"You live and you learn" is arguably the most common expression to justify mistakes. Yet, mistakes, regret, and life lessons are co-dependent. Consider it one of the life lessons learned the hard way, but the most genuine route to wisdom is making mistakes, also known as the trial and error method. Thus, feeling regret for things done wrong or not done at all is often the outcome. Yet, sometimes it's possible to forestall a few things we'd regret later by simply listening and hearing one another.
It's said that when people are offering you good life advice, it's really just them talking to their past self. Any good advice often comes from personal experiences and hard lessons learned from it. A recent thread on AskReddit revealed the many important life lessons individuals often learn the hard way. User Professional_Lab7394 asked, "What should one do in their 20s to avoid regrets in their 30s and 40s?" In this honest thread with over 6k comments, the r/askreddit community shared the biggest regrets in life that could have been prevented.
Below, we've gathered some of the best answers from the thread, sharing some of life's biggest regrets and the lessons that came with them. Do you agree with any of them? Let us know by giving it an upvote. Also, what's your take on the above question? Could some of your biggest regrets have been avoided if you'd done something differently earlier in life? Share your opinion in the comments.
#1
"If you plan to share a bank account with anyone, make sure to have another account just for you. And you only."
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47points
#4
"If you have pets, play with them all the time... interact, take the dog for a walk, even when you don't feel like it. Take lots of pictures and videos, save them, and back them up."
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38points
#15
"Learn to love yourself and not worry about the opinions of others. Remember that you are stuck with yourself for the rest of your life."
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26points
#17
"Learn how to lift heavy objects without damaging your back. 42-year-old me has a thing or two to tell 20-year-old me about this."
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25points


