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40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them

40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them

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Years ago, when I worked as a tennis writer, I attended press conferences and interviewed many of the world's top tennis stars, and they were all invariably polite, courteous, and well-mannered. However, I always wondered: are they like that in their everyday lives, or is it just a facade for the media?
As it turns out, I'm not the only one asking this question, but many netizens around the world are as well. Fortunately, celebrities interact with many people in their work and daily lives - so here's another collection of stories about what celebs are like in mundane life, made for you by Bored Panda.
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40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
I worked with Stanley from the Office at a Con once. This was before I had gotten around to watching the show so his celebrity was a bit wasted on me. He was incredibly nice and appreciative towards me, it was a very positive experience (not all of them are). He was very nice to all the guests too but what was special was his interactions with children. After he talked to the parents, he'd ask if he could talk to their kid, and then talk to their kids like they were equals, it was awesome to see. Do you like school? What grade are you in? What's your favorite subject? How are your grades? Do you plan on going to college? He then would really encourage them to do well in school and stuff. I thought it was wonderful! Afterwards, I learned that he used to be a special education teacher before he went into acting. Still out there totally being a supportive teacher, absolutely love it!
51points

#2

40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
Played table tennis with Keanu Reeves. There was a table tennis place in the same building my sister lived at in NYC. He was a regular there, and if he wasn't Keanu Reeves, you'd never know he was famous. Totally normal, down to earth, guy. There's loads of questions I wanted to ask, and things to talk about regarding his career, but I just felt like it wouldn't have been appropriate.
42points

#3

40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
Not worked with, but Brian Baumgartner (Kevin from The Office) had an appearance at our local baseball stadium. He was taking photos and signing autographs. The line was VERY long. At one point a stadium employee came up to him to say time was up and to wrap it up. He politely refused and said he would stay as long as there were people who wanted to meet him. He met and talked to every person in that line. Real stand up guy.
35points

As often happens, the inspiration for this article came from the AskReddit community, where the user u/22m_spain literally yesterday posed the question to netizens: "[People] who have worked with celebrities, what don't we know about them?" And so, in less than 24 hours, the resulting thread has garnered nearly 2K upvotes and over 2.2K various comments.

From stars of bygone decades to modern influencers, from sitcom actors to multiple Grammy winners and those who had their personal Super Bowl halftime show - please feel free to read these four dozen tales about different people adorned with fame, who seem to be sweet and aren't.

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40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
I used to host at a Michelin-starred restaurant and met many celebrities.
The most interesting part was how normal and unassuming many of them were when in public. I seated people like Tina Fey and Leonardo DiCaprio, and no one else in the restaurant even noticed they were there because they looked so ‘normal’ when their public personas weren't on.

But Jimmy Fallon was always a big ham and is exactly like his screen persona in real life. And Hugh Jackman… that man had waves of charisma coming off him so strongly they were practically visible. It was incredible.
33points

#5

40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
Tom Hanks comes to the restaurant I bartend at fairly regularly with his writing company. Everyone who waits on him says he's insanely nice, and if he pays, he always tips at least a bill.
29points

#6

40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
Coolio stayed at the hotel in was working at probably the best part of 15 years ago now. I checked him in and also brought him up some food and helped him with some stuff in his room. Super chill guy. He tried to give me a few tickets to his show that he was in town for but i declined cause my girlfriend was in hospital so i was with her when I wasn't working. He asked after her when he saw me the next day. All in all, sweet guy, tipped well, cool hair.

Also dealt with former Australian prime minister Toby Abbott. He was nice enough but stared at you like a lizard.
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Of course, stories from people who’ve encountered celebrities literally once in their lives may be biased. For example, some of them could simply be in a bad mood, experiencing some professional or personal setback, and thus come off as nasty. After all, none of us is without sin, and the stars are no exception.

That's why the stories of people who’ve worked with celebrities for a long time, over a long period, and had the opportunity to observe and interact with them at different points in their lives, are so interesting. They can thus form a more complete opinion of what kind of people they are.

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40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
I worked as a fashion photographer for nearly 25 years. At the very beginning of my career around 2000 I was in Aspen for the winter and was invited to a party one evening. Was randomly introduced to a few known people and went home after a nice evening.

