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As often happens, the inspiration for this article came from the AskReddit community, where the user u/22m_spain literally yesterday posed the question to netizens: "[People] who have worked with celebrities, what don't we know about them?" And so, in less than 24 hours, the resulting thread has garnered nearly 2K upvotes and over 2.2K various comments.
From stars of bygone decades to modern influencers, from sitcom actors to multiple Grammy winners and those who had their personal Super Bowl halftime show - please feel free to read these four dozen tales about different people adorned with fame, who seem to be sweet and aren't.
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The most interesting part was how normal and unassuming many of them were when in public. I seated people like Tina Fey and Leonardo DiCaprio, and no one else in the restaurant even noticed they were there because they looked so ‘normal’ when their public personas weren't on.
But Jimmy Fallon was always a big ham and is exactly like his screen persona in real life. And Hugh Jackman… that man had waves of charisma coming off him so strongly they were practically visible. It was incredible.
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Also dealt with former Australian prime minister Toby Abbott. He was nice enough but stared at you like a lizard.
Of course, stories from people who’ve encountered celebrities literally once in their lives may be biased. For example, some of them could simply be in a bad mood, experiencing some professional or personal setback, and thus come off as nasty. After all, none of us is without sin, and the stars are no exception.
That's why the stories of people who’ve worked with celebrities for a long time, over a long period, and had the opportunity to observe and interact with them at different points in their lives, are so interesting. They can thus form a more complete opinion of what kind of people they are.
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Two day later, day before new years my phone rang. “Hello? Hi, this is Rose I work with Mariah Carey. She’d like to know if you’re available to photograph her New Year’s Eve party?”
Come to find out my name was passed over to her even though she wasn’t at that particular party. I of course said yes to photographing it. Showed up, signed an NDA and the agreement to hand over all files at the end of the evening. At the first party I was introduced to JayZ, Will Smith who was there with a baby Jaden and a number of others. Mariah was so kind, stayed with me all evening, introduced me to everyone like I was a friend. Party ended and I went home, paid in cash and over the agreed amount. A couple of days later my phone rang again. Photographed her a couple more times that winter while she was staying. Always insanely sweet. Stupidly changed my phone number at one point that year and lost contact.
Will always remember how sweet she was to a deer in headlights at my first celebrity party. It also shaped me to where I was hardly ever intimidated by celebrities that I later worked with or met in the future.
EDIT: Changed Maria to Mariah. Need to learn how to proofread voice to text before hitting send.
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Both very tall & she’s gorgeous irl.
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Incidentally, it's interesting that actors (especially outstanding actors) are often the ones who are talked about as being kind in real life. The point is that acting is also about the ability to “wear a mask” not only on stage or on set, but also in real life. It's the ability to stay in character even in everyday life.
This dedicated article at the Saybrook University website notes that as fame hits, many people also have to deal with the burden of a discrepancy between their personal image and their public one.
It's not surprising that, along with such "obvious" things about stardom as isolation, mistrust, and lack of personal privacy, many celebrities also struggle with the additional emotional burden of an identity crisis. When one always has to "conform" to an impeccable image - and, unlike professional actors, they've never been taught this. What could they actually do?
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He’s one of the nicest, most genuine celebs I’ve ever encountered. Just an all around awesome guy.
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On the other hand, the constant attention from thousands and millions of fans, the aforementioned identity crisis, and the constant stress of living up to the expectations of a fan base (fans create a star, but they can also "extinguish" them) don't contribute to mental stability.
"The isolation from normalcy and the pressure to maintain a perfect image can lead to feelings of alienation," this article at the Psychological Care Institute website reasonably says. "Celebrities experience an inability to trust and often struggle to build authentic connections, amplifying mental health struggles."
So, in fact, honor and praise go to those people who, even under the weight of incredible responsibility, fame, and - let’s admit it - a lot of money, still manage to remain decent people. Incidentally, most of the stories in this collection are about good and kind folks anyway.
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Edit: the SCTV skit was a Shmenge Brothers episode.
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I’m a high school film studies teacher and whilst I’m not the biggest fanboy, seeing Terminator 2 at the cinema in 1991 when I 16 was a big moment for me as a teenage film nerd. So as we were getting off the plane I mentioned how big a deal that film for putting me on the path I am today. He was very nice - said “wow, that was a long time ago” and asked where I taught and made a bit of chit chat as we walked down the gantry. Seemed like a decent guy and definitely made a bit more effort to chat than I was expecting.
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In any case, no matter how emotionally stable or unstable celebrities may be, it's their true burden - he burden of fame. So it's no surprise that we mere mortals will always be interested in everything connected with them. Well, now please just read these stories to the end of the collection, and maybe add your own ones, in case you've also had some experience interacting with someone famous.
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Dolly Parton - a true gem of a human .
Shaq - a cool and genuinely caring person .
Jason Bateman - great guy . Very funny .
Mike Epps - very funny .
Kevin Spacey - knew is was a weirdo creep the second we met .
The Rock - everything you see is contrived and he is not a nice guy .
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Edit: this is supposed to KEITH DAVID, please accept my sincere, sleep deprived apologies for the mixup. I don’t even know who Craig David is, but KEITH DAVID was super cool in person.
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I once spent the day hanging out with one of the huge names in rock from the 70s (won't mention who he was out of respect as he's gone now, and it's not important anyway) who had asked my roommate, who was nannying for him, to gather some buddies for him to hang out with. We were all in our 20s, he was 60-ish.
He was a nice guy, wasn't being creepy or anything, but it became clear he just wanted companionship. He was dropping all these big names but was spending time with a bunch of rent-a-buddies who had nothing in common with him. I enjoyed his stories found the entire experience quite poignant.
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If you ever have a chance to meet Jeff, it will exceed your expectations.
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…sorry, I typed that wrong. He was an absolute jerk who treated everyone like a lump of dogshit he just stepped in.


