60 Parents Who Are Living Proof That Not Everyone Is Cut Out For Raising Children

Meanwhile, children whose parents listen to their side of the story and treat a broken vase as an accident rather than a crime may grow into adults who are more comfortable standing up for themselves.

They might have an easier time telling their manager that a last-minute weekend shift doesn’t work for them or ending a first date early when the other person starts making rude comments about the waiter.

A long-term study of nearly 4,000 people found that those who grew up with warm, affectionate parents reported greater happiness and self-acceptance by middle age. They also tended to have stronger social connections and were less likely to experience depression or report substance use.

Ultimately, children carry the lessons they learn at home into the rest of their lives. The way they’re spoken to and the support they receive can influence how they see themselves and relate to others.

And while no parent can get everything right, everyone has the opportunity to reflect on their behavior and do better. After all, the goal is to raise happy, confident children who feel loved and are prepared to make their own way in the world.