Some words may leave a mark on you and change your outlook on life for the better. On the flip side, you’ve likely heard some of the most unsettling statements from another person, and the creepy vibes took a while to dissipate.
We’re highlighting the latter through collected responses from this Reddit question: “What’s the most unsettling thing someone has said to you that you can’t forget?” Some of these replies were an individual’s last words before passing on. Others were threats of graphic violence, while a few were chilling one-liners uttered while half asleep.
This list should keep you company if you want to keep the spooky vibes from Halloween. Enjoy scrolling through!
#21

My daughter, at about 4 years old, sat bolt upright in bed as I was passing her room one night and said "Dark forces are coming, mummy" in a completely conversational tone. She then went right back to sleep, leaving me and her father slightly antsy for tthe next few days.
About a month later I realised it was from a trailer for Ben-10 🫣
However, at the age of 19 she does still maintain that there are shadow people in our house who watch us. Which is nice.
Edit: a random w that crept in there.
About a month later I realised it was from a trailer for Ben-10 🫣
However, at the age of 19 she does still maintain that there are shadow people in our house who watch us. Which is nice.
Edit: a random w that crept in there.
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84points
#22
The boy down the street wanted to take me four wheeling in whatever town his mom lived in. He told me not to tell anyone where we were going. I didn't. And once we were in some woods he asked again "Did you tell anywhere where you are?" At that moment I realized that I'm a dumb**s. He didn't m*rder me or hurt me. It was just a creepy joke to him but was a real eye opener for me.
Im an Unsolved Mystery gal I should've known better than to do that, my safety guards were down because I was with a friend. Friends do bad things to friends all the time.
Im an Unsolved Mystery gal I should've known better than to do that, my safety guards were down because I was with a friend. Friends do bad things to friends all the time.
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83points
#23
One of my friends became obsessed with my pregnancy and later my child, but never in a positive/good way.
When I was pregnant, and she was too, she never stopped telling me I could still have a miscarriage, the child could still have birth defects, my belly was too small and therefor, according to her, there was no way the baby could be healthy.
She is still really obsessed with making my child and me look bad.
I always get compliments on how sweet and well behaved my child is, and how she is friends with everyone. Ofcourse she is no angel and sometimes she misbehaves or needs to be told off, but in general, I have a really easy and sweet kid.
Well, according to this person, my 3 y/o is a danger to her children and she cannot visit her aunt anymore, who lives next door, because my child will play in that street as well and she doesn't want to put her children in danger because, according to her, I am a terrible parent who puts no effort at all into raising her child.
The obsession is really creepy.
I would absolutely not cross the road if she's driving there because at this point it is clear that she does not want my child to exist in the same world as hers.
When I was pregnant, and she was too, she never stopped telling me I could still have a miscarriage, the child could still have birth defects, my belly was too small and therefor, according to her, there was no way the baby could be healthy.
She is still really obsessed with making my child and me look bad.
I always get compliments on how sweet and well behaved my child is, and how she is friends with everyone. Ofcourse she is no angel and sometimes she misbehaves or needs to be told off, but in general, I have a really easy and sweet kid.
Well, according to this person, my 3 y/o is a danger to her children and she cannot visit her aunt anymore, who lives next door, because my child will play in that street as well and she doesn't want to put her children in danger because, according to her, I am a terrible parent who puts no effort at all into raising her child.
The obsession is really creepy.
I would absolutely not cross the road if she's driving there because at this point it is clear that she does not want my child to exist in the same world as hers.
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82points
#24

My dad resuscitated a patient who'd "died" when he was a young intern and when the guy came to, he looked at my dad with a confused expression on his face and asked,
*Doc? What was that cold hand on my shoulder?*
My dad never forgot it.
*Doc? What was that cold hand on my shoulder?*
My dad never forgot it.
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77points
#25
A girl told me her parents literally told her they hated her, that she was a mistake and they wanted her to die. Whenever she would hurt her knees, they would make her walk on her knees over rice or beans so she would bleed as punishment.
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76points
#26
This elderly woman with dementia looked me in the eyes very seriously and told me I’d k*ll myself before the year was over. I thought that was an awful thing to say but pushed it to the back of my mind and forgot. Several months go by and I was going through depression and one night got drunk and tried to k*ll myself. I recently remembered what the old lady said…. so that was unsettling.
P.S. this was *years* ago. I’m in a better mental state now.
P.S. this was *years* ago. I’m in a better mental state now.
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74points
#27

