should one do in their 20s to avoid regrets in their 30s and 40s?" In this honest thread with over 6k comments, the r/askreddit community shared the biggest regrets in life that could have been prevented.
Below, we've gathered some of the best answers from the thread, sharing some of life's biggest regrets and the lessons that came with them. Do you agree with any of them? Let us know by giving it an upvote. Also, what's your take on the above question? Could some of your biggest regrets have been avoided if you'd done something differently earlier in life? Share your opinion in the comments.
#81
"Don’t buy anything you can’t pay for in full (except maybe a house)."
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7points
#82
"Educate yourself in a valuable field and start working on experience in said field."
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7points
#84
"Be careful about screen time. Staring at smartphones destroyed my eyesight."
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7points
#85
"Jump jobs to find one that suits you. I have a very diverse resume due to it and can get a job in dozens of fields."
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7points
#87
"Follow your dreams. They don’t go away, you won’t grow out of them. You’ll be better for it and have more confidence in yourself knowing that whatever happens you tried and gave it your all."
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6points
#88
"Invest in a skincare routine. Vitamin C and SPF every single day no matter the weather. Retinol 4-5 days a week."
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6points
#92
"Get laid. Get good at it. This may actually involve communication with partners."
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4points
#93
"Do not take a car loan. Just don't. If all you have is $1000, drive a $1000 car until you can afford a better one."
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4points


