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“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question

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If you ask me, I would swear tooth and nail that one of the most vivid childhood memories I have is of a girl in my kindergarten class scratching out another girl’s face so badly that all I remember seeing was red.
Now, this definitely never happened, but I can still remember it vividly (and yes, sorry for the mental image). The point is, I’m clearly not the only person with these strange memories that turn out to be little more than figments of our imagination. So when someone asked netizens to share their own fake memories, I immediately felt seen, and here are some of the best replies.
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“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
I was a very young boy when the incident happened...

I was at a family friends house, playing with their 2 kids in a paddling pool on a Summer's day. I was young enough that I didn't have swimming shorts but going naked wasn't a big deal so probably anywhere up to perhaps 5-6 years old.

I had a stonking hard-on the whole time. I remember the mum coming out asking if I wanted to perhaps borrow some shorts and I just told her that I was fine without.

So I'm there splish splashing around in all my wooden glory for probably like an hour.

I have 0 interest in verifying with the mother whether that happened or not.
19points

#2

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
I vividly remember going to see my dad in hospital after he had been in a car accident. I remember the bruises on his chest from the seatbelt and his old school hairstyle. He had a hip to ankle cast as he had broken his leg in three places and I remember that leg wasn’t covered by the blanket so I could see the cast.

My mum was actually pregnant with me when this happened so there’s no chance I could remember it. However, I’m convinced my mum has got her dates wrong.
16points

#3

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
My brother managed to get his head stuck in the scrollwork of an iron/wood banister at a hotel, and in the ensuing panic I wandered off to this wonderful place where there was a table full of cookies and candy. As I'm eating the cookies and the candy and whatever I can find - some really angry adult yells at me, picks me up and carries me out of this amazing room filled with sweets.

I was about 3 or 4 years old. I think I crashed a wedding or a bar mitzvah's dessert table while my brother was being extracted from the banister. It was amazing, my parents claim it never happened.
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A lot of the stories shared are a mix of plausible scenarios that seem to have odd timing, but there are actual reasons why our brain often makes up information that never occurred, and the most common culprit is something called "source monitoring errors."

According to psychologists, this is often called a "source lapse," meaning your brain will eventually store the content of a memory but essentially lose track of its source. Take the person who "remembers" seeing their dad in a cast. They probably heard their parents tell that story so many times that the brain generated a first-person visual to match it, though they weren't even born yet.

#4

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
I remember when my mom was having a baby my grandma took care of me when I was sick at the same time. My stomach hurt and i was throwing up when she grabbed a bottle of Pepto Bismol and made me drink about 60% of he bottle. I then threw up pink and that scarred me so much that I throw up every time I drink Pepto Bismol.
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#5

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
There was a thunderstorm one afternoon.

I very vividly remember two lightning bolts travelling horizontally and colliding, forming this spherical cage of lightning in the sky. For just a moment.

I can see it so clearly in my mind - the color of the sky, the room I was in, the way the air felt, the shapes the lightning took; but I haven’t found any example of a similar phenomenon anywhere online sooo...

If someone who knows more about lightning would chime in, that’d be great. :)

Not sure how old I was exactly, but I know I was younger than eight.


Edit: holy c**p! Wow, thanks for responding everyone, looks like lots of people have similar experiences. Ball lightning is coming up a lot - I’m still reading about it and looking for good images, but I’m kind of confused about it so far.
Seems like a lot of people see Will ‘O the Wisp looking things, while what I saw was more like a wizard battle in the sky!
What fun. I’ll get back to you. 😂.
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#6

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
I remember when I was a child there was this fountain in my city that had some kind of spikes at the bottom (some elements of a construction). And I vaguely remember that once my mom and I were passing by the fountain and there was no water in it, but there was a man lying there in a puddle of blood, pierced by the spikes as if he had fallen on them accidentally. And my mom was like "Oh, let's go, let's go".
Now, I asked her about it when I got older and she said "What? This never happened!" I guess, she wouldn't lie about it and it's not something she'd just forget, so maybe it never happened, indeed. Not sure why I remember this though.
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While reading some of these, you're probably thinking "oh, they definitely saw that in a movie," and you may just be right because another explanation for the prevalence of false childhood memories is, in fact, media blending. This can actually lead to weird or vivid memories because there is already a visual component to them.