‘You're lucky I didn't [do harm to] you last night’ - ex roommate
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73points
#28
Unsettling in a different sense than most, but unsettling nonetheless:
I was at work one night in the hospital. Pretty unremarkable night. Woke up…in the ER…confused AF. My first words, to a coworker I know works the ER, who was standing there: “what’re you doin up here?”
She lets out a howling cackle, and says “I’m not up there. You’re down here. You had a seizure. Now you won’t be able to drive for a whole year!!” And is literally bent over snorting-laughing. I had no seizure history. In that moment it felt like my entire life was a snow globe that got shook up and smashed on the ground. I still think about it sometimes. A reminder that your words (and your affect in general) matter.
I was at work one night in the hospital. Pretty unremarkable night. Woke up…in the ER…confused AF. My first words, to a coworker I know works the ER, who was standing there: “what’re you doin up here?”
She lets out a howling cackle, and says “I’m not up there. You’re down here. You had a seizure. Now you won’t be able to drive for a whole year!!” And is literally bent over snorting-laughing. I had no seizure history. In that moment it felt like my entire life was a snow globe that got shook up and smashed on the ground. I still think about it sometimes. A reminder that your words (and your affect in general) matter.
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73points
#29
"Ewww. You're still a virgin? I lost my virginity last year!"
Said to me, 4th grader at the time by another 4th grader at the time. I was confused. Now, I am unsettled, she bragged about this, especially in middle school. Like, it was a trophy or a badge of honor. Her cousin was chill af, same age but had a great dislike towards her "s***ty" cousin. I look back at that and always wonder, "what the f**k was up with that family?".
Said to me, 4th grader at the time by another 4th grader at the time. I was confused. Now, I am unsettled, she bragged about this, especially in middle school. Like, it was a trophy or a badge of honor. Her cousin was chill af, same age but had a great dislike towards her "s***ty" cousin. I look back at that and always wonder, "what the f**k was up with that family?".
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#30
"Why are you here?"
I was a university student living in the capital in a poor country that was going through a major economic crisis. I decided to volunteer with a group that was working with street kids. Mostly they just had me hang out with the kids and play soccer/football with them as we were trying to slowly gain the kids' trust to encourage them to later get other kinds of help from programs we had. A lot of the kids had suffered all kinds of exploitation and abuse and most of them were secretly huffing glue from plastic bags they kept hidden up their sleeves.
One time I was just chatting with one of the kids and he was asking about me and I told him I was from the US. He was just dumbfounded. Then he asked me that question and I was equally dumbfounded. I realized in that moment that anything I said to him would just sound stupid and absurd to him, that I was a student trying to learn about his country, that I would go back to the US after a year. That I didn't have an idea of what I was going to do to earn money when I got back. That I was volunteering with this group because it bothered me to see kids on the street and I wanted to help, but I wasn't really prepared to do anything beyond coming by once a week and playing soccer.
I don't remember what I ended up telling him, or maybe he got distracted by something more interesting before I thought of something. But I've never forgotten that encounter and have tried to live my life in a way that answers that question. Not that I always succeed. I often wonder what became of him.
I was a university student living in the capital in a poor country that was going through a major economic crisis. I decided to volunteer with a group that was working with street kids. Mostly they just had me hang out with the kids and play soccer/football with them as we were trying to slowly gain the kids' trust to encourage them to later get other kinds of help from programs we had. A lot of the kids had suffered all kinds of exploitation and abuse and most of them were secretly huffing glue from plastic bags they kept hidden up their sleeves.
One time I was just chatting with one of the kids and he was asking about me and I told him I was from the US. He was just dumbfounded. Then he asked me that question and I was equally dumbfounded. I realized in that moment that anything I said to him would just sound stupid and absurd to him, that I was a student trying to learn about his country, that I would go back to the US after a year. That I didn't have an idea of what I was going to do to earn money when I got back. That I was volunteering with this group because it bothered me to see kids on the street and I wanted to help, but I wasn't really prepared to do anything beyond coming by once a week and playing soccer.
I don't remember what I ended up telling him, or maybe he got distracted by something more interesting before I thought of something. But I've never forgotten that encounter and have tried to live my life in a way that answers that question. Not that I always succeed. I often wonder what became of him.
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71points
#31
My father callled me just about a week before he passed at home. He and I were having a normal conversation and suddenly he tells me that my Aunt Joyce and Uncle Norm had been by to visit him. Then he told me that my mother’s parents had dropped by too. Now this, in and of itself, doesn’t sound odd except this was 2015. My Aunt Joyce had died in 2012. Uncle Norm? Well he died in 1988. Mama & Carlton? Both in 1996. Then he asked me if I had heard from Mom lately. I hadn’t…because she died in 1999.
After getting off the phone with him and his partner, Jan, I looked at my partner and told him that we needed to make plans to visit Dad. Soon.
Unfortunately, Dad died about a week later. I received a phone call in the middle of the night from his partner’s daughter. My phone was on silent so I never heard it ring. She left me a vm at 1am to call her as soon as I got the message. Apparently I didn’t call fast enough because at 3am (I was still sleeping) she called and left a vm that Dad was dead.
After getting off the phone with him and his partner, Jan, I looked at my partner and told him that we needed to make plans to visit Dad. Soon.
Unfortunately, Dad died about a week later. I received a phone call in the middle of the night from his partner’s daughter. My phone was on silent so I never heard it ring. She left me a vm at 1am to call her as soon as I got the message. Apparently I didn’t call fast enough because at 3am (I was still sleeping) she called and left a vm that Dad was dead.
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#32
Years ago, while horribly depressed, my eldest younger brother seriously suggested that having a child might make me feel better.
I love the guy, but what the actual f**k.
I love the guy, but what the actual f**k.
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#33
That she'd k*lled both her parents and shot herself in the head but lived...the second group therapy session.
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67points
#34
About 20 years ago I worked in a pub, after closing we had a lock in with a few regulars, I'm sorting out the drinks when a guy comes up to me and casually asks "Have you ever been r*ped?", not sure if I stood there in shocked silence or responded in some way but he then said "Because you're going to be...."
Two of my friends/colleagues quite rightly went off on him, he skulked off sheepishly.
Next time I saw him he apologised and offered to buy me a drink insisting it was a joke.
In all honestly I didn't take it seriously, never worried anything would happen.... Just still find it so weird a guy would say that to a girl....
Two of my friends/colleagues quite rightly went off on him, he skulked off sheepishly.
Next time I saw him he apologised and offered to buy me a drink insisting it was a joke.
In all honestly I didn't take it seriously, never worried anything would happen.... Just still find it so weird a guy would say that to a girl....
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65points
#35