Two day later, day before new years my phone rang. “Hello? Hi, this is Rose I work with Mariah Carey. She’d like to know if you’re available to photograph her New Year’s Eve party?”

Come to find out my name was passed over to her even though she wasn’t at that particular party. I of course said yes to photographing it. Showed up, signed an NDA and the agreement to hand over all files at the end of the evening. At the first party I was introduced to JayZ, Will Smith who was there with a baby Jaden and a number of others. Mariah was so kind, stayed with me all evening, introduced me to everyone like I was a friend. Party ended and I went home, paid in cash and over the agreed amount. A couple of days later my phone rang again. Photographed her a couple more times that winter while she was staying. Always insanely sweet. Stupidly changed my phone number at one point that year and lost contact.

Will always remember how sweet she was to a deer in headlights at my first celebrity party. It also shaped me to where I was hardly ever intimidated by celebrities that I later worked with or met in the future.

EDIT: Changed Maria to Mariah. Need to learn how to proofread voice to text before hitting send.
27points

#8

40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
Knew the Obamas a bit when their girls were enrolled at the Laboratory Schools at the University of Chicago. She was especially very well known & liked. She was a regular volunteer school Mom!

Both very tall & she’s gorgeous irl.
25points

#9

40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
Not me, but my dad used to work as a security guard on one of Ellen Degeneres' properties and has two stories I love talking about. Once a quail somehow made its way into the house and Ellen lost her cool, freaked out and made my dad remove it. He had to bring in a ladder and chase it around lol. On a separate occasion Ellen found a baby seal on the beach- this property is on a waterfront so I'm not sure if she saw it from the house or was taking a walk or something. Again, she lost her cool, but apparently baby seals are less threatening than quails because she took it upon herself to try 'saving' it. Except I guess she didn't know seals are mammals, because her method involved getting a bucket full of water and dunking the baby seal into it. Thinking it breathed in water. Like a fish. I think it was my dad's coworker who had to intervene and then called someone to take care of it properly. Moral of the story don't trust Ellen Degeneres with animals.
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Incidentally, it's interesting that actors (especially outstanding actors) are often the ones who are talked about as being kind in real life. The point is that acting is also about the ability to “wear a mask” not only on stage or on set, but also in real life. It's the ability to stay in character even in everyday life.

This dedicated article at the Saybrook University website notes that as fame hits, many people also have to deal with the burden of a discrepancy between their personal image and their public one.

It's not surprising that, along with such "obvious" things about stardom as isolation, mistrust, and lack of personal privacy, many celebrities also struggle with the additional emotional burden of an identity crisis. When one always has to "conform" to an impeccable image - and, unlike professional actors, they've never been taught this. What could they actually do?

#10

40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
I’ve worked with Doug Jones, who’s a friend of a friend.

He’s one of the nicest, most genuine celebs I’ve ever encountered. Just an all around awesome guy.
24points

#11

40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
In college I worked as a bellman at a fancy hotel in Del Mar. During the horse racing season we would get a lot of celebrities. The one that stands out was Martin Sheen and his wife. They were incredibly nice, interested in me, and remembered me on a return visit. Just solid people.
24points

#12

40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
An old coworker had a side gig of helping to set up concerts at our local arena. We were talking about Justin Timberlake and my coworker was like “oh he was a huge jerk, he made us set up a hot tub backstage and then never used it. But his grandparents were really cool.” And I’m thinking, Justin Timberlake’s grandparents were with him on tour? And then I’m like “do you mean Justin Bieber?” And he did 😂.
22points

On the other hand, the constant attention from thousands and millions of fans, the aforementioned identity crisis, and the constant stress of living up to the expectations of a fan base (fans create a star, but they can also "extinguish" them) don't contribute to mental stability.

"The isolation from normalcy and the pressure to maintain a perfect image can lead to feelings of alienation," this article at the Psychological Care Institute website reasonably says. "Celebrities experience an inability to trust and often struggle to build authentic connections, amplifying mental health struggles."

