Ladies, you know when a man is dialing it in emotionally, stop pretending as if he’s this great actor that has you fooled. He knows you don’t feel loved because he knows he isn’t showing you real love! If you felt loved, you wouldn’t have to beg for his attention. If you felt loved, you wouldn’t be tripping about when your wedding ring is coming. If you felt loved, you wouldn’t be up at night worrying about if you are good enough. He says he "loves" you, but when was the last time you’ve FELT as if he loved you? If your mind just raced back to different examples of when he did something nice, then you’re in denial. A WOMAN WHO IS TRULY LOVED DOESN'T NEED TO THINK ABOUT THE THINGS A MAN HAS DONE IN THE PAST, SHE KNOWS FROM THE WAY SHE FEELS CURRENTLY.
Walk away from the man who proclaims to love you in private but fails to show you in public. He tells you he loves you but nobody knows about you. He'll seem perfect with the way he talks to you even expresses himself through text but when it comes to being committed he says he's not ready. Walk away from a man who makes you feel alone. Walk away from a man who makes you feel like your love is not good enough. Walk away from a man who is too childish, it is not your job to raise him.
Walk away from the man who fixes his lips to say "lets just go with the flow and see where things go" Men know who and what they want if weeks and months go by and he's still on the fence about being official he's not ready and is keeping his options open. Walk away from a man who is quick to say he misses you and wants to be with you but his words don't match his actions because he is still not with you. Walk away from a man who refuses to stop flirting with other women. Walk away from a man who doesn't treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Walk away from a man who is too toxic, all he does for you is bring you stress and misery. Walk away from a man who verbally disrespects you, physically abuses you. Walk away from a man who makes no time for you.
Being a good woman means that sometimes you have to accept that some men just aren't ready for that real type of love, and move on. Otherwise a yr later you will regret staying in a relationship that was based solely on your love and not his. The greatest power you have is self love. Love yourself with the same love you are trying to love a man and you will never fall victim to a no good man whose only intentions are to manipulate his way into your pants. Don't dismiss any red flags waving at you in the beginning, because once you catch feelings those same red flags you dismissed will be the same red flags causing you heartbreak!
