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???: don’t you have a boyfriend though?
Her: Oh nah we broke up a couple weeks back.
Didn’t tell her I saw it, acted like we were going to dinner, dropped her at a friends house and as I kicked her out of the car told her that I hope I handled our breakup a few weeks back well. Got some angry texts from her about what a jerk I was for invading her privacy despite the conversation being on a large screen that I didn’t even try to look at. Maybe I was a jerk for how I handled it but I also didn’t care. Anyway now I have a pretty solid life and she’s in jail for the foreseeable future so I’d say I dodged a bullet.
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That made for an awkward communication to her parents.
Let’s talk about secrets, which, though common in daily life, are still fascinating. The word “secret” comes from the Latin secretus, which means “set apart” or “hidden.” In English, it first showed up in the late 1300s to describe something that was concealed or kept from public knowledge. So, it’s always been about putting information where others can’t easily find it.
The word “secretary” has an even more interesting background. In the late 1300s, a secretarie was someone trusted with private or confidential matters. By about 1400, the job also included keeping records and handling correspondence, often for important people like kings. It makes sense that secretaries are known for handling sensitive information.
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Edit- for everyone saying stuff about at least it isn’t the pink one. He actually just got married to the girl in the group who dressed up as the pink power ranger.
Also thank you for all the upvotes and awards!
Companies may try for years to control information, but their own paperwork often keeps a record. WorldCom was involved in one of the biggest accounting scandals in U.S. history. The company made its profits look higher by wrongly listing regular operating costs as capital expenses.
This made the company's expenses seem lower and its profits appear much higher than they really were. During the investigation, officials went through the general ledger, accounting records, almost two million pages of documents, about 1.2 million emails, and over 400,000 attachments to piece together what happened.
Enron is another example of how secrets are difficult to hide once they are in a company's records. The SEC charged former executives with schemes to manipulate financial results and with breaking rules about books, records, reporting, and internal controls. Investigators also collected many emails, spreadsheets, reports, correspondence, and other internal documents.
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Anyway, later in the evening my phone was running low an battery so I asked if they had a charger I could borrow. I was told there was one in the top drawer of a dresser. So I went there, but there were two top drawers so I just opened the first one and it was stuffed with debt collection claims and payment reminders. It was so full, it was about to spill out onto the floor.
The other drawer had the charger.
After that I have always been sceptical of people showing off their lavish lifestyles on social media.
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Major no-no as the health inspector told her that the milk was not from an approved source. Different pasteurization standards and she could not guarantee the milk was kept cold as she traveled across the US/Canada border.
Milk is quite a bit cheaper in the US (especially at that time), so she bought it there to save money. I caught her pouring US milk into empty Canadian jugs, which she had sanitized by rinsing only.
To make it even more devious, she scratched off the expiry dates. I let the health inspector know.
Al Capone was known for his involvement in organized crime, but the case that finally put him behind bars was about taxes. Treasury investigators spent years tracking his income and financial dealings.
In 1931, a federal jury found Capone guilty of tax evasion. He was sentenced to 11 years in prison and still owed back taxes. His criminal empire had survived violence and rival gangs, but he could not escape the evidence on paper.
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I was also not due the 35% raise that came my way the following month but hey.
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Perhaps one of humanity's most famous secrets is Area 51. While many people connect it with aliens and flying saucers, the real secret was much more down to earth. The CIA used this remote Nevada site to test the U-2 and A-12 OXCART spy planes and to train pilots in secret.
Because Area 51 was so isolated, it was easier to keep these top-secret programs hidden from the public. Over time, the mystery around the site led to decades of rumors and speculation about what was really going on there.
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The Manhattan Project was a highly secret U.S. effort to build an atomic nuke during World War II. Thousands of scientists, engineers, soldiers, and workers contributed to it without necessarily knowing the full purpose of their work. On December 2, 1942, scientists achieved the first controlled, self-sustaining nuclear chain reaction.
Some secrets are more troubling. Project MKUltra, officially approved in 1953, supported research on changing behavior using substances and hypnosis. In 1977, the CIA admitted that some experiments used people who did not know they were part of the studies, and records show secret tests took place in safehouses in New York and San Francisco.
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Not all secrets are lighthearted or interesting. Challenging experiences in childhood can continue to matter well into adulthood. Research shows that adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) are linked to adult health and well-being. According to a CDC survey of U.S. adults from 2011 to 2020, 63.9% reported at least one ACE, and 17.3% reported four or more.
For some, these experiences later become part of a broader discussion about mental health. CDC data show that in 2023, 23.9% of U.S. adults received mental health treatment in the past year, up from 19.2% in 2019. Treatment included medication, counseling, or therapy from a mental health professional.
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Edit: Q&A
Q: games played on N64?
A:Smash, Star Wars squadrons, banjo kazooie, Diddy Kong and golden eye he had a mixed bunch of games and was pretty well off.
Q: what is your friend up to have you reconnected?
A:Friend is starting a family, was some how to find him through LinkedIn and chat through there other than that we never spoke about what happened
Q:Where was the dad?
A:dad was out for the night/weekend for a fishing trip from memory?
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Edit: this happened years ago while a freshman in college and was either a lipo or tummy tuck i don’t remember. He told me the doc only did those and Botox if I remember correctly. This was done in a low middle class neighborhood so not super ghetto. To me it was not done in a clean environment but who am I to judge lol.
Edit2: This happened in Houston Texas when I was visiting family/friends one weekend while in college. He wanted me to follow him after he checked to see if his parents were around. He told me to follow him and ran but I was sitting down across the room so I got up, turned the corner to the kitchen which connected to the living room to leave thru the front door. He wanted me to leave out the back door thru his sister’s room but I didn’t see him turn that way (he should have waited for me lol).
Edit 3 (last?): I texted him and he said the doctor got caught a few years ago for transporting Botox, antibiotics and pain pills and his parents haven’t heard from him in awhile. He apparently only did weight loss stuff and did discount diagnosis for the poor. Told people if stuff was serious enough to go get appointments/test done.
Humanity has never been particularly good at leaving secrets alone. We hide things, uncover things, accidentally see things, and then tell our friends about them. Some secrets change history, others change families, and a few simply make for an unforgettable story.
There is a strange beauty to secrets: someone always wants to know. Maybe that is what makes secrets so fascinating.
Have you ever accidentally discovered a secret you were never meant to know? Share your story in the comments… we promise not to tell.
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Edit: I read through all the comments :) I did just want to clarify a few things. While I don't feel this way about my own children, I can certainly understand people blowing off steam. For what it's worth, when I read the entry, it didn't come as much as a surprise. We always had a strain relationship, even from the time it was a young child. She just never want the responsibility of having a child I think.
I would describe a relationship now with her as superficial. And I would describe her as very emotionally stunted. In many ways, she reminds me of a teenager and I've definitely taken on the more sensible / adult role in our relationship. The bottom line is whenever she feels slighted, she will lash out emotionally to make the other person feel hurt. I think she has deep-seeded control issues that probably stem from being hurt herself. I am doing my absolute best to finally break this cycle. If anyone has any resources, particularly books or podcasts , aboit overcoming things like this, I would highly welcome them. I believe I am a wonderful mom, but I also can sometimes feel my mom's tendencies creep up inside me.


