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40 Times Men Revealed Their Delusional Expectations Of Women Online And Were Rightfully Shamed For Them
Fails,RelationshipsJAN 17, 2023

40 Times Men Revealed Their Delusional Expectations Of Women Online And Were Rightfully Shamed For Them

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The subreddit 'Sad Cringe' is a tricky one. It's a place for awkward and embarrassing situations that also make you feel sad, and the ambiguous emotional cocktail really tests you.
As you may have seen from our publications on this popular online community here and here, the subject matter varies from post to post. From questionable baby gender reveals to unfortunate exchanges with Uber drivers, you never know what you're gonna see scrolling through.
However, one of the recurring themes is men and women. And there's a good reason for it. While both of these groups are responsible for a lot of messed up romances, many guys seem to have totally unreasonable expectations of ladies. I mean, just see for yourself!

#1 Sometimes I Read Stuff Like This And Pray Those People Are Joking

Sometimes I Read Stuff Like This And Pray Those People Are Joking
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#2 Guy Thinks A Girl Was Begging For Sex When She Was Nice To Him At Lunch

Guy Thinks A Girl Was Begging For Sex When She Was Nice To Him At Lunch
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It's not a cliché that men just don't understand women. There's actual research suggesting guys really do struggle to read women's emotions. At least from their eyes.

We know this because Boris Schiffer, a researcher at the LWL-University Hospital in Bochum, Germany, and his colleagues put 22 men between the ages of 21 and 52 (with an average age of 36) in a functional magnetic resonance imaging scanner, which uses blood flow as a measure to measure their brain activity.

The scientists then asked the men to look at images of 36 pairs of eyes, half from men and half from women, and guess the emotion those people felt.

#3 A Woman In My Neighborhood Was Followed By A Man While She Was Jogging And Posted A Safety Warning To Let Others Know. This Guy Pops Up In The Chat

A Woman In My Neighborhood Was Followed By A Man While She Was Jogging And Posted A Safety Warning To Let Others Know. This Guy Pops Up In The Chat
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#4 This Guy Who Expects Gifts On His Girlfriend's Birthday, And Who Clearly Doesn't Know What Birthdays Are

This Guy Who Expects Gifts On His Girlfriend's Birthday, And Who Clearly Doesn't Know What Birthdays Are
317points

#5 What???

What???
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The men then had to choose which of two words, such as distrustful or terrified, best described the eyes' emotion. The eye photographs depicted positive, neutral, and negative emotions.

Men took longer and had more trouble correctly identifying emotion in women's eyes.

#6 Well That's Not Creepy

Well That's Not Creepy
Report
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#7 Yikes

Yikes
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#8 Found On Twitter

Found On Twitter
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Additionally, their brains showed different activation when looking at men's versus women's eyes. Men's amygdala — a region in the brain linked to emotions, empathy, and fear — was activated more strongly in response to men's eyes.

Also, other brain areas tied to emotion and behavior didn't activate as much when the men looked at women's eyes.

#9 Found One In The Wild!

Found One In The Wild!
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#10 This Dude Is Being Hateful Towards A Man In A Photo, By This Comment He Thinks He Should Be The One. Jealous Af

This Dude Is Being Hateful Towards A Man In A Photo, By This Comment He Thinks He Should Be The One. Jealous Af
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#11 At Least I Asked

At Least I Asked
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The results indicate that men are worse at reading women's emotions. This "theory of mind" is one of the foundations for empathy, so the scientists suggest this could mean that men can have less empathy for women relative to men.

But the cause that leads to this is still unknown. While men could be culturally conditioned to pay less attention to women's emotional cues, there's also the possibility that their differential response is hard-wired by humans' evolutionary past.

#12 Boobs Only Exist To Serve A Man’s Sexual Pleasure

Boobs Only Exist To Serve A Man’s Sexual Pleasure
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#13 I'm Too Amazing For Any Woman Out There *yawn*

I'm Too Amazing For Any Woman Out There *yawn*
228points

#14 Sad Because Nice Guy Finishes Last Again

Sad Because Nice Guy Finishes Last Again
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"As men were more involved in hunting and territory fights, it would have been important for them to be able to predict and foresee the intentions and actions of their male rivals," the researchers explained in the paper.

#15 He’ll Never Show His Face In That Place Again

He’ll Never Show His Face In That Place Again
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#16 Poor Guy

Poor Guy
197points

#17 Redditor Gets A Job To Try To Get Laid With Coworkers

Redditor Gets A Job To Try To Get Laid With Coworkers
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#18 He's Sincere

He's Sincere
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When it comes to simple biology, the picture is a bit easier to read. A YouGov study conducted in the UK in 2019 asked British men to label a diagram of female genitalia, and the results were actually abysmal. Well, over half of surveyed men could not label the vagina or labia, and the majority could not point out where it is that urine comes out.

#19 Instagram Questions Aren't Anonymous

Instagram Questions Aren't Anonymous
167points

#20 O-O Okay Then

O-O Okay Then
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