Women Are Sharing Specific Behaviors That They're Tired Of Seeing Men Do (50 Answers)

Making choices about women’s rights and women’s bodies when they have no f*****g clue what we as women go through and experience.

If a woman tells you she's a lesbian when you're flirting, it means one of two things:

- 1: She is a lesbian.

- 2: She is pretending to be a lesbian so you'll stop flirting with her.

Either way, you should stop flirting.

Please stop sending d**k pics to random women online. It's just straight up creepy and gross. If a woman wants to see your d**k, she'll ask for a picture.

Confuse politeness or kindness with flirting

When you need to get past me, please don't put your hands on my waist/hips/lower back to move me aside. I don't know you. Stop touching me.

Please stop treating us like appliances. We aren’t your cheap labor, your free therapist, your perfect breeding animal, your expert chef and your twenty four seven child care. We are not replaceable or inferior or substitute for a punching bag.

We are people. And you can stop excusing your behavior as traditional or biological or anatomical. You do know better.

Assuming that when we are on a mood we have our period

being mean to girls they find unattractive

One reason many women liked wearing masks was that they could mind their own business for once in public without getting scanned for their facial expressions.

Stop putting more effort into shouting " Not all men" then you do in making sure your friends aren't being creeps.

A good rule of thumb is if you wouldn't touch a man that way to get past them, don't touch a woman that way.

Dismissing our safety concerns and trying to gaslight us out of taking basic precautions.

Leaving pee on the toilet seat or floor and not wiping it up

Following women when they’re walking. I’ve been followed by cars, followed by men yelling at me, had dead silent men follow me to work and then stand outside, follow my friends to a bar we’re walking to, etc. It isn’t all men, sure. But most women have been followed. I don’t know why they do it, to feel powerful I guess? To instill fear that they know where I work or what bus I take?

Edit: every dude in my replies arguing about how they sometimes are behind a woman and what are they supposed to do, just know that if you’re not being creepy it isn’t an issue. That’s not what I’m talking about. In this context followed vs walked behind are 2 VERY different things. If you’re simply walking behind a woman who appears freaked out it’s probably because she has been antagonistically followed or verbally or even physically harassed/threatened/harmed. As long as you aren’t being creepy, you’re good.

If you’re worried that you appear like you’re following her, my advice would be to call someone and chat (like a couple people recommended in my replies), this makes it so it’s obvious she isn’t a target of yours or even on your mind, you’re busy going about your life. OR either slow down or speed up and pass her. Don’t match her pace so that she sees you keeping stride in the corner of her eye, that’s so scary. And lastly, have some sympathy. Women don’t act afraid with the intention of insulting you, they act afraid out of protection of themselves.

Please. God.
Some men don't wash their a**es when they shower. Because it feels "gay"
Stop worrying so much about being a macho manly man. Being secure in your manhood is way hotter.
Go wash your a*s.

Not calling out other "bros" for misogynistic behavior.

Thinking their wives are live-in maids. It’s not your wife’s responsibility to replace your crusty socks, underwear, or make you a doctor’s appointment unless you’re actually ill or otherwise impaired.

Like, does my partner have to deal with my menstrual cup? N o. Never.

I wish men would stop needing to be told to do something around the house. They have eyes, most of them can clearly see that the trash is overflowing or that they left their dishes out. Pick up after yourself. Learn how to feed yourself and dress yourself. Stop waiting on your SO to be your mommy. Being a man is not an excuse for you to not be able to take care of yourself like a grown up.

Playing the "what about men" game when someone is talking about a women's specific issue. If you care about a men's issue that's amazing! I love it, I'm here for it. Don't hijack a conversation about women to talk about it. Start a different thread, cause, conversation, etc.

catcalling. what's the purpose? i don't want to have sex with you just because you screamed "nice tits" at me from your car