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38 People Share Traditions And Social Norms They Absolutely Hate
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38 People Share Traditions And Social Norms They Absolutely Hate

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Change is constant. But it takes time. Especially when we're talking about society. After all, one person's idea of what is good or positive might very well be another person's definition of bad or negative.
Interested in which processes people would like to speed up if given a chance, Reddit user NewImprovement1160 asked everyone else on the platform to list the traditions and cultural norms they wish would disappear for good. And their call was answered — continue scrolling to check out the most popular answers.

#1

38 People Share Traditions And Social Norms They Absolutely Hate
I'm Spanish, so bullfighting would be a great one to get rid of.
193points

#2

38 People Share Traditions And Social Norms They Absolutely Hate
Tipping. Just pay the waiter/waitress a real wage and stop leaving that up to the customer.
184points

#3

Chop off puppies' tail bones so they "look cuter" with stumps.
It's cruel and disheartening.
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161points

#5

Changing the damn clocks twice a year. Just keep one time.
158points

#6

38 People Share Traditions And Social Norms They Absolutely Hate
Any variation of "let's make animals fight".
155points

#7

38 People Share Traditions And Social Norms They Absolutely Hate
All those familiy vloggers. Exploiting their children en putting them on the internet for all the creeps to see.
137points

#8

38 People Share Traditions And Social Norms They Absolutely Hate
Not sure if this counts as a "tradition"- but there are a lot of weirdly accepted social norms surrounding pregnancy.
* Asking newlyweds when they are going to try for a baby.
* Assuming a woman is pregnant because she is not drinking.
* Assuming a woman is pregnant because she has gained weight in her belly area.
* Touching (!!!?????) a pregnant woman's belly without her consent (!!!???).
Women are women first before they are mothers! Can we please remember that?
121points

#10

Letting balloons go at funerals, it’s horrible for the environment and the animals that ingest it. Plant a memorial tree instead.
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106points

#11

38 People Share Traditions And Social Norms They Absolutely Hate
Forcing children to give hugs and kisses bye to family members. Children deserve bodily autonomy and you would never force a grown adult to do the same so why a child?!
105points

#12

I'd like to throw in stupid over the top gender reveals with all the wedding stuff. If you're literally killing yourself to let people know your baby's gender, it might be time to take a step back and plan something more quiet and simple. Or if you're just inconsiderate pricks who don't clean up all the confetti etc afterwards.
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102points

#13

Respecting parents/elders no matter what. Some of them are just bad people.
94points

#14

38 People Share Traditions And Social Norms They Absolutely Hate
Expensive wedding and funerals, specially with funerals, that person is already dead.
88points

#15

38 People Share Traditions And Social Norms They Absolutely Hate
Smashing of the face on the birthday cake.
83points

#17

38 People Share Traditions And Social Norms They Absolutely Hate
Bachelor and Bachelorette parties that are there to celebrate "your last day of freedom"
And also theyre weirdly sexual sometimes with the phalic shaped things or strippers. Id be pissed if MY husband was MOURNING what he could have had on the night before our wedding by ogling some half naked chick.
81points

#18

38 People Share Traditions And Social Norms They Absolutely Hate
For Americans, Black Friday shopping. It's stupid, dangerous, selfish, and ruins Thanksgiving. Go spend time with your families while they're alive.
80points

#19

38 People Share Traditions And Social Norms They Absolutely Hate
Having women doing all of the kitchen work at parties and get togethers.
80points

#20

Piercing babies ears.
79points
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