Experts say it's not at all uncommon for children to incorporate details from, let's say, a family photograph, home videos, or even movies and shows into their mental timeline. You're actually remembering seeing those clear images, even though you've never actually experienced them yourself.

#7

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
We used to live in an old farm house with a very steep long staircase right next to my room. When I was about 2 or 3 I fell down the stairs. I still remember it because it felt like I was falling in slow motion. I lost my balance, started to fall and tried to grip part of the banister going down again and again but couldn't hold on to it. Through the banister I could see my moms shocked face in the dining room and her jumping up. All still slowed down. When I reached the bottom I slammed against the front door and just kinda lay there and saw my mom running down the stairs towards me. Time sped up again.
I know it happened but I still remember falling so clearly it seems weird. My mom told me I kept saying " I couldn't hold on" in between crying.
9points

#8

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
I have a memory from when I was young enough to be in a crib. I remember my mom putting me down and I was scared and teething, so I grinned my teeth on my wood crib and I remember that feeling still. The wood was so soft it felt amazing lol after that I remember laying down on my stomach and falling asleep right away. I had to have been about 1 so I feel like how could I remember something from that long ago. But on the other hand, my mom said me and one of my brothers used to bite the crib a lot.
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#9

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
When I was around 5 or 6 years old I remember walking outside on a cloudy day and seeing it raining at my neighbors house across the street but not raining at mine. That’s the first time it ever occurred to me it doesn’t rain everywhere when it rains at my house.
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You have probably also heard, time and time again, that the frontal lobe likely develops around your mid-twenties. And whether that's true or not, we can't say, but children's brains do work a little differently from those of fully developed adults. And partly, it is due to how imaginative and creative children may be, without the need for an outside source.

Childcare professionals often quote imagination inflation and boundary extension as ways for children to simply think. They may well just be imagining something vividly enough that the brain will archive it as a memory. Or they might just try to fill in the gaps of a real event by making up details that are, in fact, not real, which is pretty interesting.

#10

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
My most vivid childhood memory is not real.

I remember leaving the hospital after I broke my arm in a wheelchair and there was the most beautiful bright sunset I had ever seen. There was also a few rainbows and flocks of bats flying in the sky.

According to my mom it was early afternoon and raining. I can still see it so clearly though.

Edit: I didn't break my arm in a wheelchair guys! Hospitals just push you around in them. I was probably only wheeled to the front door but in my memory I was being wheeled across the parking lot.
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#11

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
One time when I was about 5, I was in the backseat of my moms car and saw a huge black raincloud right over us. It looked extra terrestrial or like it could be in a movie about the apocalypse or something. It was probably just a normal cloud but the image of it stuck with me and I think about it it every so often.
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#12

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
I have a vague memory of me and my twin brother being visited by the Bicho Papão, a creature that visits naughty children in Brazilian and Portuguese culture, when we were very young, pretty sure a creature like that is not exclusive from my culture.

Anyways, the freaky part is that my brother also have the same memory, to this day we don't know if it was real or not, but if it was, maybe it was somebody trying to play a prank on us, since we were naughty children indeed.
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And speaking of the brain, there is actually a little part of the grey mass that is called the "hippocampus." Despite its silly name, this hippocampus is, according to scientists, the part responsible for knitting memories together into a story. And, well, surprise, surprise, this specific part of the brain isn't actually fully developed until kids reach 7 years old.

So, it comes as no surprise that children will remember fragments of a story, and then add some (false) details to extend it. However morbid it may be, take the story of the person who remembers seeing someone lying unconscious in a fountain in their hometown. Sure, they recall the fountain, and maybe even seeing it without water, but they somehow made up the memory of seeing a man there.

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“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
That when I was about 10 I was at my aunty and uncles house in Sydney for Christmas and my cousin who’s a hairdresser PERFECTLY straighten my crazily curly long hair, which takes over an hour. One of my presents that morning was new pyjamas and I put them on and went to walk out into the garden to show my mum my new pyjamas and tripped and fell into their pool, soaking my new PJ’s and ruining my perfectly straight hair (to my cousins dismay).

