Modern wedding preparation is not an easy job. People often take many months to book the location, photographer, invitation cards, etc. Now imagine you are expected to change the date in just 3 weeks' time.
This is what happened to a Reddit user named u/Date2021_Oct after being engaged for two years, as her brother decided to have his shotgun wedding the same day as her. The whole situation sparked a family drama and, surprisingly, the OP ended up being the one expected to change her wedding date.
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When organizing an important event, it's always hard to choose a date which suits all the most important guests
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A Reddit user asked the internet if she is wrong for not postponing her wedding after her brother chose the same date for his own wedding
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As it turns out, the OP's brother's girlfriend is pregnant and their parents want them to get married ASAP
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Since these siblings have always had bad blood, the brother decided to get married the same day as his sister
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Her brother implied OP should change the date, and their parents agreed
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The OP tried to explain to her mother how difficult it would be to postpone the wedding, but it didn't change her mind
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Her parents warned her that if she refuses to change the date, then she shouldn't expect them to come to her wedding
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Commenters had some interesting things to say about the situation
OP responded, explaining her feelings towards the situation
Many commenters are trying to imagine being in OP's shoes and agreed that she is not in the wrong
