The idea behind sharing experiences over opinions is what also makes human communication effective. Instead of sharing a conclusion, focus on the process of explaining how you got to it.
This should then be followed up with keeping an open mind. Because if you have a black or white “my way or the highway” attitude, it’s only a matter of time when everyone’s screaming and nobody’s listening.
Sharing experiences means communicating where you come from and painting a clear picture through your example. And while your intention might be to teach someone based on your experience, it might not work, but it has the potential to shed some light and compassion on a worldview the other person might not have considered. And sometimes that’s more important.
It’s more than fine not to share opinions, by the way. Some just find life much more peaceful that way because it doesn’t trigger those who can’t handle opinions. Or they might not want to be judged for that same reason. Or, even, it might not matter at all. Whether it’s because someone is a bit on the blunt side of things or they just don’t care. But if you end up talking, at least try to generate a positive and transformative discussion, and not a scream fest.
So, what’s your take on any of this? The comment section is eagerly awaiting your input. But if that’s not your cup of tea, then you might just enjoy another listicle of unpopular opinions. Because we’re all about broadening our horizons.
