#1 My Aunt’s Skeevy Boyfriend Went From Asking What My Husband And I Want For Christmas To This Garbage In 2 Minutes
#2 I Understand Coming Out Can Be Difficult, But Cheating On Your Wife Of 20+ Years Isn’t Okay
There is an online community called r/niceguys that features some of the worst cases of people pretending to be nice, only to put down others when they don’t get their own way. ‘Nice guys,’ no matter their gender, tend to be jealous, controlling, and spiteful.
‘Nice guys,’ like the ones portrayed on the r/niceguys subreddit, as well as other online communities, are all about creating the appearance of being kind, wholesome, and supportive. The reality, unfortunately, is often very different.
#5 Going Your Whole Pregnancy Knowing Your Boyfriend/Husband May Not Be The Father, Yet Still Leading Him On Is One Of The Most Emotionally Abusive Things You Can Do To Someone
#6 It’s Been A Week Since I Kicked Him Out And Went N.c. This Morning, I Transferred My Anger Onto Paper
They usually have confidence issues that run very deep. They tend to be extremely jealous, and attempt to control who their significant others spend time with.
Their personal insecurities lead to relationships that are very unhealthy because they’re built on a foundation of suspicion and paranoia.
Anyone can tell you that if you take trust out of the equation, you’ve got a relationship that’s pretty much doomed to fail. It’s not really a relationship if you’re always accusing your partner of lying to you or being unfaithful.
In some of the situations presented in this list, there are a few ways to tackle the problems at their source. The first is to have an open and honest conversation with your significant other about their behavior.
#10 Podcaster Says He Would Leave Her Wife If She 'Lets Herself' Go After Childbirth
Explain your position. Tell them how you feel when they don’t trust you or talk down to you. Set some clear and healthy boundaries. Though, keep in mind, a single conversation won’t save your relationship—it’ll take time and effort for real change to happen.
If that doesn’t work, you may want to consider couples counseling. Having a neutral third party give you a helping hand can work wonders. However, not all relationships can—or should—be saved.
#13 My Facebook Friend Posted Her Boyfriends Debit Card Info Because He Wouldn’t Give Her $40 To Get Her Nails Done
#14 My Sisters Boyfriend Trying To Guilt Her By Saying He Helped Her With Problems
#15 Looking For Fun (Aka Sex) While Husband Is Deployed, But You Must Attractive Smart And Drug Free To Cheat With Her
If your partner is physically or emotionally abusing you, reach out to a counselor or an organization for advice specific to your situation. These professionals can support you as you consider what to do next. There is no excuse for abuse.
#16 Girl Accuses Boyfriend Of Leaving Her After He And His Family Discover She's Been Faking Her Pregnancy For 8 Months
#17 Context: He Posted A Pic Of Himself And His Wife On R/Tinder And Then Commented This S**t - His Brother In Law Then Saw The Post And The Comment
#18 Husband Who Is Struggling To Make Ends Meet Gets Mad At Wife For"Lowering Herself" Because She Found Coupons In The Trash To Feed Her Kids
What separates ‘nice guys’ from everyone else is the lack of genuine confidence. These ‘nice guys’ have a victim mentality and lash out at the people around them when things don’t go their way.
Again, this isn’t gender-specific: anyone can be toxic, it’s not just guys who are jerks.