So, in fact, honor and praise go to those people who, even under the weight of incredible responsibility, fame, and - let’s admit it - a lot of money, still manage to remain decent people. Incidentally, most of the stories in this collection are about good and kind folks anyway.

#13

40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
I’ve met my share of celebs but the one who stands out was John Candy. I was a young guy doing a bit part with some friends on SCTV. John was the nicest person, who was so careful to make sure we were happy and had everything we needed during the shoot. He hung out in our dressing room, telling stories. Just a really good guy. Eugene Levi was on that same shoot and he was pretty cranky, but at the end of the day, when we were leaving the studio, he came to us and apologized for being cranky. Completely unnecessary, and a completely stand up guy.

Edit: the SCTV skit was a Shmenge Brothers episode.
21points

#14

40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
I live in New Zealand, and sat across the row from. James Cameron on a one hour flight from Wellington to Auckland a week ago. (There’s no first class in any of the domestic airlines in NZ, so unless you have a private plane you’re slummin’ it with the regular joes on internal flights.)

I’m a high school film studies teacher and whilst I’m not the biggest fanboy, seeing Terminator 2 at the cinema in 1991 when I 16 was a big moment for me as a teenage film nerd. So as we were getting off the plane I mentioned how big a deal that film for putting me on the path I am today. He was very nice - said “wow, that was a long time ago” and asked where I taught and made a bit of chit chat as we walked down the gantry. Seemed like a decent guy and definitely made a bit more effort to chat than I was expecting.
18points

#15

40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
My company hired celebs to entice people to attend our biggest events each year. The opener at one conference was Adam Savage from Mythbusters. He was incredibly kind and engaging with all of us backstage. He asked about my son’s academic pursuits and suggested he attend the Colorado School of Mines so “he could learn to blow stuff up.” It was the most appropriate and delightful thing he could’ve said.
17points

In any case, no matter how emotionally stable or unstable celebrities may be, it's their true burden - he burden of fame. So it's no surprise that we mere mortals will always be interested in everything connected with them. Well, now please just read these stories to the end of the collection, and maybe add your own ones, in case you've also had some experience interacting with someone famous.

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40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
Ive worked on a lot of film and tv. Most actors are so self absorbed they have zero clue about anything else. When talking through the film community if you dont hear abput someone means they are nice enough people. The stand out to me were :

Dolly Parton - a true gem of a human .

Shaq - a cool and genuinely caring person .

Jason Bateman - great guy . Very funny .

Mike Epps - very funny .

Kevin Spacey - knew is was a weirdo creep the second we met .

The Rock - everything you see is contrived and he is not a nice guy .
17points

#17

40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
I walked past Craig David on the street in NYC a year or two ago. I didn’t wanna stop and talk to him even though I’m a big fan, but made eye contact, gave him a nod and said ‘my man!’ He nodded back and said ‘alright!’ I never broke stride, he got into the car that was waiting for him. Overall a perfect interaction.

Edit: this is supposed to KEITH DAVID, please accept my sincere, sleep deprived apologies for the mixup. I don’t even know who Craig David is, but KEITH DAVID was super cool in person.
17points

#18

40 Fascinating Secrets About Celebrities Spilled By Those Who Once Worked With Them
Some of them are terribly lonely.

I once spent the day hanging out with one of the huge names in rock from the 70s (won't mention who he was out of respect as he's gone now, and it's not important anyway) who had asked my roommate, who was nannying for him, to gather some buddies for him to hang out with. We were all in our 20s, he was 60-ish.

He was a nice guy, wasn't being creepy or anything, but it became clear he just wanted companionship. He was dropping all these big names but was spending time with a bunch of rent-a-buddies who had nothing in common with him. I enjoyed his stories found the entire experience quite poignant.
17points

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Jeff Goldblum knew my name when i was introduced to him. I was working as an assistant (to another actor), and he memorizes everyones name on the roster. I've heard the same for Tom Cruise.

If you ever have a chance to meet Jeff, it will exceed your expectations.
17points

#20

My wife was an extra on the movie One Chance, starring James Corden, and apparently he was one of the nicest people you could ever meet…

…sorry, I typed that wrong. He was an absolute jerk who treated everyone like a lump of dogshit he just stepped in.
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