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45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
Relationships,CouplesAPR 30, 2025

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet

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Dating and falling in love can be a lot of fun, however, thereā€™s no guarantee that youā€™ll get the happily ever after youā€™re looking for. Unfortunately, some relationships turn out to be complete train wrecks that continue to haunt people years after they break up due to all the toxicity.
Today, weā€™re featuring various internet usersā€™ stories about the most unhinged, outrageous, and dumbest things their exes have ever said or done, as shared on TikTok. Youā€™ll find their most unpleasant experiences with their ex-partners as you scroll down.

#1

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
Gave me chlamydia when I was fighting cancer šŸ˜³šŸ‘€šŸ¤¦ā€ā™€ļø
rozzzers_, https://www.pexels.com/photo/woman-in-black-tank-top-holding-pink-ribbon-5482993/
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56points

#2

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
She would hide my things. medication, bank cards, appointment letters, my camera, keys, cash. On the day I left, I found a box full of my things on top of the wardrobe. I'd been to the doctor about my memory problems.
natecaplan, hema
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55points

#3

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
Him:"I don't believe in DNA tests"
Judge: "Well the State of Indiana does..."šŸ’€
obithedobie, Tima Miroshnichenko
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54points

Some relationships are simply not meant to be. The person who you think might be your soul mate can turn out to be incredibly toxic once you spend more time with them. And in some cases, it can take months or even years for their true character to shine through.

At the end of the day, everyone’s responsible for communicating and enforcing their healthy boundaries. If someone continues to disrespect you and constantly ignores your boundaries, you’re better off breaking things off. Nobody deserves to be mistreated in relationships.

#4

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
Got jealous when I helped an old man to find the bus he needed to get on to go see his dying wife.
selena.nzl, Sami Boudjelti
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52points

#5

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
"Just stop your period if it's hurting you šŸ™„" I'M NOT JOKING
_min3.craft_, Getty Images
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51points

#6

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
He didnā€™t want me to have a boy cat, he was like u better not have a boy cat watching u get dressed and cuddling with u, LIKE WHATTTTT.
i.luv.rats15, Ludemeula Fernandes
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50points

According to ā€˜Calm,ā€™ toxic partners tend to belittle and sabotage you instead of supporting you. You can also tell that youā€™re likely in a toxic relationship if you persistently feel unhappy, thereā€™s constant tension at home, and you argue very frequently.

Things are also far from healthy if your partner constantly insults or accuses you, tries to control you in various ways, neglects your emotional needs, or attempts to manipulate you.

The result of staying in a toxic relationship is a big negative impact on your mental, emotional, and even physical health. You can develop anxiety, depression, insomnia, see changes in appetite, develop chronic health issues, feel isolated, and your sense of self-worth might diminish.

#7

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
"Cheating is normal in my culture. I'm only limiting my cheating out of respect for you."........ ummmmmm WHATTT??? šŸ˜‚
tkco91, Gustavo Fring
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45points

#8

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
After my dad passed away, he said ā€œcan you not cry, it makes me uncomfortableā€ šŸ˜Ž
shelby_g_t, Pavel Danilyuk
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43points

#9

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
Broke up with me on my birthday and still wanted to take me to dinner and called it "the last supper".
corrine_mr, lil artsy
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40points

Meanwhile, 'BetterUp' points out that some of the biggest relationship red flags to look out for include your partner being overly controlling, not trusting or respecting you, and not supporting you emotionally.

Other signs of toxicity include physical, emotional, and mental violence, substance misuse, narcissistic behavior, anger management issues, and co-dependency.

On top of that, other glaring relationship red flags are things like conflict avoidance, constant jealousy, gaslighting, a lack of emotional intelligence, love bombing, the partner’s attempts to socially isolate you, and an unwillingness to communicate openly.

#10

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
He did a poll at the party to see if my shirt neckline was disrespectful to him. I was wearing a basic white shirt šŸ™ˆšŸ˜†
ronjaahonen, Ionela Mat
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39points

#11

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
He got jealous BECAUSE I HAD A BROTHER.
one01._, cottonbro studio
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38points

#12

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
Got jealous of me serving male customers (I'm a waitress).
tinywavey, Tima Miroshnichenko
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38points

This is a sensitive topic, but if you feel like sharing your stories about the most toxic things your ex-partners have ever said or done, feel free to do so in the comments, dear Pandas.

What advice would you give anyone who feels stuck in a bad relationship? What are the biggest relationship red flags for you personally? Let us know.

#13

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
Robbed my parents house and said he had no control over his body.
natalie_long_, Rann Vijay
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35points

#14

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
Promised to take me to Disneyland one day, together 12 years. Told my friends he had booked it as a surprise for my 30th so not to make plans. 30th came, no Disney. In fact made no plans at allā€¦ used it as a way to make my friends look bad for not doing anything for my Bday, and make them look like terrible friends šŸ’”
the.origin.of.luck, Capricorn song
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34points

#15

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
He was crazy jealous because I put my horse as my wallpaper instead of him.
soophie_sk, Luisa Peter
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31points

#16

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
Accused me of cheating every single day then cheated on ME.
harpaeow, RDNE Stock project
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31points

#17

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
He locked me up in his apartment without any hygiene products when I was on my period and then told me to ā€œjust sit on a towel.ā€
vanessa.arnholdt, Jaye Haych
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31points

#18

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
I was delivering his baby and he decided to go home and sleep. Things went bad and he was called to come because I was taken for emergency C-section. He arrived saw the baby and left after 5 mins.
stavroulas_life, Getty Images
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31points

#19

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
He admitted he was glad my dog had just passed away unexpectedly because the grief had made me more vulnerable and easier to taken advantage of.
thechesapeakekitchen, Caleb Fisher
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31points

#20

45 People Recall The Wildest Behavior From Their Exes That Proved They Dodged A Bullet
I asked him while sobbing, ā€œDoes hurting me not hurt you???ā€ And he said ā€œI'm Batman. I don't have feelings.ā€
danaisbanned
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30points
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