Whispered in my ear from by a person silently standing behind me, the last time I ever saw them.
"If I could cut off your head and keep it in a bag, I'd carry it around with me forever.."
She was the niece of a famous m**derer in my country.
I made sure after that event to never attend anything they were present at again, and also made sure to remove them from all social media.
"If I could cut off your head and keep it in a bag, I'd carry it around with me forever.."
She was the niece of a famous m**derer in my country.
I made sure after that event to never attend anything they were present at again, and also made sure to remove them from all social media.
64points
#36

“no, you cannot spend the night— you’ll get r*ped by their parents”
i was 7 and my dad told me that. guess it was an irrational fear.
i was 7 and my dad told me that. guess it was an irrational fear.
63points
#37
Not something that was said to me but something i said to my mother when i was 3 years old.
apparently, i was playing with my toys while my mom was sitting just watching me when i just suddenly stopped and turned to her
“Mummy, when I was in your tummy, I had a brother but he had to go…”
and then i just continued playing
i’m an only child and my mom never had an indication that she was pregnant with twins. freaked the hell out of her and still does.
apparently, i was playing with my toys while my mom was sitting just watching me when i just suddenly stopped and turned to her
“Mummy, when I was in your tummy, I had a brother but he had to go…”
and then i just continued playing
i’m an only child and my mom never had an indication that she was pregnant with twins. freaked the hell out of her and still does.
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#38
My ex employer told me that if she had known I was autistic she wouldn’t have hired me.
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62points
#39
First thing my ex texted me after I gave him my phone number was, “I know more about you than you think.” For some reason that wasn’t enough to deter me….
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#40
Went on a night out, saw an old friend acting very erratically, assumed it was just too much alcohol.
Asked him if everything was ok, he turned and looked me dead in the eye and said "No" and walked off.
Didn't see him for the remainder of the evening, see on social media the next day that he's dead.
Asked him if everything was ok, he turned and looked me dead in the eye and said "No" and walked off.
Didn't see him for the remainder of the evening, see on social media the next day that he's dead.
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