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“Take The Hint”: 50 Things People Should Do That Are Basically “Unwritten Rules”
Social IssuesFEB 18, 2024

“Take The Hint”: 50 Things People Should Do That Are Basically “Unwritten Rules”

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As you grow up, you start to notice that there are little things one can do to make everyone’s life easier. More often than not, these aren’t exactly laws and regulations, just emotional intelligence and life experience all rolled into one. 
Someone asked “What's an 'unwritten rule' of life that everyone should know about?” and netizens shared their best examples. So get comfortable as you read through, upvote your favorites, and share your own examples in the comments below. And if you want to see some other examples, check out our other article on unwritten rules of life. 

#1

“Take The Hint”: 50 Things People Should Do That Are Basically “Unwritten Rules”
When your roommate, partner, spouse, child, etc. just got home and is still taking off their shoes, putting their keys away, etc....do NOT greet them with a "to-do" request or some sort of reminder. It's a universally s****y feeling to be greeted by that.
348points

#2

“Take The Hint”: 50 Things People Should Do That Are Basically “Unwritten Rules”
If you want to listen to something in public, use f*****g headphones.
347points

#3

“Take The Hint”: 50 Things People Should Do That Are Basically “Unwritten Rules”
Don't be a jerk to retail workers.
330points

“Read the room” is probably one of the best bits of advice for anyone anywhere. It applies to everything from creative work to managing one’s relationships. Because knowing things is just half the battle, people need to know when and where to actually vocalize them. 

Interestingly, the entire concept of “read the room” originated not with life advice, but with robbery. A good thief needed to identify marks, risks, and opportunities, so they would “read” the room they were in. It’s only relatively recently that people have switched over to using this idea in the context of emotional intelligence. Perhaps it’s for the best. 

#4

“Take The Hint”: 50 Things People Should Do That Are Basically “Unwritten Rules”
If you're walking in a group, don't take up the whole goddamn sidewalk/hallway/tunnel/railroad tracks/trail/path.
286points

#5

“Take The Hint”: 50 Things People Should Do That Are Basically “Unwritten Rules”
Saying thank you, please or sorry when needed. There is nothing wrong in being polite.
286points

#6

“Take The Hint”: 50 Things People Should Do That Are Basically “Unwritten Rules”
Let people get off the elevator/bus/whatever before you shove your way on. 
275points

This is just as true in the workplace as well. After all, unless you are pretty close with your coworkers, most folks don’t want to hear about your baby or your family drama on a Monday morning. Indeed, given the amount of time we spend at work, it might be a better place to really internalize “read the room” and pay attention to these unwritten rules

#7

Your lack of preparation does not equal someone else’s emergency.
274points

#8

“Take The Hint”: 50 Things People Should Do That Are Basically “Unwritten Rules”
I don’t remember who said this or where I heard it, but I always liked the quote, “if someone tells you that you made them feel a certain way, you don’t get to decide that you didn’t.”
274points

#9

“Take The Hint”: 50 Things People Should Do That Are Basically “Unwritten Rules”
You having a bad day doesn't mean that you have to ruin other people's day.
261points

Despite the fact that these are “unwritten” rules, the good people of the internet have put a lot of work into assembling these ideas, tips, tricks, and life lessons. So if you are interested in reading more, Bored Panda has got you covered, check out our other article on things that everyone should know

#10

Just because you don't understand something doesn't mean it's not true.
250points

#11

“Take The Hint”: 50 Things People Should Do That Are Basically “Unwritten Rules”
Don’t post what you wouldn’t say in person.
239points

#12

Always leave a place a little better than you found it 🌱✨. Whether it's cleaning up after yourself at a friend's place, picking up litter during a walk, or just offering a kind word to someone in need, these small acts of kindness and respect make a huge difference. It's about adding value to the world in tiny, manageable ways. 🌍❤️
225points

#13

“Take The Hint”: 50 Things People Should Do That Are Basically “Unwritten Rules”
You can't argue with stupid.
217points

#14

“Take The Hint”: 50 Things People Should Do That Are Basically “Unwritten Rules”
"Think of how stupid the average person is, and realize half of them are stupider than that." George Carlin
210points

#15

“Take The Hint”: 50 Things People Should Do That Are Basically “Unwritten Rules”
Secure your own oxygen mask before helping others.
Seriously. Take this bit of advice and carry it whatever you go through. You can be the most empathetic, helpful, caring person, but even if that's your one goal, by neglecting yourself you won't be the best you can be for others. Sort out mess in your own life, don't carry loads you can't, and everything else will be so much simpler.
205points

#16

“Take The Hint”: 50 Things People Should Do That Are Basically “Unwritten Rules”
You'll never be thanked the way you want to be thanked. Your reward is the good you do, not the praise you get from it.
189points

#17

Putting the grocery cart back costs you nothing.
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189points

#18

“Take The Hint”: 50 Things People Should Do That Are Basically “Unwritten Rules”
Treat others how you want to be treated. It's simple, universal, and fosters respect and empathy in all interactions.
181points

#19

“Take The Hint”: 50 Things People Should Do That Are Basically “Unwritten Rules”
Most opinions can be kept to yourself.
177points

#20

If someone takes the time and goes to the expense of sending you a gift for your graduation, wedding, baby shower, etc., have the common decency to acknowledge it and send a thank you note, email, text, or phone call.
174points
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