I literally have such a vivid memory of it happening but I brought it up to my mum once and she doesn’t remember it, so I have always questioned myself.
8points

#14

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
I have this one memory, I most likely had just turned or was about to turn two years old, and my family and I was at my grandparent's backyard pool. My mom was in the shallow end of the pool with my older brother, and he was clinging to her, too afraid to dip even a toe into the water, my dad was on the patio (on the side of the shallow end) with my Bumpa and Nana (Grandpa and Grandma), they were barbecuing and chatting about one thing or another. I remember thinking my mom looked a little annoyed that my brother was being unreasonably afraid of the water, so my 2 year old mind decided I would show my brother how it was done. I got out of the pool, and ran down to the deep end, I took off my water wings and life jacket then proclaimed proudly to my family about some random nonsense, before jumping in.

The next part of my memory takes a very different tone. I just remember how serene and peaceful it was, to be essentially drowning. Everything was quiet, and calm, to this day I haven't ever experienced anything similar to it. Next thing I know I see my dad and Bumpa plunge into the pool fully clothed swimming towards me. don't know who got to me first to pull me out, and I don't remember anything after that. I asked my parents and grandparents about this and they essentially changed the topic on me, so I have a suspicion it is true, but no confirmation. It just sticks out as extremely vivid, and an oddly happier memory from my childhood.





Update: So I called up my grandparents to ask about it, and it is true, and there's apparently even a home video about it on VHS somewhere. They said no one really wanted to talk about it because it was extremely traumatic for my mom who was so close to me, but couldn't just drop my brother in the water or pry him off to set him on the side of the pool to go and get me. According to my grandparents, when my mom was pregnant with me she was at the zoo with my brother, her friends, and their children and one of the young boys had wandered off and drowned. Kind of glad I called my grandparents first instead of my mom, goodness.
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#15

When me and my friend were in elementary school, we always went down to the park behind his house, and would catch bugs/spiders/whatever and put them in little plastic containers. But I have a vivid memory of one day making a little habitat for a (non-poisonous) spider in a shoe box to bring to show and tell, and then finding out the spider had laid eggs, and I vividly remember spilling spiders ALL OVER my moms car. It was so vivid and exaggerated (I can remember spiders like flowing out of the box) that I, for years was sure that it was a dream I had, until I brought it up to my mom one day, and she explained how very real it was....
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If you’re a little more skeptical of big scientific explanations, there’s also the whole idea behind the “Mandela Effect,” a supernatural memory theory that explains these glitches not as false memories, but as real events that somehow slipped from one parallel timeline into another. Think of it like a real-life Scarlet Witch situation.

So, do you actually believe in the scientific theories more than the Mandela effect? Or have you had any actual memories that you know for absolute certain are real, but everyone around you tells you they actually never happened? Let us know in the comments below your stories and what your own verdict is.

#16

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
I clearly remember my mom telling me as a kid, that if I put vegetables in the freezer. They turn into ice cream.

I told her now years later how it was a funny joke. But she swears she has never said it.
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#17

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
I remember vomiting all over the backseat of the family car and spending the remainder of the roadtrip to my uncle's house sitting in the car in just my underwear.
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#18

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
Ok, here I go:

**There was a cornucopia on the fruit of the loom logo.**

At this point I am convinced that it didn't exist though. There is enough proof for me to understand that it wasn't there. But it is arguably the only Mandela Effect that has no real rationalization / explanation.

Before you crucify me - [This thread has the most proof that it didn't exist.]
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#19

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
I stepped on a roofing nail and got a huge hole in my foot that I had to soak nightly for a month. My mom said it didn't happen, but my dad and sister say it did happen.
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#20

“I Still Think He Did It”: 41 People Share The Childhood Memories That Their Family Still Question
One time when I was about 7, I was sleeping over at one of my parents friends house. As I was lying in bed trying to sleep, I started to hear footsteps from the floor above. It was just me and this woman in the house and I knew she was asleep. Then I swear to God, I saw footprints forming on the ceiling, slowly walking across it. I'm absolutely convinced that this happened but when I ask my parents about it they have no idea what I'm talking about and don't even remember this "friend". I refuse to believe that it was a dream.

Edit 1: y'all probably are not gonna believe me but I specifically remember being wide awake and not paralyzed in the slightest. This happened like 10 minutes after getting into bed.
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