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ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths

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The first iPhone was made in 2007, and today, a smartphone is the one thing that most of us have. In 2022, half of Americans said they can't imagine their lives without their smartphones, and 83% of adults keep their smartphones near them almost all the time during waking hours.
But it's not just our own smartphones we love: we're no strangers to snooping through other people's phones, too. When it comes to our partners, 19% of Americans admit they've gone through their SO's phone without permission.
What's on their phone can say a lot about a person and can even be a gateway to their innermost world. Sometimes, we take a peek and see something that surprises us – both in good and bad ways.
Recently, people shared the wildest and most wholesome things they've seen on someone else's phone when netizen @simplysamythings asked: "What's something you saw on someone's phone… that changed how you see them forever?"

#1

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
My husband has a notes tab with any and everything I ever mentioned I liked or wanted. I’m talking links to the items, prices, places we were at, specific scents, colors, flavors, my coffee order 😭
85points

#2

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
The old-school version of this...dad has my baby photo still in his wallet. He's 79 and I'm 54 ā¤ļø
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77points

#3

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
For the longest time, I thought my husband has never asked to take a picture of me/me with kids, etc. I have to ask him. 2 months ago I was looking for a photo in his phone. I found HUNDREDS of me that he has been taking forever without me knowing. Me in my happiest moments. Me with our babies. 15 years and this felt like our first date.
75points

When it comes to your romantic partner, experts generally don't recommend snooping through their phone. They say that however you want to look at it, it's still a breach of trust. If you feel the urge to go through your partner's phone, it probably means one of these three things:

You don't trust them. A partner might not have anything to hide but still not want to give you their phone because that just feels a bit icky. "Curiosity is one thing but actively going through someone's phone is an exercise of mistrust," licensed clinical psychologist Dr. Tirrell DeGannes explains.

#4

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
[After loss of my fiancĆ©], I was going through his phone and he had so many pictures of me just in our daily life. I had no idea he ever took those, I could see me through his lens…it deeply changed me. I miss him so much.
74points

#5

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
I had a friend who was texting her [late brother] for 2 years straight after. Just chatting without a response. It made me realize how much she was truly grieving.
62points

#6

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
My dad and step mom’s texts during my high school graduation about how embarrassed they were I didn’t graduate with honors and comparing me to other students…. Grabbed my diploma and dipped. no contact with them 7 years laterāœŒšŸ»
60points

You feel insecure. People with self-esteem issues might think they don't deserve their partner or keep thinking they're not enough, so, their partner is looking to fulfill their needs somewhere else. It may come down to past experiences. "The person checking the other's phone has some reason to feel insecurity in the relationship, whether it be a history of being cheated on, lied to, or being told in the past that they'd have to be vigilant in order to prevent themselves from the inevitability of being cheated on," Dr. DeGannes says.

#7

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
My oldest daughter screenshot a group text b/w my wife and 3 daughters talking about me. My wife was planning a random special dinner for me and she was explaining how much I do for this family and how much she relies on me and what I mean to her. After 31 years of marriage, I didn’t think I could love her more…I was wrong.
58points

#8

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
I saved all the photos from [my late mother's] phone. She had saved SO MANY positive quotes and had taken sweet selfies of herself through her cancer treatments. The week before she left a note in her notes app for me knowing I’d find it telling me how special I was.
55points

#9

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
My bf has a reminder on his phone set for everyday to do Duolingo and learn Vietnamese for me.
50points

You suspect cheating. If an individual is having doubts about their partner's fidelity, the couple needs to have an open conversation. If you already have reason to believe they're cheating and even have evidence, confront them with it. But insisting on invading your partner's privacy by snooping through their phone without anything other than a hunch might veer on the side of paranoia.

#10

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
My sister's text saying ā€œshe’s so selfish couldn’t even make it to mom's funeralā€ uhm I had just given birth & was in the ICU fighting for my life & almost joined our momšŸ˜‘but I’m selfish.
49points

#11

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
Got[my late dad's] phone and he had a message typed out to me he never sent, it said "Woke up thinking about you. I love you."
47points

#12

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
And hour after I gave birth, a notification came up on his phone from a random number. I clicked on it and it pulled up multiple flirty messages, including I love you. He had been texting this girl the entire time I was in labor... yeah I’ll never forget that.
47points

In 2013, Clean Master asked Americans about what things they were hiding on their phones. 52% of the respondents said they would be embarrassed if friends or family could see the stuff on their phones. The thing most Americans don't want others to see on their phones is their bank account information. But they also don't want others going through their texts written (24%), texts received (23%), websites visited (15%), and, of course, adult content (10%).

#13

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
My dad’s background on his phone is a picture of me & my sister. My sister is biological his & I’m not biologically his but he raised mešŸ’ž
47points

#14

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
I found out [my late dad] saved EVERY photo of me and my kids. When he said we were his world he really meant it.
45points

#15

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
We checked [my late grandma's] phone and there was an unsent text to me that said ā€œbye Makayla love you my gorgeous young lady.ā€
44points

How about you, Pandas? Have you ever seen something on a friend or partner's phone and gotten the biggest ick possible? Share your experiences with us in the comments! Also, if you would like to see some funny interactions between people after they've texted the wrong number, check out the funniest posts right here!

#16

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
My husband has a reminder every day for 8:00pm that says ā€œdo something nice for Janeā€ I occasionally see it go off and it reminds me I married the man of my dreams 🄺
42points

#17

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
Ex husband talking to his best friend about how he couldn’t wait to go to a hooters like establishment to see a decent body. I’d just given birth to this 3rd child. šŸ™ƒ
38points

#18

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
All [my late dad's] passwords were of my brother, my mom or me. Like "bestdayoflife030981".
33points

#19

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
My husband.s boss was sitting in front of me and she was texting her daughter's boyfriend ā€œI love you so much handsome babyā€ while her daughter was sitting across the table from her WITH THE GUY AND HE WAS LOOKING DOWN, SMILING AT HIS PHONE.
33points

#20

ā€œI’m Forever Traumatizedā€: 45 Times Phones Helped Uncover Hidden Truths
I saw [my late dad] spent every Tuesday sending encouraging messages to people on FB. ā€œI always knew you would be a big success.ā€ And he had 3 favorites in his contacts - my siblings and me.
33points
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