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31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
Social IssuesMAY 5, 2023

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group

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We wanted to start this post by mentioning the old hit Losing My Religion, but the famous R.E.M. song is not about faith at all, but about unrequited love. Although, on the other hand, when a person turns away from religion, turns away from God in one sense or another, this can also be called unrequited love. Or a love that no longer exists.
Such love always leaves scars on the heart, and for many people who once believed in the one or many above, they obviously needed a very good reason to turn their backs on religion. And this now-viral thread has just those people as well as their reasons.

#1

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
The hypocritical behavior of deeply religious people.
207points

#2

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
Lack of evidence supporting the existence of god.
194points

#3

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
When my religion had 120 billion dollars in a slush fund, owned 2% of the land in the United States, and made no effort to help the world with those funds.
187points

The very concept of "religion" is of Latin origin and can be literally translated as "bound by an oath" or "bound by faith." In other words, not just faith, but a conscious limitation of oneself in following this faith: following a certain set of moral norms and types of behavior, ritual actions, external signs and attitudes towards the world.

According to the World Population Review, in 2020 about 85% of the world's people identified themselves with a religion. This is in fact incredibly much, although, probably, out of the remaining fifteen percent, some have at least several times in their lives visited places of worship or taken part in some religious rituals. In other words, religion surrounds us like air, and it can be very painful to abandon it even for a modern person.

#4

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
It turned its back on me first. I’m gay.
179points

#5

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
Too many unanswered questions and double standards.
149points

#6

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
Had an abusive father growing up , and no matter how much I prayed god did nothing.
145points

By the way, these are not isolated cases, but a real trend. According to statistics given by the British sociologist Stephen Bullivant in his book Nonverts: The Making of Ex-Christian America, if in 1972 the number of Americans with no religious affiliation was 5% (and if we take into account people under 30 years, then 10%), then in 2018 the same indicators were 23% and 34%, respectively.

Bullivant says the majority of this shift is caused by people actively leaving the religion of their childhood (the “nonverts” of the title), not because they were born into nonreligious families (though that trend is coming). In other words, there are many reasons for people to turn away from religion, but this is rather an objective historical process.

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31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
I grew up as a Christian and even spent a little time working in ministry. For years there were some nagging things that just didn’t add up for me. I worked for Child Protection Services for years and decided any God that has the power to prevent heinous abuse against his supposed innocent, but doesn’t, is either a sadist I don’t want to worship, or simply non existent. If this all started between God and Satan they can leave me the f**k out of it. It’s the b******t manufactured responses from Christians that were the nail on the coffin.
142points

#8

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
People put religion first over being a good human being
135points

#9

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
I come from a fairly religious family (some are very, others, not so much, some not at all).
I became an atheist at the age of six.
Why?
Simply put, I could see, even then, how badly religion is use to manipulate, control, bully, intimidate, and attack people. And I wanted NO part of that.
133points

And if there is a historical process, that means that it is possible to model scenarios for its development. So, according to the Pew Research Center, which researched four such scenarios, in all four religiously unaffiliated Americans are projected to approach or exceed Christians in number by 2070. Yes, our society is really losing our religion, and the process looks unstoppable and impetuous - from a historical point of view, of course.

#10

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
What they taught didn’t make any sense
130points

#11

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
when MFers got ten grand for a robe and a gold ring and a gold cup but gives out soup and bread like they doin a grand thing. Oh and [abusing] children that part pisses me off.
Churches should be charged 75% taxes
125points

#12

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
A very religious friend once told me "It's a shame you don't believe in god, you're a nice person and don't deserve to burn for eternity." I was like...if that actually happens, your god is an a*****e and I wouldn't worship them even if it was proven without a doubt that that god existed.
I'm open to the idea of a higher power. I don't think it's impossible that life was seeded on Earth by higher beings. But I'd want to see the evidence before I believed it and I certainly don't think that millionairs who demand money from the poor are the people spreading the word of any kind of saviour.
111points

Be that as it may, we are now in 2023, not 2070, and each of the people who turn away from religion has their own motivation, their own story. So please feel free to scroll to the very end of this list, read these stories and maybe share your own in the comments. After all, as John Lennon used to sing, “imagine there's no countries - it isn't hard to do. Nothing to kill or die for, and no religion too...”

#13

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
Critical thinking.
95points

#14

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
Because it is nonsense.
A structure build by certain people to control and benefit from the not-so-sharp knives in the drawer.
If it makes these people have a reason to be "good" in the fear of an almigthy punishing them... Fine with me.
I prefer to be a good person just because, I'm fully responsible for my actions and have no need for imaginary friends to blame.
93points

#15

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
Was being lectured to "not want material things" by someone driving a Hummer
91points

#16

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
I found my own path to spirituality.
91points

#17

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
I'm autistic. So when I asked a clarifying question ( as I am want to do) at age 6 in sunday school i was told
"Dont ask questions"
And that was the end of that.
85points

#18

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
The fact there are over 4,000 religions in existence today. Which one of them is right?!
South Park did a great episode on this btw, where everyone died and I think only the Mormans went to heaven, all other religions went to hell, because turns out they were incorrect in choosing their faith. Epitomised how ridiculous religion is.
That and everything else already said in this thread.
82points

#19

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
I was forced to go to church Sunday morning, Sunday night, Wednesday night, for years. Even as a young person I started seeing the bias and hypocrisy in organized religion when a teacher was trying to tell me if you 'didn't know Jesus you were condemned to hell'. I asked 'what about the Indians'? And the teacher had no answer for me. Didn't make sense to me that a 'loving God' would send a whole group of people to hell because they hadn't been exposed to the bible.
Over time the fact that churches tend to be cliquish and are always begging for money that generally gets spent to big bigger and 'better' churches just left a bad taste in my mouth.
I also have a hard time believing that a book that a bunch of 'old' guys at the time wrote based on stories told by mouth over hundreds or thousands of years is really the 'word of God'.
I still believe in a higher power and intelligent design but I am not going to follow the teachings of organized religion. I do believe in basic ethics and standards of how to treat your fellow human beings but I don't need some fat dude in a cheap suit telling me how to behave every Sunday morning.
70points

#20

31 Things That Shook People’s Faith In Religion, As Shared In This Online Group
The OPs question is a fallacy, that people "become" atheists for a reason. The false assumption is that faith is the natural state for all people, so there must be a triggering event (e.g. loss of a loved one, an accident, etc) that caused the individual to leave the "correct" state and enter into an aberrant state of non-belief.
In reality, belief in a god or other mystical reality is the aberrant behavior, begun by early privative culture and perpetuated by training each new generation.
I "turned my back on religion" when I went away to college and realized there was no reason at all for me to go to church on Sunday. There was no meaning in it. I shrugged and moved on with my life.
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