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35 Entitled, Trashy, And Downright Terrible Wedding Guests (New Pics)
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35 Entitled, Trashy, And Downright Terrible Wedding Guests (New Pics)

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Being a wedding guest seems pretty straightforward, right? All one has to do upon receiving an invitation is RSVP on time, turn up looking pretty (without wearing white!), have a great time, and (politely) celebrate the couple. However, not everyone is capable of following a few etiquette rules, making it a day to remember, in a bad way, obviously.
Our team at Bored Panda has carefully collected some of the trashiest wedding guests that couples immensely regretted inviting. Scroll down to find them, and make sure to upvote the ones that are worse than any bridezilla out there.
While you're at it, don't forget to check out a conversation with Kate Duff, wedding and event planner and founder of Hitch Perfect, who kindly agreed to tell us more about the faux pas of wedding guests.

#1 A Guest Wore A White Pantsuit To My Wedding

A Guest Wore A White Pantsuit To My Wedding
124points

#2 Wedding Guest At Our Table

Wedding Guest At Our Table
79points

#3 MIL Wants To Renew Her Vows At The Same Location And Day Of Her Son’s Wedding

MIL Wants To Renew Her Vows At The Same Location And Day Of Her Son’s Wedding
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77points

Kate Duff, wedding and event planner and founder of Hitch Perfect, tells us that the most common faux pas of wedding guests is RSVPing late.

"This is a big source of stress for couples, as it makes final preparations difficult—not to mention costly when you think about the fact that most couples pay per head!" she said.

#4 Family Friend Said I Looked Fat On My Wedding Day

Family Friend Said I Looked Fat On My Wedding Day
74points

#5 Flashback To When My Mother In Law Wore This To Our Wedding. You Could Also See Her Purple Thong Underwear Through The Material. See Her Hand Reaching Out! This Was During The Kiss When She Grabbed Him So She Could Kiss Him

Flashback To When My Mother In Law Wore This To Our Wedding. You Could Also See Her Purple Thong Underwear Through The Material. See Her Hand Reaching Out! This Was During The Kiss When She Grabbed Him So She Could Kiss Him
She wore white to one other sisters in law wedding too. The third sister in law she approved of so she wore purple. She is no longer in our lives for many reasons.
71points

#6 Wedding Party I Went To Decided To Light Fireworks Inside A Warehouse Type Building With No Proper Ventilation Which Caused People To Leave Soon After

Wedding Party I Went To Decided To Light Fireworks Inside A Warehouse Type Building With No Proper Ventilation Which Caused People To Leave Soon After
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66points

"Bringing along uninvited kids is another major faux pas," Kate adds. "Most couples these days specify on their invitations whether children are welcome or if it’s an adult-only affair. Many prefer the latter due to the interruptions that can occur during the ceremony!"

#7 My Mother Cut My Wedding Cake Behind My Back And Ate It Off Her Hand. When I Told Her We Would Have To Spin The Cake For The Cutting Cake Photo, She Stormed Out In Front Of 150 Guests. I Asked For An Apology. Radio Silence Since 2017. I'm The Black Sheep By Dropping Contact

My Mother Cut My Wedding Cake Behind My Back And Ate It Off Her Hand. When I Told Her We Would Have To Spin The Cake For The Cutting Cake Photo, She Stormed Out In Front Of 150 Guests. I Asked For An Apology. Radio Silence Since 2017. I'm The Black Sheep By Dropping Contact
64points

#8 My Wedding Was Yesterday And I Sent My Mom A Pic Of The Memorial Table That Had A Photo Of My Dad And My Husband’s Brother 🙃

My Wedding Was Yesterday And I Sent My Mom A Pic Of The Memorial Table That Had A Photo Of My Dad And My Husband’s Brother 🙃
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#9 Family Member Brings Kids With Lice To Wedding

Family Member Brings Kids With Lice To Wedding
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One more serious mistake that wedding guests are guilty of committing is arriving late. "Wedding day timelines are very carefully created to ensure the ceremony happens seamlessly—there are many events that need to happen to make up a wedding day so late guests can cause unwanted delays. It’s for this reason that timelines often include buffers for tardy guests," Kate explained.

#10 Rude Guest Wears White And Will Not Shut Up

Rude Guest Wears White And Will Not Shut Up
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62points

#11 Selfish Guests To A Bride With Cancer

Selfish Guests To A Bride With Cancer
62points

#12 I Went To A Wedding, Got There Early, Found A Decent Seat With A Good View ... Minutes Before The Nuptials Started, This Lady Sat Down In Front Of Me And Did Not Care One Bit That Her Fan Blocked The View Of Every Person Sitting Behind Her

I Went To A Wedding, Got There Early, Found A Decent Seat With A Good View ... Minutes Before The Nuptials Started, This Lady Sat Down In Front Of Me And Did Not Care One Bit That Her Fan Blocked The View Of Every Person Sitting Behind Her
61points

Fortunately, the bride and groom can avoid poorly behaving guests on their special day by managing expectations early, said Kate.

"On your invites or wedding website, include clear directions on dress code, plus-ones, ceremony start time, and any other key details. Appoint a key contact for the day of the wedding to handle any guest-related issues. This is usually your wedding planner. However, if you’re planning the wedding yourself, identify a trusted family member or close friend to keep an eye on things," she suggested.

#13 From A Wedding Shaming Group, Also “Ring Bear”

From A Wedding Shaming Group, Also “Ring Bear”
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58points

#14 Friends Wedding Photos That Will Never See The Light Of Day. She Asked Everyone Not To Wear Cream, White, Or Black. Sadly She Forgot To Mention You Also Couldn’t Wear A Wedding Dress

Friends Wedding Photos That Will Never See The Light Of Day. She Asked Everyone Not To Wear Cream, White, Or Black. Sadly She Forgot To Mention You Also Couldn’t Wear A Wedding Dress
SIL showed up in a ‘yellow’ dress….WITH a train!! Bride is on the left in the bottom photo.
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55points

#15 Hiding A Wedding Dress You Plan To Wear At Your Own Daughter’s Wedding

Hiding A Wedding Dress You Plan To Wear At Your Own Daughter’s Wedding
55points

Kate also strongly recommends couples utilize a master of ceremonies (MC) to prevent guests from ruining their event. "Many MCs will ask the couple ahead of time whether there are any guests to ‘watch out for.’ If you have an attendee that you know can be trouble, have a word with your MC to make sure no impromptu speeches or unsavory song choices make the cut."

#16 Can You Just Move Your Wedding So I Can Attend My MlM Conference? (Seen In A Fb Group)

Can You Just Move Your Wedding So I Can Attend My MlM Conference? (Seen In A Fb Group)
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#17 That’s... Not How It Works

That’s... Not How It Works
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#18 Someone Poorly Cut And Ate Part Of My Wedding Cake That We Cut (We Had Cupcakes As The Shared Dessert)

Someone Poorly Cut And Ate Part Of My Wedding Cake That We Cut (We Had Cupcakes As The Shared Dessert)
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Even with all these precautions in place, there's still a chance that there will be guests that the couple will regret inviting. They can avoid this by setting priorities while planning the wedding. "This is particularly important for the guest list. If you value a more intimate, close-knit celebration, use this to guide your decisions on invitees," Kate said.

#19 Best Wedding Story?

Best Wedding Story?
47points

#20 MOH So Late Ceremony Nearly Canceled

MOH So Late Ceremony Nearly Canceled
46points
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